The boyfriend gets his values from his mom. Where money is everything. I thought he was going to break up with me a month after we started dating when he told me his mom didn't like the fact I didn't have a job (I feel like a broken record with not having a job, but, yeah, when we met I didn't have a job). I bet his mom doesn't know half the things about me that I wish she did. Does she know I'm a musician? Does she know how well I did in school? That I'm talented and smart? Probably not. I would love to never have to worry abot money in my life but I would rather have a job/career I'm happy with, making enough to "get by". I never had money growing up so I'm used to it.