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mysterywalker
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RE: What angers you?
Petty People
Whiners
Manipulators
and Liars
People who hurt animals
Hurting animals, definitely... except, you know, I don't hate everyone who eats animals.
I guess most of what angers me in daily life are situations I get in that would be easy to deal with for most people, but that are really hard for me... like trying to drive somewhere I've never been before.
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| 02-25-2010 03:57 AM |
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aspyanime
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RE: What angers you?
I feel pretty angry when others call me names and don't really treat me as one of them; they treat me meanly with words and fists. A lot of people don't understand us. That's the problem. We need to express ourselves and tell others how we feel. Can you guys give me some tips I can try?
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| 02-25-2010 03:58 AM |
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Genesis
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RE: What angers you?
Stupid People
Those that treat you like something your not
TILSOH
The State denying me four times
Certain Shrinks and Social Workers
Airheads
Clowns
The list goes on and on...
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| 02-25-2010 04:00 AM |
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League Girl
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RE: What angers you?
Wow, what a rehearsal of grievances...
I like to add people, who try to manipulate other people and then find thousands of flimsy excuses when caught in the act.
This and pigs (men who are after sex and that is all they care about or want a woman for their naked photos)
How cow girls, see the grass, don't eat it
Take me home mama and put me to bed
There's no crying in baseball
http://www.aspiescentral.com/forum.php
This post was last modified: 02-25-2010 05:21 AM by League Girl.
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| 02-25-2010 05:18 AM |
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Thomas the Solitary
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RE: What angers you?
debt collectors
Let me elaborate. I had to leave earlier. Debt collectors are people that want to trap you into owing them something (emotionally or otherwise). For example, you are having a hard time financially. Your friend says "oh, let me help you" and "don't worry, I just want to bless you. Don't pay it back." Now you are trapped! They will never let you forget that you are "okay" because of them. They will ask for things and give you that "I helped you" face. Then, if you make them mad, it all comes out! You are suddenly ungrateful, sorry, no good and selfish for taking their "gift" and not appreciating it by agreeing with everything they say and letting them run your life. For this reason, I did not call my mother to ask for money today. I am SO proud of myself.  Every time you avoid these people you win!!!
This. Exactly. I've said before that my mother acts like a bad impersonation of a "Jewish Mother". makes for funny jokes, but the reality is... not funny.
Thank you for posting this, at least I know there's at least one other person that 'gets it' (understands) now.
In the elder days of art
Builders wrought with greatest care
Each minute and unseen part,
For the Gods are everywhere. --Longfellow
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| 02-25-2010 05:54 PM |
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Marcia
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RE: What angers you?
No win no fee lawyers and the people who claim money for the side-effects of being alive!
I'm watching a programme about this just now, and I'm seething!!!! Aaaaaargh!!!
We are all made in God's image! Celebrate our diversity of gifts!
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| 02-25-2010 11:54 PM |
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nialll
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RE: What angers you?
almost everything angers me. but perhaps the most annoying thing ever in the world is people who are rude and impolite when it is really not necessary or called for. i don't know why shouting "move" at someone who's in the way is appropriate when saying "excuse me" really doesn't take any effort. that's just an example. when someone talks to me like that i want to punch them.
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| 02-26-2010 11:57 AM |
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RE: What angers you?
Hypocrisy, controling people, concieted people.
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| 02-26-2010 04:23 PM |
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superboyian
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RE: What angers you?
Stereotypes definitely...
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| 03-02-2010 12:57 AM |
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League Girl
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RE: What angers you?
Oh god yes I hate stereotypes. I hate the aspie ones the most.
How cow girls, see the grass, don't eat it
Take me home mama and put me to bed
There's no crying in baseball
http://www.aspiescentral.com/forum.php
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| 03-02-2010 02:13 AM |
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violet_yoshi
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RE: What angers you?
Well today we had someone over to help put a new matress into my sister's bed. This guy kept bellowing at the top of his lungs, and I slept because it all was very overwhelming.
What upsets me, is my mom kept talking about him like he was some poor helpless person who didn't know what they were doing. It's not that I'm incapable of empathizing with them, if in fact they really didn't get what was happening. It's that, she understands I have this sensory issue with sudden loud sounds. I find it hard to believe that the company wouldn't have sent someone out who behaved better if they heard the word "Autistic". Maybe they wouldn't have, but it would at least be worth a shot.
I find it very overwhelming when people who I'm unfamiliar with come over to help with stuff in the house, because I feel I can't really have a conversation with them. That if I try to explain my situation, I'm either just a kid, or they might ask if I'm r-word, which would probably make me want to blow up.
