In my experience, it's almost always worse for me to be asking about most stuff than whatever it was I was doing wrong in the first place. Which is getting convoluted, since I naturally tried asking about that. Which seemed to be worse still, so I tried to get back to what I was doing 'wrong' in the first place. Couldn't get answers then and now don't have the details for anybody else to know but can't learn from all those experinces, either. Stuck going round in circles.