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LadiKapitan
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Post: #1
Lets be diplomatic about this.

Instead of posting threads aimed to discuss me, lying and drawing negative attention to me: why don't we get this *** straight right here, and right now:

First and foremost. For those of you who aren't aware: I have high functioning,  classical Autism. I've managed it well over the years, and managed to graduate from college recently.

As you can see in my previous threads: I've been president of a neurodiversity club on campus, was class valedictorian, was a peer mentor for young students who have disabilities. I've also compiled various campus ideas to create an atmosphere of disability acceptance on campus.

I've been highly regarded amongst professors, school faculty etc.... as for my classmates, I've had issues with them due to AS/NT disconnect that most of you understand. Whether or not that is how it came across on this forum, that is fact. I see absolutely nothing wrong with me coming here, and venting about them. Id be damned if I have to hold my breath and refrain from expressing myself in real life, AND come on this forum only to be subject to that same scrutiny.

http://www.aspiesforfreedom.com/showthre...?tid=25023

http://www.aspiesforfreedom.com/showthre...?tid=24540

http://www.aspiesforfreedom.com/showthre...?tid=23836

http://www.aspiesforfreedom.com/showthre...?tid=24055

http://www.aspiesforfreedom.com/showthre...?tid=23990

http://www.aspiesforfreedom.com/showthre...?tid=24170

Perhaps I need to put these in my signature, once again.

Aside from that, I've offered support whenever I was able to.

I haven't told you all. EVERYTHING that has happened to me, that makes me behave in such a way. Why? Because maybe I'm not comfortableb telling the whole world. You guys have no idea what my life has been like. For all you know, I could have been sexually abused, adopted by mean uncaring parents, etc... you guys don't KNOW THAT. I'm not saying or minimizing anyone else's life experience. My point is: you guys have NO RIGHT, NONE, to judge me. You've no right to publicly embarrass me, or mistreat me as some of you have. I feel like I'm writing to a bunch of children (for all I know, maybe I am).

Having mentioned my positive activity, you guys have no right to take some negative posts of mine and judge me harshly for them, or embarass me. Furthermore, I do not appreciate the level some members have gone to harass me. I don't not appreciate it at all. How come this isn't noticed?
Meanwhile, Ladi writes about wanting a job, and everyone feels the need to go behind my back and write a thread about it.

I am not talking about ALL members, but I'm addressing the few that I've had negative interactions with lately.

Before you accuseme of being another member, I'm demanding proof. Otherwise, keep your thoughts to yourself. I hope that isn't hard to comprehend. Let's be adults, and settle this diplomatically. if you don't know how to do that, then tough.

By the way, I do appreciate what Gareth is doing. However, i suggest that Gareth might take a look at the people here, their intentions,and the climate. Maybe then, there would be less attacking going on.

08-26-2012 07:29 PM
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LadiKapitan
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RE: Lets be diplomatic about this.

Bumping to see how diplomatic you all can be. Or maybe you can't. Maybe there IS no reason after all to attack me, and do what you did, meaning that these things were written with MALCIOUS INTENT.

08-26-2012 07:59 PM
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RE: Lets be diplomatic about this.

OMG are there not enough threads?! Have we not hashed this out enough?  Have we not been clear enough?  Must this continue?  

NO!


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08-26-2012 08:05 PM
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RE: Lets be diplomatic about this.

Nope, this thread is not bait.  Totally not.  It's other people baiting you.


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08-26-2012 08:11 PM
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RE: Lets be diplomatic about this.

ConLang Wrote:
Nope, this thread is not bait.  Totally not.  It's other people baiting you.


More like Bull baiting :-/


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08-26-2012 08:22 PM
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LadiKapitan
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RE: Lets be diplomatic about this.

AspieMomma Wrote:
OMG are there not enough threads?! Have we not hashed this out enough?  Have we not been clear enough?  Must this continue?  

NO!


So you people dislike what I say. Big deal....I'm afraid that isn't my issue.

Unlike you people,I'm not too concerned with being liked.

08-26-2012 08:27 PM
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RE: Lets be diplomatic about this.

LadiKapitan Wrote:
Instead of posting threads aimed to discuss me, lying and drawing negative attention to me: why don't we get this *** straight right here, and right now:

First and foremost. For those of you who aren't aware: I have high functioning,  classical Autism. I've managed it well over the years, and managed to graduate from college recently.

As you can see in my previous threads: I've been president of a neurodiversity club on campus, was class valedictorian, was a peer mentor for young students who have disabilities. I've also compiled various campus ideas to create an atmosphere of disability acceptance on campus.

