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RE: How do you respond to the question "How are you?"

I hate the question too, especially at work or by sales people. I walk around with a little tape recorder and just press play and shoot out my set response when asked. Smile I have two different responses. This is because I had to take phone calls at work, so I'm expected to ask. I have a rhythm that I keep to. I say 'I'm well thankyou, how are you?'. Other than on the phone, my general response is 'Pretty good thanks' and I don't ask back. I find people who really care how you are don't use the question 'how are you'. Instead they will ask 'what have you been up to lately?', or 'what's been happening?'

10-16-2007 02:16 PM

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