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MishLuvsHer2Boys Wrote:
Source: http://www.oacrs.com/News/2005/January/Jan24.htm From the OACRS (Ontario Association of Children's Rehabilitation Services) homepage's section "Family Net"

Father carries bag of cement across Canada for autism
Monday, January 24, 2005 - Michelle Strutzenberger

On April 15, 2005 Michael Coles will begin a walk across Canada to raise funds for autism treatment. As if trekking 6100 kilometres on foot isn’t enough, he plans to carry a 55 pound bag of cement on his shoulder throughout the journey. Michael says the concrete is symbolic of “carrying the load for the children” who have autism.
Michael plans to begin his journey in Halifax, Nova Scotia with completion in Vancouver, British Columbia. He anticipates it will take between five and seven months at a rate of 50 to 60 kilometres a day.

He dreams of raising $30 million, about a dollar from every Canadian.

Michael says he would like to see most of the funds raised donated directly to families who are dealing with autism. “The lion’s share of the monies raised will be earmarked… to provide proven treatment and therapy for those that need [it],” Michael tells Family Net.

“It’s very clear that in Canada the medical systems are reluctant to fund these treatments and programs for whatever reasons,” Michael adds. “I hope to cause a stir great enough by the end of this journey to change that for those in need of funding – permanently.”

Michael says the dream for this walk began after the diagnosis of one of his twin sons with Asperger’s Syndrome. As the family struggled with accessing resources and information to help their son, Michael says he realized that “something needed to be done” about the system for supporting families dealing with autism.

The idea of carrying a bag of cement across Canada came to him while he was working at his construction job. He had been lugging cement all day in the rain and the idea “just came into my head.”

“This is what I felt I needed to do to ensure that my son Isaiah and others like him have every opportunity to live a happy, healthy life,” says Michael.

Michael has been training for his walk for the past six months. He typically walks 20 miles two to three days a week with the bag of concrete grout on his shoulder.

“Once the rain backs off a little I will be increasing that amount to between 25 and 40 miles three to four days a week,” he says.

Michael has been spreading word of his trek through the media in British Columbia where he now lives. He hopes to raise awareness of the walk across Canada before it begins, to increase the likelihood of reaching his $30 million goal.

People interested in supporting the “Carrying the Load for the Children” walk can contact either call 604-613-3090 or e-mail nezosparky@yahoo.com.

A Web site is under construction which will include information about the walk, online donation capability and links to resources for autism.

The trek is a project of Little Feet Children’s Charities Society in British Columbia.


may the bag of cement disfigure his spine! MHUAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

flardox Wrote:

MishLuvsHer2Boys Wrote:
Source: http://www.oacrs.com/News/2005/January/Jan24.htm From the OACRS (Ontario Association of Children's Rehabilitation Services) homepage's section "Family Net"

Father carries bag of cement across Canada for autism
Monday, January 24, 2005 - Michelle Strutzenberger

On April 15, 2005 Michael Coles will begin a walk across Canada to raise funds for autism treatment. As if trekking 6100 kilometres on foot isn’t enough, he plans to carry a 55 pound bag of cement on his shoulder throughout the journey. Michael says the concrete is symbolic of “carrying the load for the children” who have autism.
Michael plans to begin his journey in Halifax, Nova Scotia with completion in Vancouver, British Columbia. He anticipates it will take between five and seven months at a rate of 50 to 60 kilometres a day.

He dreams of raising $30 million, about a dollar from every Canadian.

Michael says he would like to see most of the funds raised donated directly to families who are dealing with autism. “The lion’s share of the monies raised will be earmarked… to provide proven treatment and therapy for those that need [it],” Michael tells Family Net.

“It’s very clear that in Canada the medical systems are reluctant to fund these treatments and programs for whatever reasons,” Michael adds. “I hope to cause a stir great enough by the end of this journey to change that for those in need of funding – permanently.”

Michael says the dream for this walk began after the diagnosis of one of his twin sons with Asperger’s Syndrome. As the family struggled with accessing resources and information to help their son, Michael says he realized that “something needed to be done” about the system for supporting families dealing with autism.

The idea of carrying a bag of cement across Canada came to him while he was working at his construction job. He had been lugging cement all day in the rain and the idea “just came into my head.”

“This is what I felt I needed to do to ensure that my son Isaiah and others like him have every opportunity to live a happy, healthy life,” says Michael.

Michael has been training for his walk for the past six months. He typically walks 20 miles two to three days a week with the bag of concrete grout on his shoulder.

“Once the rain backs off a little I will be increasing that amount to between 25 and 40 miles three to four days a week,” he says.

Michael has been spreading word of his trek through the media in British Columbia where he now lives. He hopes to raise awareness of the walk across Canada before it begins, to increase the likelihood of reaching his $30 million goal.

People interested in supporting the “Carrying the Load for the Children” walk can contact either call 604-613-3090 or e-mail nezosparky@yahoo.com.

A Web site is under construction which will include information about the walk, online donation capability and links to resources for autism.

The trek is a project of Little Feet Children’s Charities Society in British Columbia.


may the bag of cement disfigure his spine! MHUAHAHAHAHAHAHA!


Kudos for you!

No, he's not. He's raising money for therapy for people who need it, which some people do.

I would be afraid to donate just because there's no specification of what kind of "therapy" the money is going towards, but just from reading this article I don't think we need to condemn this guy.

flardox Wrote:

SheWhoCan'tThinkOfAUsername Wrote:
No, he's not. He's raising money for therapy for people who need it, which some people do.

I would be afraid to donate just because there's no specification of what kind of "therapy" the money is going towards, but just from reading this article I don't think we need to condemn this guy.


