Answering the original question:

Congrats on finding your vocation.  I am assuming you are Catholic?

Most of the resources are geared towards a "cure" rather than accepting autism.  I am really tired of message boards for Christians wanting to pray for me to be cured and not tolerating my weaknesses or suggesting that I try a dairy and wheat free diet.  

Some churches that I have come across that are trying to accommodate people with autism are doing such activities -  just having a small bible class where people are free to ask those difficult questions.  Or a room that is more quiet for them to have coffee after the service.  Some people also might be better to watch a service/mass at home and come for private communion at a different time or have someone from the church call or email them regularly.  They might want to participate in church activities such as cleaning, folding orders of service, mailing etc or activities that do not involve too much social interaction if that is their preference.