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RE: Grumpy is opening the bar...celebration time!

Tigger_the_Wing Wrote:

schlomitsmile Wrote:

EvilZakkie Wrote:

schlomitsmile Wrote:
But here, there's no topic really, is there? other then----socializing???
I mean, it's great! I wish I could have done it soo well like you aspies..."
and now the question: how do you do it?
how do you know what to say, when there's no topic?
and how come aspies do it better then a middle person (me)?


The thing about AS is that we aren't actually bad at socialising in an overall sense, we're just bad at socialising within NT groupings. Get a group of us together, and we're just as capable of random chat as anyone else.

The only thing I have noticed is that there tends to be a much greater divide between the two - socialising tends towards all-out silliness, whereas discussion tends towards intense studies.

Of course, that could just be the culture of this site - who known? *grins*


You see, the thing is, to me all this lovely chit-chat is like a secret-language, even in my mother-language, even in a group of middle people (like myself).
I can do it for 5 minutes, but after that I simply loose it...
If the light conversation has a topic, I can enjoy it and be in it.
I love joking, it's not like I'm always serius.
I also love making silly faces, sing and dance silly songs and dances.
But a group conversation that is all about socializing...
I feel like looking at you people dancing, trying in vain to figure out the dance-steps ...
Well, like I said - sometimes it looks like I'm more aspie then aspiies...

Oh, and martin, about the beer - right now I feel more like some light- refreshing cocktail with lemon Smile


It's OK, really! I just make a joke (or ask for a pretend drink) and go away again.

It might look as if we are all here all the time having fun, but most of the time we aren't really here at all! Big Grin


If we were, we would be happily talking to the table, the wall, own shoes, person's opposite's navel and stimming unconsciously and talking about "logical, interesting things, observations, interests or perceptions on the deep and meaningfuls.....anyone not on the spectrum would think us all nutters.


07-30-2008 01:48 PM
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RE: Grumpy is opening the bar...celebration time! - alectrum - 07-02-2008, 11:56 AM
RE: Grumpy is opening the bar...celebration time! - alectrum - 07-03-2008, 10:25 AM
RE: Grumpy is opening the bar...celebration time! - alectrum - 07-03-2008, 10:49 AM
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RE: Grumpy is opening the bar...celebration time! - alectrum - 07-04-2008, 01:14 PM
RE: Grumpy is opening the bar...celebration time! - alectrum - 07-05-2008, 07:15 PM
RE: Grumpy is opening the bar...celebration time! - alectrum - 07-05-2008, 07:24 PM
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RE: Grumpy is opening the bar...celebration time! - alectrum - 07-05-2008, 08:56 PM
RE: Grumpy is opening the bar...celebration time! - alectrum - 07-06-2008, 01:07 AM
RE: Grumpy is opening the bar...celebration time! - alectrum - 07-08-2008, 01:57 PM
RE: Grumpy is opening the bar...celebration time! - quickduck - 07-13-2008, 03:19 PM
RE: Grumpy is opening the bar...celebration time! - quickduck - 07-13-2008, 03:37 PM
RE: Grumpy is opening the bar...celebration time! - quickduck - 07-13-2008, 04:01 PM
RE: Grumpy is opening the bar...celebration time! - alectrum - 07-26-2008, 09:14 PM
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RE: Grumpy is opening the bar...celebration time! - alectrum - 07-26-2008, 09:35 PM
RE: Grumpy is opening the bar...celebration time! - alectrum - 07-27-2008, 11:19 PM
RE: Grumpy is opening the bar...celebration time! - alectrum - 07-28-2008, 05:31 PM
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RE: Grumpy is opening the bar...celebration time! - alectrum - 07-29-2008, 05:20 PM
RE: Grumpy is opening the bar...celebration time! - alectrum - 07-29-2008, 07:44 PM
RE: Grumpy is opening the bar...celebration time! - Grumpy_Old_Rossco - 07-30-2008 01:48 PM
RE: Grumpy is opening the bar...celebration time! - Quick_Duck - 08-15-2008, 11:50 PM
RE: Grumpy is opening the bar...celebration time! - Quick_Duck - 08-16-2008, 01:04 AM
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RE: Grumpy is opening the bar...celebration time! - Quick_Duck - 09-04-2008, 01:10 AM
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