I've been highly regarded amongst professors, school faculty etc.... as for my classmates, I've had issues with them due to AS/NT disconnect that most of you understand. Whether or not that is how it came across on this forum, that is fact. I see absolutely nothing wrong with me coming here, and venting about them. Id be damned if I have to hold my breath and refrain from expressing myself in real life, AND come on this forum only to be subject to that same scrutiny.

http://www.aspiesforfreedom.com/showthre...?tid=25023

http://www.aspiesforfreedom.com/showthre...?tid=24540

http://www.aspiesforfreedom.com/showthre...?tid=23836

http://www.aspiesforfreedom.com/showthre...?tid=24055

http://www.aspiesforfreedom.com/showthre...?tid=23990

http://www.aspiesforfreedom.com/showthre...?tid=24170

Perhaps I need to put these in my signature, once again.

Aside from that, I've offered support whenever I was able to.

I haven't told you all. EVERYTHING that has happened to me, that makes me behave in such a way. Why? Because maybe I'm not comfortableb telling the whole world. You guys have no idea what my life has been like. For all you know, I could have been sexually abused, adopted by mean uncaring parents, etc... you guys don't KNOW THAT. I'm not saying or minimizing anyone else's life experience. My point is: you guys have NO RIGHT, NONE, to judge me. You've no right to publicly embarrass me, or mistreat me as some of you have. I feel like I'm writing to a bunch of children (for all I know, maybe I am).

Having mentioned my positive activity, you guys have no right to take some negative posts of mine and judge me harshly for them, or embarass me. Furthermore, I do not appreciate the level some members have gone to harass me. I don't not appreciate it at all. How come this isn't noticed?
Meanwhile, Ladi writes about wanting a job, and everyone feels the need to go behind my back and write a thread about it.

I am not talking about ALL members, but I'm addressing the few that I've had negative interactions with lately.

Before you accuseme of being another member, I'm demanding proof. Otherwise, keep your thoughts to yourself. I hope that isn't hard to comprehend. Let's be adults, and settle this diplomatically. if you don't know how to do that, then tough.

By the way, I do appreciate what Gareth is doing. However, i suggest that Gareth might take a look at the people here, their intentions,and the climate. Maybe then, there would be less attacking going on.




LadiKapitan Wrote:
I'm not too concerned with being liked.


This is obvious.


Brett Erlich Wrote:
Chris Christie is so fat, I was giving a presentation and he ate my pie charts.




All human beings are born free and equal in dignity and rights.   They are endowed with reason and conscience and should act towards one another in a spirit of brotherhood.

PROUD DISRUPTIVE DINGBAT

http://Siochanna.deviantart.com
http://neversubmit.xanga.com/

08-26-2012 08:35 PM
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LadiKapitan
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RE: Lets be diplomatic about this.

ConLang, either. You do as I requested, or you leave my thread. Simple enough for you???

08-26-2012 08:38 PM
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RE: Lets be diplomatic about this.

LadiKapitan Wrote:
ConLang, either. You do as I requested, or you leave my thread. Simple enough for you???


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08-26-2012 08:39 PM
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LadiKapitan
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RE: Lets be diplomatic about this.

Since this turned into an attack thread, ill post it again. The threads are attacks against me, and have been reported as such.

08-26-2012 08:41 PM
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RE: Lets be diplomatic about this.

Ooh, the internet tough guy routine.  I wonder what she's going to do.  Show up at my house, probably, and kick my ***.


Brett Erlich Wrote:
Chris Christie is so fat, I was giving a presentation and he ate my pie charts.




All human beings are born free and equal in dignity and rights.   They are endowed with reason and conscience and should act towards one another in a spirit of brotherhood.

PROUD DISRUPTIVE DINGBAT

http://Siochanna.deviantart.com
http://neversubmit.xanga.com/

08-26-2012 08:42 PM
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RE: Lets be diplomatic about this.

No you're Bull baiting people to attack you.


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08-26-2012 08:42 PM
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LadiKapitan
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RE: Lets be diplomatic about this.

You know as well as I do that I'm sick and tired of you guy's bullshit. I demand an explainationas to why its suddenly ok to write attack threads, bait, and attack me.

You people have proved my point, that these are nothing more than attacks. Therefore, have been reported.

That other thread was nothing more than an attack.

All you guys did was confirm that.

Skyblue was online. By not providing proof for his accusations, and assumptions, he's proved himself to be the *** I know he is. Someone make a thread attacking him.

08-26-2012 08:46 PM
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LadiKapitan
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RE: Lets be diplomatic about this.

ConLang, you never ever post in any of my threads.

Why now? Got something you want to say?

08-26-2012 08:48 PM
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Uh.... No....


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