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Batman55
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RE: Desperate For Sex
From what I have read here, we have a forty-year-old man who has been keen to have a relationship with any member of the opposite sex for more than half his lifetime with no success.
He has put forward a number of hypotheses for this, all of which he has apparently worked out for himself.
When every single one of his hypotheses is deconstructed and its flaws pointed out to him by both men and women, straight, gay, young and not-so-young in an attempt to help him to succeed in his goals of a relationship, he has hung on to the faulty hypotheses rather than learn that it is his behaviour towards other people that might need modifying.
People with far more knowledge and experience in the realms of faulty human interactions have tried to tell him that his premises are wrong and damaging his prospects but he insists on clinging to his belief that everyone in the world is out of step bar him.
When he then goes on to state that he believes he is entitled to have a sexual reationship with someone half his age, someone easily young enough to be his daughter just because he missed out on relationships with twenty-year-olds when he was that age, not because he happens to be in love with and loved by a young woman, is it surorising that people are worried about his state of mind, and worried about what he might do if he doesn't get some urgent counselling?
If this was in response to me, I have already admitted to error. Twofold: I totally forgot that wlhaught was the one who was making these outlandish statements (for some reason I seemed to remember that person as having a different username??--don't ask). And I also didn't read enough of this thread to realize the extent of his preposterous ramblings.
My apologies to ocampo on this one, and the rest of you who have been debating with this troll. I'm just simply.... wrong. My fault.
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| 07-13-2008 08:24 AM |
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RE: Desperate For Sex
In Batman's defense, the worst post that really jumps out at you and that started this whole thing got deleted because it was so horrible, so it's easy to get confused.
It's okay to make mistakes.

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| 07-13-2008 08:29 AM |
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My apologies to ocampo on this one, and the rest of you who have been debating with this troll. I'm just simply.... wrong. My fault.
Thats OK you weren't to know. I had been following it and myself and ocampo were getting the worst of it. And giving it.
The worst part I have a teenage daughter and son hovering just out of earshot. And my wife was on our other networked computer following it.
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| 07-13-2008 08:51 AM |
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RE: Desperate For Sex
From what I have read here, we have a forty-year-old man who has been keen to have a relationship with any member of the opposite sex for more than half his lifetime with no success.
He has put forward a number of hypotheses for this, all of which he has apparently worked out for himself.
When every single one of his hypotheses is deconstructed and its flaws pointed out to him by both men and women, straight, gay, young and not-so-young in an attempt to help him to succeed in his goals of a relationship, he has hung on to the faulty hypotheses rather than learn that it is his behaviour towards other people that might need modifying.
People with far more knowledge and experience in the realms of faulty human interactions have tried to tell him that his premises are wrong and damaging his prospects but he insists on clinging to his belief that everyone in the world is out of step bar him.
When he then goes on to state that he believes he is entitled to have a sexual reationship with someone half his age, someone easily young enough to be his daughter just because he missed out on relationships with twenty-year-olds when he was that age, not because he happens to be in love with and loved by a young woman, is it surorising that people are worried about his state of mind, and worried about what he might do if he doesn't get some urgent counselling?
If this was in response to me, I have already admitted to error. Twofold: I totally forgot that wlhaught was the one who was making these outlandish statements (for some reason I seemed to remember that person as having a different username??--don't ask). And I also didn't read enough of this thread to realize the extent of his preposterous ramblings.
My apologies to ocampo on this one, and the rest of you who have been debating with this troll. I'm just simply.... wrong. My fault.
Sorry Batman that my slow typing meant that I finally pressed send on the above only to find out that the conversation had moved on in the meantime!
I wasn't specifically aiming it at you; it was an attempt at summarising what I understood to be going on given that some posts seemed to have been deleted before I could read them, but after others had already responded to them.
I'm certainly not of the opinion that age matters in a relationship - but I believe attitude certainly does. Hating the whole sex that you want to have relationships with doesn't make sense to me. Blaming them for any misunderstandings you might have about them also doesn't make sense to me.
And when every kind of person I could imagine tells me I'm mistaken - I think I would be more likely to assume that they are likely to be correct than just label them bullies.
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| 07-13-2008 09:00 AM |
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RE: Desperate For Sex
Given that I've studied Criminology/Law at university level and worked with rapists[/], I think I'm slightly more qualified to discuss rape than you. I know what I'm talkng about with regards to rapists. What part of that do you really fail to grasp? Will you go in and argue with your car mechanic that they don't know what they're talking about? 
