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Lili Marlene Wrote:
Here's a quote from the Australian web site that whinges about aspie parents

Quote:
Our parents often...

could not "know" us or give us recognition

could not "mirror" us

did not know how to hold us

did not know how to touch us

held us captive to their monologues and obsessions

did not recognise our boundaries ie that we were different from them


I could say the same things about my neurotypical parent. I was raised as though I was an NT like my parent. I was held captive to my NT parent's obsession with attending social events. I remember many long boring miserable hours spent at noisy parties, wishing I could find something interesting to read or play with.

If I had the time I would start a whinger web site for aspie offspring of NT parents.

Quote:
Aspar does not receive
funding or subsidies for its pioneering work.

and I don't think it deserves to either.


this is one of the reasons i don't want to be a parent.


sorry for the bad spelling. "Come as you are and your be loved"-motto of Calvary community church XD
01-24-2010 08:44 AM
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