As a parent one of my main jobs - for all 3 kids - is to make sure that they "judge not, lest ye be judged" .  I AM finding it harder for my aspie son (he has forgiveness and mercy in his heart) but is tending toward categorizing people - something I don't like at all.  (I know it's not about what I like).  However, if he lumps people into groups, like that is a bully, that is a thug, that de-humanizes them. (next step is not even trying to understand)  I understand how, like Ethel says, he can get there.  How many times can he experience first hand the irrational, arbitrary, ludicrous, dumb, LYING, clique beahvior focused against him and not put up a defense for it, by thinking LESS of them.  I hope we somehow avoid him using labels because as soon as someone is labeled, it can lead to thinking on eis "better" somehow than another.  No one is any better than anyone else.  In my opinion - yes many act better, but inherently -all are good and deserve respect.