Hey fellas tell me if you have found this. My ex-wife and I who are on civil term (for the children), and after today that will propbably change for the worse, has a tendency to minimise any wrong or plausible wrong on her part and attribute it to me because of my autism. Not just the whole marriage breakdown thing (which was 5 years ago) but any arguement.
When we argue I naturally defend myself very rationally and logically. She throws across emotional stonewalls which I logically crush. In the end she justifies her actions saying that I am autistic and don't comprehend the situation. Which is a cop-out of the highest order. I feel like screaming look just explain your side rationally and logically and debate it. maybe we can learn something. Don't raise your voice, insult me, bring up tangental or irrelevant subject matter. Here is the problem lets dissect it find a common cause and solve or irradicate it. No it appears I am unreasonable and I believe her feelings don't matter and at the end of the day my thought processes are akin to either intellectual retardation (which is difficult to imagine with an IQ of 141) or mental illness.
She had at times say that I don't "fight fair" because she didn't have the stregnth of logical/rational thinking that I did and that I made her arguements look worthless. I'm sorry but if her reasons are sound wouldn't they naturally stand their ground? Irrespective I did and to a lesser extent even now, try to accomadate and compromise a little. I just hate how she has a ready hurtful escape from any arguement - ie your autistic so I win the arguement and you a naturally wrong.