This is going to sound very ironic, but could you add me to msn or something.
My advice is to tell us what you believe you might be doing wrong, and then we can give suggestions as to what to try.
Alright. I went and still continue to go through the same ordeal as well. I'm almost completed high-school, have failed miserably at the one relationship I had and was very friendly, and it almost seemed as if that was my personal drawback. People would think I was flirting with them when I was just being nice.
I too enjoy writing (a lot) a huge variety of music and reading. I still enjoy being friendly. Some people just like the rebels or something and I wasn't going to be something I wasn't.
What you should do is first and foremost be yourself and believe in yourself, because a lot of guys are shallow.
Prufrock if it makes you feel any better, Girls suck even worse. (No offense).
Lemme tell ya Prufrock, (male)Teenagers suck!! Or at least 90% of them. If theres one age where guys are at their absoulte WORST its that age. I donno how old your are but if you're not 18 yet, wait till you are and get someone who's a few years older(early 20s). When I was a teenager I found other teenagers insuitable for dating-AND I pretty much wanted NOTHING to do with other teenage boys. I didnt even have a gf at ALL until I was 19 and in college[she BTW, was 23].
At least you're getting somewhere, I'm 25 and haven't even been on so much as a date.
It does get better... My now hubby was my friend for years, we met in middle school. He supposedly always liked me, but I hated boys also throughout school (tried dating, didn't like it- wrote off boys until college, still didn't like them too much) and he respected that (and dated everyone I knew) But eventually he waited until I came around. We "hung out" every day for two months before I realized my feelings and then we were serious. We've been married six years. Its still not easy, but don't worry about the quantity or quality of your relationships; It just takes one.
I was my own worst enemy when it came to finding The Guy. I wanted some hot or cool or attractive or some romantic dream guy and always got a jerk. I had to figure out the hard way that not everyone that looked cool was cool. My husband now would have never caught my eye in High School. He didn't fit the ideal of HS hottie. I had to get hurt and grow up. I did this by dating losers for too long till I quit looking altogether and accepted being alone, alone alone... and then it happened I found a man I could talk too, who made me laugh, was willing to stick around, came home at night, and was willing to compromise and love me despite myself and my silly ideas of romance. It took a long time, but it was me who had to change my idea of what was attractive. Key words: It ain't about weak in the knees, that fades. Good luck! There are good men out there.
The romance between KamikazeChris and Leemcd56 at DeviantArt is entertaining. KamikazeChris is really SoccerFreak and has AD(H?)D and Leemcd56 has AS. I think they are both under 18.
It seems when I look through AFF's forum that people tend to be better at making friendships with those with the same interests, often other aspies.
Relationships can be tricky:-
I didn’t have a proper relationship until I was 25; even then the first two (I've only had three) didn't work out.
The first women I dated suffered from depression and tried to kill herself--Not as a result of dating me I hasten to add. There were other reasons.
The second relationship ended after an aspie inspired misunderstanding--see my post on Callista's 'Connotation Compassion, & An Ultra-NT Housemate' thread.
The third relationship seems to have worked--third time lucky. I've been married to my wife for nearly three years.
I didn't have a proper relationship until age 21,3. I did marry her at age 30,9. 2 children. And that's it so far.
Until age 20 all that relationship stuff seemed so far away that I didn't even ignore it!
If a guy makes a play for me I RUN (change the subject, make an excuse to leave, whatever), I don't feel safe unless they don't make passes at me and don't push me. If they proclaim they LOVE me, it is always way too soon in my view and I figure they are either lying and therefore not to be trusted or a nut case. That makes me run. I only let the "safe" ones near and slowly bond to them.
Soooo, I end up in pseudo relationships with men who are emotionally unavailable and who aren't going to ever commit.
I say don't rush, you will find someone,
bah
i've solved all my relationship problems.
i am gonna get myself a dog:
http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/co...Seated.jpg
name her princess and let her decide everything (relationship wise) for me.
everyone i think wants to be my friend ends up wanting more.
and the girl(s?) i really like and would want something more with end up wanting something else.
so i am through trusting my own intuition since its totally of the wall.
Get a dog
Wonderful companions
I weas ok at that age. Just many girls weren't.