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Do you place more of your trust in women rather than men? Is it the other way around? What about Neurotypicals vs Aspies? Decide here, show us your true inner feelings on the matter!
I chose an Aspie women. I would trust that over anyone else anyday :L
I trust no one.

No, seriously, I trust people, not genders or labels.
There was a female here :L I'm excited :c She was cute an older Sad

buddy Wrote:
I also chose an aspie woman I think that in my experiences, women can be trusted waymore than men. And a woman with asperger's is the icing on the cake.


I concur fellow human :C~

Generalizing about half the world's population is so stupid I don't even have the words to describe it.

erkolos Wrote:
I guess it would take some time to learn to communicate correctly with Simen.


Would you please stop it with the personal comments? If you have something to say about my opinions, go ahead, but you don't need to comment about me.

buddy Wrote:
I also chose an aspie woman I think that in my experiences, women can be trusted waymore than men. And a woman with asperger's is the icing on the cake.

Agreed, but I hate that phrase. Would you eat a cake without icing? Wink

sderenzi Wrote:
Do you place more of your trust in women rather than men? Is it the other way around? What about Neurotypicals vs Aspies? Decide here, show us your true inner feelings on the matter!


Neither by sex alone

On average, I've found women are more likely to be indirect and backstab you and such... too much politics and irrationality/emotionality. Men are simpler creatures...

Aside from that, it depends on the individual. Surprised though that people here trust women more.

Haven't really thought about the Aspie/NT part... don't have enough real life experience with Aspies.  Aspies tendency to take things too literally can be damaging to trust if you're not aware of it, because you might think that they agreed to do something whereas they think they didn't (like, "Could you do the laundry?" vs "Would you do the laundry today?".
I have learned to trust no one until they have proven that they can be trusted. I have three good friends one male & two female who are totally trustworthy.
If I had to choose, it would be an Aspie of either gender, provided I said ' if I tell you ****' will you promise not to tell anyone. I very much doubt that they would let me down.
I judge people by their individual character, not their sex etc....  There are the good and bad in all groups... I set high standards as to who is my friend.  I have been betrayed before, but we learn where we made mistakes in trust...  If people want to be my friend, they will do what it takes to earn my trust... I am a very loyal person to friends, but do something to lose that trust.. just wish you never met me. Smile  Strength comes from with in.... you can't love others until you learn to love yourself and caring for youself.. Don't jump into quick friendships...like Mary Poppins stated.. Pie crust promises.. easily made... easily broken.

Ziyaret Wrote:
Its a good idea to make trust conditional and something to be earned;otherwise the other person doesnt have any incentive to not to betray your trust if the feel its in their self-interest to do so.But young women in particular really do play a lot of mind games; especially towards men since they dont view men as peers.


Exactly!   People have to EARN your trust.... I make people jump through criteria hoops before I even consider them to enter my world.. .My world is very protected...

African saying "Trouble does not ring a bell"  If I do not have the capabilities to understand intent.. I do it my way... Generalizations like you made is exactly what the NT worlds does to Aspies... It served me well for 56 yrs with little problems

Max the Bear Wrote:
I trust people unless and until I have a reason not to. I'm not saying I don't lock the house at night, but unless we're talking about somebody stealing our financial records or stealing the car, I don't really feel I have to protect myself from people. What can they do to me?

Often when people are distrustful of others it's because they doubt their own ability to handle whatever consequences may arise.

rossco Wrote:


If someone is HFA or AS they best learn to toughen up because life is not easy and if you have ineptitudes or differences that place you at a societal disadvantage anyhow, you have to have some determination and big pool of mental and emotional reserve to draw from. Likely people will take advantage of you, likely you will be bullied. Likely people won't understand you. At the end of the day you are responsible for the efforts you make to make your life as best as you can for you. You best be able to earn to handle your difficulties.

Please explain how to 'toughen up', I have tried & tried, it must be part of my 'make up', because I am unable to do this & I wish to God I could.

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