If anyone is incapable of comprehending text on this thread, its you. You respond to text with nonsensical sentences that make absolutely no sense. For someone that has Marx in his signature, you seem to have no grasp of 'commodity' in the Marxist sense.
You have no understanding of the female mind. Seriously. If everyone around you thinks you're an arsehole, its not because they're all the arsehole. Its usually because there's something wrong with you. Its really quite simple. There is no conspiracy to alienate you from sexual activity - although personally I'd be first to be sticking up flyers all over your town's lampposts to protect women from you.
Your average rapist is usually of average build, average height, [i]known well to his victim, and for all intents and purposes is polite and approachable. Most of them are quite silver tongued and seem generally good natured. The blind alley rapist is the least common, along with the serial rapist. Most rapes are date rape i.e. committed by a male who is trusted by his victim. Few rapists are of any great physical strength and those that do show extreme aggression toward their victim use weaponry (or the indication of weaponry) as a means to coerce a victim into accepting the rape. The majority of rapists are simple opportunists, plain and simple.
You really have no idea what you're talking about and really need psychological intervention.
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| 07-13-2008 01:56 PM |
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Urgh, that post screwed up... proper one below...
Given that I've studied Criminology/Law at university level and worked with rapists, I think I'm slightly more qualified to discuss rape than you. I know what I'm talkng about with regards to rapists. What part of that do you really fail to grasp? Will you go in and argue with your car mechanic that they don't know what they're talking about? 
If anyone is incapable of comprehending text on this thread, its you. You respond to text with nonsensical sentences that make absolutely no sense. For someone that has Marx in his signature, you seem to have no grasp of 'commodity' in the Marxist sense.
You have no understanding of the female mind. Seriously. If everyone around you thinks you're an arsehole, its not because they're all the arsehole. Its usually because there's something wrong with you. Its really quite simple. There is no conspiracy to alienate you from sexual activity - although personally I'd be first to be sticking up flyers all over your town's lampposts to protect women from you.
Your average rapist is usually of average build, average height, known well to his victim, and for all intents and purposes is polite and approachable. Most of them are quite silver tongued and seem generally good natured. The blind alley rapist is the least common, along with the serial rapist. Most rapes are date rape i.e. committed by a male who is trusted by his victim. Few rapists are of any great physical strength and those that do show extreme aggression toward their victim use weaponry (or the indication of weaponry) as a means to coerce a victim into accepting the rape. The majority of rapists are simple opportunists, plain and simple.
You really have no idea what you're talking about and really need psychological intervention.
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| 07-13-2008 01:58 PM |
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Why are there 2 Ocampos? :S
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| 07-13-2008 02:06 PM |
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I hit my post limit for the day lol. You only get 40 posts per day.
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| 07-13-2008 03:10 PM |
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You can not contain the Ocampo.
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| 07-13-2008 03:22 PM |
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You can not contain the Ocampo.
Oi! Barman - we need more booze! Get yourself over to your bar pronto!
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| 07-13-2008 03:24 PM |
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RE: Desperate For Sex
Wlhaught: The bottom line is that your theories on women "wanting" rape are either advocating or trivialising a serious crime. One way or another, this will end.
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| 07-13-2008 03:44 PM |
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Why are there 2 Ocampos? :S
Same reason there are now 2 micgrace. Its thanks to Mr Wal Nut. Hopefully buzzes off for keeps.
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| 07-14-2008 12:14 AM |
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Wlhaught: The bottom line is that your theories on women "wanting" rape are either advocating or trivialising a serious crime.
Well said.
I swear the whole IlluSionS667 liberal-bias incident blew a fuse in my brain...I took wlhaught for an unusually bitter and hateful but possibly educable misfit, didn't ban him outright because I was afraid to give any appearance of "censorship." I figured as long as people were debating him, what was the harm? Then he created another account just to post more of the same hateful stuff he'd already been saying, and I finally realized he was, at best, a waste of our space. I'm sorry it took me so long to see what should have been obvious.
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| 07-14-2008 04:41 AM |
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What wlhaugh? Did I miss something? Did no one warn me there was a troll?
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| 07-14-2008 04:58 AM |
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