It's a lot of anxiety, typically when the people hired to do these jobs appear or act intimidating, you know kind of like big strong types of guys. As well as the lack of feeling I'm able to speak to them, I find it easier just to sleep. So anyone have any advice, I'm sure a good deal of this is psychological. Although most people find men who look like they could kick your behind a tad intimidating.
You know what's funny, is the person who voices Elmo is a guy who looks like a big strong tough guy. I saw him on Oprah, and it's like this big sort of scary looking guy, doing this tiny little voice. It's such a contradiction in expectations, lol.
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| 03-02-2010 09:38 AM |
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League Girl
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RE: What angers you?
When I post a thread and no one replies to it or when hardly anyone replies.
When I am upset about something and I need to talk about it, my friend is slow to responding. How rude.
When people IM me and then have to leave a few minutes later.
When people IM me and it takes them forever to respond.
People who don't tell me brb during our IM chat.
People who don't answer my PMs when I have asked a question in it.
People who won't help me understand my actions and what I did wrong. Instead they ignore my questions.
Cowards. Those are liars who can't admit what they did. Instead they rather hide it by denying it.
People who send me a nasty message at Yahoo Answers and then block me. Cowards.
People who think they are better than anyone/everyone.
How cow girls, see the grass, don't eat it
Take me home mama and put me to bed
There's no crying in baseball
http://www.aspiescentral.com/forum.php
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| 03-02-2010 11:09 AM |
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superboyian
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I never get that problem on Yahoo! Answers but what annoys me are annoying spammers on Y!A and get all the credit for something that didn't work since I'm more into the Computers section.
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| 03-02-2010 02:59 PM |
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League Girl
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RE: What angers you?
I only got a nasty email once from someone asking me if I am preggers and then saying no wait I'll just be a bad mother and my kid will grow up to hate me.
The message was very hurtful and I figured it was done by a troll because I did not know this person or remember answering it's questions or seeing one of their answers to the same question I answered. It was just some random person. It was probably nothing personal and it was just random and that person picked me for no reason. I once did a question about it and guess what, others have gotten nasty messages from random people and they didn't even know who they were. I also thought maybe I pissed this person off with one of my answers but it was obvious that person read through my questions because he knew I was pregnant and probably saw I have AS too because he said my kid would grow up to hate me. I have mentioned my AS in my answers to questions about autism/AS.
But then I see an aspie question by this same user and it turns out he also has it. I will never get some aspies. An aspie flaming another aspie. I don't get it but I look at it as this:
A white person picks on another white person
A black person picks on another black person
and then there are aspies who pick on other aspies.
See? No difference. We're all human and aspies are capable of being just as bad as anyone else and who says aspies can't pick on other aspies?
I used to think aspies were all sweet innocent people who would never pick on their own kind and they would all understand each other but I was ignorant. I have been flamed by a few aspies and bullied and I used to think it was an NT trait they have but I didn't realize they were just jerks. Then an aspie said over at Zomg it's maybe not an NT trait and it's maybe a human trait. I agree.
I now know that not all aspies are nice innocent people or sweet. I now know some of them are jerks just like anyone else or bullies. I even knew an aspie in my teens who manipulated people, even his own mother to get his way. But in school, it didn't work but he kept trying. And I still thought aspies were all sweet and innocent. I just thought this aspie I knew was evil. He was technically. He had ODD and it was a mistake that his mom gave into him because he learned if he wants his way, hit and break things to get it. Not a good idea to give in on aspies, for any child actually or else they learn if they want something, do X to get it. I used to just let myself have anxiety to get my way because every time I had it, I got my way so I learned just have anxiety to get my brothers out of my area and other stuff. That was probably manipulation. I look back and see what a brat I was. That's why I am against letting aspies have their way or else they never learn, instead they learn manipulation. They learn to use their AS as an excuse. Good thing my family got tough and stopped giving in on me. I had to learn about life and be flexible.
How cow girls, see the grass, don't eat it
Take me home mama and put me to bed
There's no crying in baseball
http://www.aspiescentral.com/forum.php
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| 03-02-2010 11:14 PM |
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RE: What angers you?
¤People who do not give me a chance.
¤When I post a thread and no one replies- I am not saying that I expect everyone to view my thread and reply. It just feels that no one cares and that hurts because I feel that alot. I don't really want to feel it here.
¤Liars.
¤People who hurt children and animals.
¤People's inability to do the right thing.
¤Certain people who act as though they are better than others around them.
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| 03-02-2010 11:21 PM |
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