I definitely relate better with men, and often women hate me (my husband says because I don't feel the same pressures as they do to be socially appropriate - or at least not nearly as acutely). In our culture, men get away with being tactless (as i sometimes am) and with not showing off their emotions. Are there a lot fewer AS females than AS males? it seems so. My husband has lots of "feminine" traits just as I am more "masculine". I am an engineer, while he studies literature and philosophy. We have had the stereotypical conversation hundreds of times in reverse, you know the one where the wife tries to get the husband to talk about his emotions? Auspies are from mars, all right.