I have actually been written up for the exact same issues.  Then told to find a way to be more social at work.  My evaluations are stellar until the box (works well with others) comes along.  I have had problems with this since I began my career 10 years ago.  I just left a job after working there less than a week because I knew I was going to get myself into trouble.  I always look at the way I am being spoken to and I think I mimic what I see fom them right back.  Since, I am Asperger's, there is a chance I am not reading them correctly and I can come across, rather harsh, more like horrid, and that gets me written up everytime.  You'd think I would have learned some skills by now, but the only thing I have learned is "Don't work with or for incompetant person's.