On April 15, 2005 Michael Coles will begin a walk across Canada to raise funds for autism treatment

he is raising funds for autism cures the above quote proves my point.


Apparantly the walk has been halted for now-I have no idea what 'now' means though in terms of an actual date and it isn't clear from the website when the walk will be resumed.
"treatment' and 'cure' are 2 different things-at least in my mind.

Mahler5 Wrote:

flardox Wrote:

SheWhoCan'tThinkOfAUsername Wrote:
No, he's not. He's raising money for therapy for people who need it, which some people do.

I would be afraid to donate just because there's no specification of what kind of "therapy" the money is going towards, but just from reading this article I don't think we need to condemn this guy.


On April 15, 2005 Michael Coles will begin a walk across Canada to raise funds for autism treatment

he is raising funds for autism cures the above quote proves my point.


Apparantly the walk has been halted for now-I have no idea what 'now' means though in terms of an actual date and it isn't clear from the website when the walk will be resumed.
"treatment' and 'cure' are 2 different things-at least in my mind.

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Michael says he would like to see most of the funds raised donated directly to families who are dealing with autism. “The lion’s share of the monies raised will be earmarked… to provide proven treatment and therapy for those that need [it],” Michael tells Family Net.


Unfortunately to many, the word treatment is synonymous with cure.

Therapies I don't think are.

Before I reached into my pocket I would want to know exactly what he meant.

If autism were truly an epidemic, something like 50% or more of the population would have it. As they don't, it's just hysterical hyperbole.
It's really unclear to me whether the money would go toward something useful or something of no help to autistics. His attitude, unfortunately, is guided by the anti-autism propaganda the cure organizations spread out. It seems likely that it would go to ABA, considering the popularity of that therapy in Canada, the recent Auton case not deeming ABA as "medically necessary", and the statement that it would be helping them be more independent. Good goal, but not if done forcibly, or by repressing an individual's need to stim, or by shaming them for their being autistic.

I certainly wouldn't donate, as I would have no way of knowing if I'd be donating to a potentially harmful therapy, as opposed to a useful and desirable one.
Also, does the "greater independence" mean that the parents can boot their kids out at 18 with a clear conscience or does it mean that it's so the children will be happier within themselves whatever path they follow in life?

Joker Wrote:
Why so certain that this guy is some curebie? What's he done to show any motives but altruism? Lugging a bag of cement across a country is not something "lightly" done(apologies for the pun). What makes you think he's not in it to help families and their children?


It's more that we don't know where the money's going yet - and considering his comments about the autism "epidemic", we can't trust that they aren't going to genetic research.

Any any case, the comments themselves are cause for concern.

i was wondering how he would eat and sleep for he would have to carry those as well.

Joker Wrote:
*shrug*

Actions speak louder than words, and that he's carrying a bag of cement across Canada certainly makes quite a noise. Maybe we should ask him?


You quite often use a "maybe we should" to request things you would want. If you're interested in his feedback, maybe you should ask him.

Odd thread, this. Three years ago, this thread was started to draw attention to something that could have been a good thing - there was all this hype about a 'charitable' walk by the father of an Aspie raising money to give directly to the parents of autistic kids, rather than to one of the big charities. The thread fizzled out after just eight posts because, presumably, there was no more input.

Last week Flardox kindly resurrected it. So now we could ask where the money had gone, and it appears from the website that the walker abandoned his attempt with some acrimony between his supporters and the charity backing them.

There are no dates on the website to indicate when anything might have happened, or whether any monies were distributed.

Does cement smell like kippers, or is there something else fishy?

Joker Wrote:
Has anyone investigated though? Has anyone taken the time to look for evidence of wrongdoing or confirmation of whether it's true? I haven't, and I'm being the optimist, others haven't and they're being pessimists, or realists if they prefer. It's easy to cast doubt, but I stand by Innocent until proven guilty. If you want to point a finger and say "guilty," you need to first bring in hard proof of wrongdoing. The onus is for the prosecution to prove guilt, not the defense to defend innocence.

But I probably sound all self-righteous or something, but I'm really tired now after New Years, so I guess what I'm trying to say is, if you guys won't give him the benefit of the doubt, and think it's fishy, at least find the fish.


Well, I tried to call Michael Coles actually, as this 'charity' has a home base in the province where I live. And I was, and am curious. 
I like that someone is willing to raise money to give to parents directly. 
 I do not like that he has a paragraph stating that "you don't want Autism in your life it will alter your future and not in a good way" ...

So I was just going to be professional and have a wee chat.
The website (thanks M) lists the contact info.

When I rang the # someone said Hello, and I asked for Mr. Coles, tried to clarify if this indeed was the number for the Little Feet Children's Charities, asked if he was there again (as I seemed to be talking to a black void)-when suddenly an eerie voice said "No"... and hung up.
When I called back it had gone to voice mail. It's a cell phone and I didn't leave a message, and I haven't pursued it further.
Other stuff happened in my life..but I could do more.. fishing Smile

Joker Wrote:
If you want to point a finger and say "guilty," you need to first bring in hard proof of wrongdoing. The onus is for the prosecution to prove guilt, not the defense to defend innocence.


This is a public discussion board, not a courtroom. There's no 'onus' on anybody.

If you think he should be contacted, then put in the effort to contact him. If you couldn't be bothered, then assume that we couldn't either.

It seems he's doing that, oh but the children are suffering and helpless, so I'm going to make a sacrifice. Talk about melodrama. How about actually help people with Autism, oh wait, that doesn't get you a news story though.
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