I found this neat program called GTick which is a artificial metronome.

What I was wondering is, would tapping my fingers along with the metronome help me in anyways learn rhythm ?

I know people learning to play the piano use a metronome to keep a certain rhythm and what I was thinking was why can't I do this to learn rhythm with the drums?

Well I can play already play the piano pretty decent, only thing is I have this problem with getting one hand to do another thing while one hand is doing one thing.

So will tapping my fingers in time to a metronome help me develop rhythm or Am I naive on what rhythm is?  

I can't really describe what I was doing wrong all these years when I do tap my fingers but one thing was certain, I didn't have any rhythm....

hmm, ok try downloading fruity loops, get the demo cos its free, but virus scan it first, or get it off the fruity loops website, then use the pattern screen on it to put rythms together, if you can get a decent rythm then just look at it and count it out, use the counting thing to figure out rhythm, it should be easy that way. if this doesnt make any sense to you feel free to reply and i'll try to explain it better good luck