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I wonder if abusive parents are unusually common for us. And what that might mean. Certainly most aspies shouldn't be parents, and maybe this thread is what happens when they are. Or maybe like 98% of everyone has abusive parents but NTs lie to themselves about it.

Your relationship with your parents decides so much about you. When I hear "once you've met one aspie, you've met one aspie" I think well yeah but maybe we are all very very very similar just with different traumas.

My dad once beat the crap out of me because I shook a spoon to dry it and some of the water went near him. He thought it was malicious. He was Lou from Fight Club, I just held my hands behind by back and kept standing back up and laughing at him. Last time I saw him.


I think there must be nurturing factors affecting your ASD... i mean, maybe it's a predisposition that is manifested when exposed to traumas. Or maybe our social skills are impaired, partly, because of out parents' attitude toward us, after all children look at their parents to know how to act in the real world. And if they are violent, abusive, alcoholic or depressed.. then they are probably too buisy thinking about their own problems than to teach the child how to cope with the world. So Aspie characteristics are aggravated. I have a lot of aspies in the family and i noticed most of them have divorced parents, or very ****** up parents.

Maybe the problem is that the parents that have autistic predispositions that they will pass on to their children, are simply terrible parents..

09-25-2010 02:10 PM
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I can't stand my dad!!! - Thunder Knight - 08-18-2010, 03:36 AM
RE: I can't stand my dad!!! - Genesis - 08-18-2010, 04:07 AM
RE: I can't stand my dad!!! - Ana54 - 03-11-2011, 02:59 AM
RE: I can't stand my dad!!! - Genesis - 08-18-2010, 04:24 AM
RE: I can't stand my dad!!! - Aerodynamite - 08-18-2010, 05:23 AM
RE: I can't stand my dad!!! - Aerodynamite - 08-18-2010, 05:18 PM
RE: I can't stand my dad!!! - nialll - 08-18-2010, 02:09 PM
RE: I can't stand my dad!!! - Bloke - 08-18-2010, 05:21 PM
RE: I can't stand my dad!!! - Suedehead - 08-18-2010, 08:58 PM
RE: I can't stand my dad!!! - Ana54 - 10-03-2010, 12:25 AM
RE: I can't stand my dad!!! - piePIEpie - 08-18-2010, 09:12 PM
RE: I can't stand my dad!!! - mels8780 - 08-19-2010, 04:17 AM
RE: I can't stand my dad!!! - Genesis - 08-18-2010, 11:30 PM
RE: I can't stand my dad!!! - nialll - 08-19-2010, 02:03 AM
RE: I can't stand my dad!!! - mels8780 - 08-19-2010, 03:55 AM
RE: I can't stand my dad!!! - dtx - 08-19-2010, 04:06 AM
RE: I can't stand my dad!!! - smokingweapon - 09-25-2010 02:10 PM
RE: I can't stand my dad!!! - 142857 - 08-19-2010, 08:24 AM
RE: I can't stand my dad!!! - Flardox - 09-12-2010, 10:44 PM
RE: I can't stand my dad!!! - TheRainGirl - 08-20-2010, 01:07 AM
RE: I can't stand my dad!!! - AspieMomma - 09-12-2010, 10:33 PM
RE: I can't stand my dad!!! - dtx - 09-12-2010, 10:38 PM
RE: I can't stand my dad!!! - Kapkao - 09-12-2010, 10:49 PM
RE: I can't stand my dad!!! - cynara - 09-12-2010, 10:50 PM
RE: I can't stand my dad!!! - Kapkao - 09-13-2010, 03:30 AM
RE: I can't stand my dad!!! - dtx - 09-12-2010, 10:54 PM
RE: I can't stand my dad!!! - Chamuel - 09-12-2010, 11:39 PM
RE: I can't stand my dad!!! - RJARRRPCGP - 09-13-2010, 03:01 AM
RE: I can't stand my dad!!! - nialll - 03-15-2011, 08:29 PM
RE: I can't stand my dad!!! - hop1pop - 03-15-2011, 10:33 PM
RE: I can't stand my dad!!! - hop1pop - 03-12-2011, 12:48 AM
RE: I can't stand my dad!!! - micgrace - 03-13-2011, 12:11 AM
RE: I can't stand my dad!!! - hop1pop - 03-13-2011, 01:16 AM
RE: I can't stand my dad!!! - MOSBORN - 03-15-2011, 08:43 PM
RE: I can't stand my dad!!! - hop1pop - 03-15-2011, 08:48 PM
RE: I can't stand my dad!!! - 142857 - 03-16-2011, 08:30 AM
RE: I can't stand my dad!!! - - 03-17-2011, 09:36 PM
RE: I can't stand my dad!!! - Ana54 - 04-04-2011, 08:02 PM
RE: I can't stand my dad!!! - shrineyguard - 05-06-2011, 12:19 AM
RE: I can't stand my dad!!! - DadOfAspie - 05-16-2011, 10:32 PM

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