Is there a reason it's so hard for me to find one sweet guy? Serciously, all my relationships suck! I've had two online realtionships that ended in pain, a sucky boyfriend, a boyfriend who didn't even pay attention to me and now, I'm stuck with no one! Does anyone out there have any tips? I mean, having aspburgers shouldn't really stop me but it does make it hard! The guys I always crush on never like me back! Am I doing something wrong?
Well lets see.
Well, I guess the only thing I can think of is that I'm being myself. I write, I read, I like anime, I dress the way I want, listen to different music, the whole deal. But I am friendly and I try to be a really good girl too. I do try to be friendly as well.
Yeah, you have a point but I also attract guys who are---annoying! Like this one guy named Ricky who seems to be obessed with me and won't leave me alone.
That happened to me as well! I was getting stalked for over two years (literally) from this one girl. It comes along with any attraction. A lot of people get that, celebrities, my sister etc. If you want to know how to get him to leave you alone I have a few tips.
As of now, I'm just ingoring him. So far, it seems to be working.
LOL. Yeah, that does make me feel better. ^.^
Now that is advice I will take to heart.
Yeah, you have a point but I also attract guys who are---annoying! Like this one guy named Ricky who seems to be obessed with me and won't leave me alone.
That happened to me as well! I was getting stalked for over two years (literally) from this one girl. It comes along with any attraction. A lot of people get that, celebrities, my sister etc. If you want to know how to get him to leave you alone I have a few tips.
Hm.. Girls whos attracted to me, and want to get close and scosial, often scares me.
And girl's who find me to be totally unintresting gives me the space I nead.
What if the stalker is an Aspie?
How common is it for women to learn the hard way, forgive the wording.
How common is it for men, too?
This goes back to what Max the Bear said in the Wikipedia post forum under AS/NT Interaction: he specified an arbitrary age for getting wise, 27?
This is one serious accusation. Most of my Christian friends got married by 25 (women, usually younger than the men, but not always).
The non-Christians waited a few years and some did grad school. Anecdotally, I did meet one Christian grad student (who got married during grad school) but here are my questions:
Does non-Christianity correlate more strongly with grad school and delayed marriage?
(A non Christian friend offered her opinion on the younger age of marriage for Christians, but you can probably figure it out, if the only way for Christians to go is married)
I got an email last year from some Canadian woman looking for love (it came to my work email). She said she wanted someone to treat her and the kids well, and wanted some coat and tie kinda guy.
News flash: All a male sociopath needs to do is to dance the dance and talk the talk, and she's toast.
For more on that dance
http://www.wrongplanet.net/modules.php?n...roovyDruid
As for me, dx AS 25, 26, 28: I learned a great deal about respecting women on the inside, at age 20, from a bunch of residence assistants in the honors dorm at present day Shepherd University.
...The first women I dated suffered from depression and tried to kill herself--Not as a result of dating me I hasten to add. There were other reasons. ....
LOL! Don't worry, be "Marley"! 
If a guy makes a play for me I RUN (change the subject, make an excuse to leave, whatever), I don't feel safe unless they don't make passes at me and don't push me. If they proclaim they LOVE me, it is always way too soon in my view and I figure they are either lying and therefore not to be trusted or a nut case. That makes me run. I only let the "safe" ones near and slowly bond to them.
Soooo, I end up in pseudo relationships with men who are emotionally unavailable and who aren't going to ever commit.
I believe we have very much the same thoughts here, except from the last line.
I'm a kind of "one man dog". That's probably why it took me several years to recover emotionally from the divorce from my x-wife.
I believe that unsocial people is more likely to commit for life, or not at all.
Maybe I'm wrong?!
Prufrock, you'll find the right person. Whether it be outside, at a job, online or wherever it is. A lot of 13-22 year old males can be pompous asses and chauvinistic, but there are those who aren't, and that is the person you'll find.
A lot of 13-22 year old males can be pompous asses and chauvinistic...
Hey, I'm not chauvinistic!
Is there a reason it's so hard for me to find one sweet guy? Serciously, all my relationships suck! I've had two online realtionships that ended in pain, a sucky boyfriend, a boyfriend who didn't even pay attention to me and now, I'm stuck with no one! Does anyone out there have any tips? I mean, having aspburgers shouldn't really stop me but it does make it hard! The guys I always crush on never like me back! Am I doing something wrong?
I'm going to sound like the true **** here. But if you aren't pretty the guys won't look at you or pay any attention to you. If you're smart, fine. If you're not pretty then there's a serious problem. I'm guessing you're in your teens. All we want from women is what our instincts want; sex. Internet dating? Riiight. Go out and find someone. That coming from me, it must be true, because i never go out. Don't try to date someone unless you know what it is they want from you and are willing to give it to them, in our case, sex.
But hey, i'm just a 16 yr old ****.