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Am I a real man?

I am interested to know your thoughts on this because today a woman I have know a long time said some quite nasty things to me. Our coverstation which began around work matters turned to my personal life. This is always an issue I try to avoid. She asked me if I had a girlfriend and I said no. Then she asked where I lived and with whom and I told her I lived at home with my parents she went on with the questioning and ultimately came to the conclusion that I was weird, very odd and she suggested that because of these things ( and because I wasn't gay ) that I couldn't be a real man. She also went on to suggest that I was a waste of a life and taking up space on the earth that could be better used by someone else. I would not be too concerned if this was a one-off but it isn't. Over the years many people have said similar things to me.

I have always lacked the personality traits that creates interest in relationships with other people and motivation in general. I find everyday living causes me high anxiety and stress. I am often happy just to get through a basic day of work. It means I am happy just to make simple achievements.

Am I really such a waste of time? Is she and the others correct? I don't think she is because everyone is different and I am very different compared to most. What do you think about this?

02-11-2007 10:17 PM
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Am I a real man? - Michael 1 - 02-11-2007 10:17 PM
RE: Am I a real man? - guardian001 - 02-11-2007, 10:22 PM
RE: Am I a real man? - RichardL - 02-11-2007, 10:32 PM
RE: Am I a real man? - maldoror - 02-11-2007, 11:04 PM
RE: Am I a real man? - Michael 1 - 02-11-2007, 11:54 PM
RE: Am I a real man? - guardian001 - 02-12-2007, 12:15 AM
RE: Am I a real man? - Michael 1 - 02-12-2007, 12:41 AM
RE: Am I a real man? - guardian001 - 02-12-2007, 12:50 AM
RE: Am I a real man? - leemcd56 - 02-12-2007, 01:29 AM
RE: Am I a real man? - nb411 - 02-12-2007, 03:21 AM
RE: Am I a real man? - .jaime. - 02-12-2007, 07:33 AM
RE: Am I a real man? - Max the Bear - 02-12-2007, 06:55 AM
RE: Am I a real man? - .jaime. - 02-12-2007, 07:23 AM
RE: Am I a real man? - .jaime. - 02-12-2007, 07:26 AM
RE: Am I a real man? - bohemian_storm - 03-01-2007, 01:31 PM
RE: Am I a real man? - Athlynne - 02-12-2007, 09:49 AM
RE: Am I a real man? - nb411 - 02-12-2007, 11:07 AM
RE: Am I a real man? - .jaime. - 02-13-2007, 08:21 AM
RE: Am I a real man? - Pakrat - 02-12-2007, 01:08 PM
RE: Am I a real man? - Ed - 02-12-2007, 03:28 PM
RE: Am I a real man? - Ivar T - 02-12-2007, 04:43 PM
RE: Am I a real man? - Ed - 02-12-2007, 09:19 PM
RE: Am I a real man? - Michael 1 - 02-12-2007, 11:33 PM
RE: Am I a real man? - Meega Na La Queesta - 02-13-2007, 04:42 AM
RE: Am I a real man? - nb411 - 02-13-2007, 06:38 AM
RE: Am I a real man? - Callista - 02-13-2007, 08:24 AM
RE: Am I a real man? - quickduck - 02-13-2007, 12:09 PM
RE: Am I a real man? - .jaime. - 02-15-2007, 09:13 AM
RE: Am I a real man? - quickduck - 02-13-2007, 12:11 PM
RE: Am I a real man? - nb411 - 02-13-2007, 02:43 PM
RE: Am I a real man? - .jaime. - 02-15-2007, 10:12 AM
RE: Am I a real man? - nb411 - 02-13-2007, 02:47 PM
RE: Am I a real man? - Lienda Balla - 02-13-2007, 04:55 PM
RE: Am I a real man? - Lienda Balla - 02-13-2007, 05:01 PM
RE: Am I a real man? - quickduck - 02-13-2007, 05:38 PM
RE: Am I a real man? - Lienda Balla - 02-13-2007, 09:47 PM
RE: Am I a real man? - Michael 1 - 02-13-2007, 11:57 PM
RE: Am I a real man? - green0horse - 02-15-2007, 10:43 AM
RE: Am I a real man? - Asem - 02-15-2007, 01:44 PM
RE: Am I a real man? - Lienda Balla - 02-15-2007, 06:08 PM
RE: Am I a real man? - green0horse - 02-16-2007, 12:25 AM
RE: Am I a real man? - Michael 1 - 02-16-2007, 01:57 AM
RE: Am I a real man? - green0horse - 02-16-2007, 03:07 AM
RE: Am I a real man? - Asem - 02-16-2007, 09:23 AM
RE: Am I a real man? - Michael 1 - 02-16-2007, 04:13 AM
RE: Am I a real man? - tenaciouscj - 02-17-2007, 04:28 PM
RE: Am I a real man? - Michael 1 - 02-17-2007, 11:07 PM
RE: Am I a real man? - Michael 1 - 02-17-2007, 11:08 PM
RE: Am I a real man? - tenaciouscj - 02-18-2007, 01:36 AM
RE: Am I a real man? - Kurai-Gaka - 02-28-2007, 10:15 AM
RE: Am I a real man? - seven - 03-01-2007, 02:15 AM
RE: Am I a real man? - generic_humanoid - 03-01-2007, 05:31 AM
RE: Am I a real man? - Barney - 03-06-2007, 04:34 AM

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