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People can post as a Guest in this forum, it doesn't mean they are saying anything they shouldn't.
Sometimes members forget to log in and post as a Guest by mistake.

In the past we have had some NTs that come here and want to understand, and are very eager. Sadly they can be quick to feel that their questions are not being understood, or that people are being critical, basically a misunderstanding.
It can then lead to 'you aren't being very nice to me, and all I wanted to do was understand you' type of posts.

If you do start to feel like that, take a step back and try and see it from our point of view.
If an autistic goes to an NT forum, we often don't get a welcome with open arms, and misunderstadings can lead to us being accused of being awkward, causing trouble, etc. So it works both ways.



09-08-2005 09:54 PM
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Why I am on this board... - Vendaia - 09-07-2005, 06:53 PM
RE: Why I am on this board... - Noetic - 05-23-2007, 03:23 PM
[] - Amy - 09-07-2005, 07:32 PM
Thank you... - Vendaia - 09-07-2005, 08:00 PM
Re: Thank you... - darkcode - 09-07-2005, 10:14 PM
[] - chamoisee - 09-07-2005, 10:46 PM
[] - Bonnie Ventura - 09-07-2005, 11:06 PM
[] - Brightman - 09-08-2005, 05:28 AM
[] - Bonnie Ventura - 09-08-2005, 03:26 PM
What Stephen King says... - Vendaia - 09-08-2005, 03:46 PM
[] - M - 09-08-2005, 03:59 PM
[] - Amy - 09-08-2005, 04:26 PM
Horror writer? - Vendaia - 09-08-2005, 04:35 PM
Thanks, Amy... - Vendaia - 09-08-2005, 04:39 PM
As for the "both ways"... - Vendaia - 09-08-2005, 04:46 PM
[] - Amy - 09-08-2005, 04:51 PM
To Chamoisee - Vendaia - 09-08-2005, 04:57 PM
[] - Amy - 09-08-2005, 04:59 PM
Amy, and 20 kHz - Vendaia - 09-08-2005, 05:13 PM
Re: Amy, and 20 kHz - darkcode - 09-08-2005, 05:33 PM
Amy, and the tree... - Vendaia - 09-08-2005, 05:47 PM
Re: Amy, and the tree... - darkcode - 09-08-2005, 06:20 PM
Dear Darkcode... - Vendaia - 09-08-2005, 07:05 PM
Re: Amy, and the tree... - Guest - 09-08-2005, 07:48 PM
Re: As for the "both ways"... - Vendaia - 09-08-2005, 07:50 PM
[] - Guest - 09-08-2005, 08:18 PM
What I have learned.... - Vendaia - 09-08-2005, 08:22 PM
[] - Brightman - 09-08-2005, 08:36 PM
[] - Amy - 09-08-2005, 08:51 PM
Re: What I have learned.... - darkcode - 09-08-2005, 09:01 PM
[] - Vendaia - 09-08-2005, 09:08 PM
[] - betwixt - 09-08-2005, 09:38 PM
Brightman's comments - Vendaia - 09-08-2005, 09:41 PM
[] - Amy - 09-08-2005, 09:45 PM
Dear Betwixt... - Vendaia - 09-08-2005, 09:48 PM
[] - Amy - 09-08-2005 09:54 PM
[] - Brightman - 09-09-2005, 01:43 AM
[] - anandamide - 09-09-2005, 04:35 AM
Re: Brightman's comments - anandamide - 09-09-2005, 04:54 AM
[] - chamoisee - 09-09-2005, 07:27 AM
Re: What I have learned.... - Guest - 09-09-2005, 02:39 PM
[] - betwixt - 09-09-2005, 02:55 PM
What I meant by the flower... - Vendaia - 09-09-2005, 03:38 PM
[] - Bonnie Ventura - 09-09-2005, 04:29 PM
Re: What I meant by the flower... - Guest - 09-09-2005, 04:34 PM
Re: What I meant by the flower... - Guest - 09-09-2005, 04:44 PM
[] - Vendaia - 09-09-2005, 06:06 PM
[] - Amy - 09-09-2005, 06:35 PM
[] - Amy - 09-09-2005, 06:42 PM
Dear Amy... - Vendaia - 09-09-2005, 07:20 PM
[] - Amy - 09-09-2005, 07:39 PM
[] - Guest - 09-09-2005, 07:40 PM
[] - a-lite - 09-09-2005, 07:42 PM
Gender issues among Aspies... - Vendaia - 09-09-2005, 07:42 PM
[] - Amy - 09-09-2005, 07:43 PM
Who is GD? - Vendaia - 09-09-2005, 07:44 PM
[] - Gareth - 09-09-2005, 07:49 PM
Re: Who is GD? - anandamide - 09-09-2005, 08:06 PM
Dear Gareth... - Vendaia - 09-09-2005, 08:08 PM
[] - Amy - 09-09-2005, 08:15 PM
Dear Bamanda... - Vendaia - 09-09-2005, 08:33 PM
[] - Gareth - 09-09-2005, 08:42 PM
[] - Gareth - 09-09-2005, 08:44 PM
Yo, hey, Amy... - Vendaia - 09-09-2005, 08:46 PM
[] - betwixt - 09-09-2005, 08:56 PM
[] - Amy - 09-09-2005, 08:59 PM
Gareth, Gareth, Gareth.... - Vendaia - 09-09-2005, 09:01 PM
[] - Bonnie Ventura - 09-09-2005, 09:13 PM
Dear Amy, re: the tree. - Vendaia - 09-09-2005, 09:17 PM
[] - betwixt - 09-09-2005, 09:25 PM
[] - Amy - 09-09-2005, 09:28 PM
[] - betwixt - 09-09-2005, 09:38 PM
Dear Bonnie... - Vendaia - 09-09-2005, 09:41 PM
[] - Amy - 09-09-2005, 09:45 PM
Betwixt, thank you, thank you... - Vendaia - 09-09-2005, 09:48 PM
[] - Amy - 09-09-2005, 09:52 PM
[] - MishLuvsHer2Boys - 09-09-2005, 10:01 PM
Dear Amy... - Vendaia - 09-09-2005, 10:22 PM
To MishLuvsHer2Boys - Vendaia - 09-09-2005, 10:39 PM
[] - Amy - 09-09-2005, 11:08 PM
Re: Dear Amy... - anandamide - 09-09-2005, 11:09 PM
[] - a-lite - 09-09-2005, 11:36 PM
[] - becca - 09-10-2005, 12:37 AM
[] - Brightman - 09-10-2005, 02:11 AM
[] - tenaciouscj - 09-10-2005, 04:31 AM
To Vendaia - Drifter - 09-10-2005, 06:04 AM
Moving right along then.... - Vendaia - 09-10-2005, 04:55 PM
[] - Brightman - 09-10-2005, 06:45 PM
Dear Bamanda... - Vendaia - 09-10-2005, 07:27 PM
[] - anandamide - 09-11-2005, 12:46 AM
[] - chamoisee - 09-11-2005, 01:58 PM
[] - anandamide - 09-11-2005, 05:43 PM
[] - Brightman - 09-21-2005, 10:42 PM

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