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RE: I wouldn't want to be cured, what about you?

I wouldn't say 'I love me' but I definitely wouldn't want to be cured!
I'm me, I've been me for 25 years, and if I got rid of my AS traits I wouldn't be me anymore. I'm used to being me!


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04-12-2007 07:51 PM
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My answer will forever be 'no' Big GrinTongue

04-12-2007 08:38 PM
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RE: I wouldn't want to be cured, what about you?

DogBrain Wrote:

erkolos Wrote:
Not wanting to be cured isn't the best argument we got agains't curebie parents



Here's how they respond to that:

"You say you don't want to be cured, but your brain is broken, so what you want or don't want doesn't matter."

Nah, that just sound nazi. I don't think curebie parents say that directly.


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04-12-2007 09:12 PM
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Even if they could cure AS, which I doubt would ever happen, I would not want to be cured of the way I am.


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04-12-2007 10:11 PM
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RE: I wouldn't want to be cured, what about you?

erkolos Wrote:

DogBrain Wrote:

erkolos Wrote:
Not wanting to be cured isn't the best argument we got agains't curebie parents



Here's how they respond to that:

"You say you don't want to be cured, but your brain is broken, so what you want or don't want doesn't matter."

Nah, that just sound nazi. I don't think curebie parents say that directly.


they might imply it though.

04-13-2007 12:07 AM
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I would. The fact I have been to the Doctor's many times is proof of this. On my days off I am happy being different, but at work being able to 'fit in' would allow me to be better off and more independant. Knowing that is unlikely to happen is difficult to accept at times.

04-13-2007 12:18 AM
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RE: I wouldn't want to be cured, what about you?

Maybe I'm crazy, but I don't want to be cured either. Because of my AS, I'm facing homelessness in a matter of months... maybe weeks. I can't hold most minimum-wage jobs; I can't drive; and now I can't get any more loans to stay in school.

But... I'm me. I want to be who I am, not somebody else. AS isn't like depression or schizophrenia... it isn't a mental illness. It's a neurological condition, and that means it's part of the basic structure of my brain. It's part of who I am--not all of me, sure, but a significant part, and connected to every other part. If I changed that, I'd change who I am. The one thing I've fought all my life to keep--through bullying and abuse and cults and this current problem with money--is my own identity. When I was a little kid, and they tried to change me, I fought back... Sometimes they forced me to do what they wanted; but there was always a part of my mind that withdrew and kept me sane, kept my personality intact, kept me making my own decisions and holding my own values and beliefs.

If I gave that up... I wouldn't be myself anymore. It would be like dying.


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04-13-2007 02:15 AM
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DogBrain Wrote:

erkolos Wrote:
Not wanting to be cured isn't the best argument we got agains't curebie parents



Here's how they respond to that:

"You say you don't want to be cured, but your brain is broken, so what you want or don't want doesn't matter."


That's probably where I'd get really nasty and say something like "I challenge you to an IQ test."  When you get a diploma, it usually has a second copy in the form of a small laminated card.  I guess I'll have to start carrying the one from my master's degree around in my wallet, and if somebody gives me that "your brain is broken" crap, I'll just show them that and say, "Okay, let me see you earn yourself one of THESE!"  (I figure if somebody tells me my brain is broken, I've got the go-ahead to act like a snotty prick and fire back at their self-esteem.)

Callista, I hate to hear about that.  Maybe it's time for you to use this site for some networking.  (Maybe elaborate on it in the Work Issues forum.)  You're one of the most interesting posters here.


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04-13-2007 03:20 AM
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I would never want to be "cured", cure? hah! more like GIVE me a disease, the disease (sadly non-terminal), of neurotypicalityBig Grin


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04-13-2007 02:08 PM
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Emz07 Wrote:
Has anybody ever been told to just act 'normal' by someone who thinks that all people with disorders are attention seeking? --i hate these people, they simply do not wish to understand us. Sad

Yes, all too true unfortunately.


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04-14-2007 05:03 PM
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