Worst thing is the kid who is NOT socially adept (in this case the aspie) will #1 pick the wrong person to do it with (stand up to) #2 do it in an obvious way and draw atttention of the teachers and stafff and #3 even if staff does not see, he will not have any kids to stick up for him - the other kid (the bully) will have lots of "friends" (in on it) and they will stick up for him  (lie) and so... the aspie who ONE time fights back will end up being called the aggressor... and be "disciplined".


#4 kid (my kid) would feel bad for trying to hurt someone....