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Autism Tests Urged To Cut Out Disability: Mock Article

            This is a mock story we might read five years from
      now.  The original, real version of this article is at
      the beginning of this newsletter and is about pre-natal
      screening for Down Syndrome. (Genetic Tests Urged To Cut Out Disability[By Dearbhail McDonald.]http://www.timesonline.co.uk/article/0,,...30,00.html)
            
     A common technique used in sensitivity training
      to raise awareness about ethnic or sexual prejudice is
      an empathy building device called role-reversal. Replace
      the group targeted for prejudice with one’s own to see
      how one likes being treated this way, if one is not
      already a member of that group.
            Here we engage a similar technique of role switching
      for a different purpose.  We’ve replaced every reference to
      Down Syndrome with autism or Asperger Syndrome to
      produce an unusual read that may help bring the subject
      a little closer to home.  See how it feels on you.


     A leading obstetrician has called for the introduction of a national
screening programme to test foetuses for Autism.
      Stephen Carroll, a consultant at the National Maternity hospital in
Dublin, said a countrywide system would help to increase detection of unborn
babies with the disability. Ireland has one of the highest levels of Autism
in Europe.
      A recent survey conducted at the hospital revealed that two-thirds of
older mothers-to-be, considered most at risk, did not want to know if their
child would have the syndrome.
      However, once the women were told that they were at risk, two-thirds
declined a further, more invasive test known as amniocentesis. Some were
concerned that the procedure, which involves the removal of tissue from the
foetus, would trigger a miscarriage. Others simply did not want to know or
felt the test was futile because abortion was not available in Ireland.
      “A lot of women leave it to fate and just don’t want to know,” said
Carroll, who led the two-year study at the hospital’s Fetal Assessment Unit.
      “Advances in screening means that we can assess a woman’s risk of
carrying Autism in the early stages of pregnancy, and that is a great
advantage. However, there are no options for women in Ireland to terminate a
pregnancy where tests reveal a chromosomal abnormality.
      “Autism still comes as a shock to many parents and it is crucial that
women who are screened are counselled as to the implications of such tests
and what carrying an Autism child means.”
      Autism affects the physical and intellectual development of children
born with it. An estimated one in 580 babies born in Ireland has the
disability, a figure likely to rise.
      In Britain, where screening is more commonplace, mothers often opt to
terminate their pregnancy if an abnormality is detected.
      “Advanced prenatal screening is a doubled-edged sword. On the one
hand, it can lead to earlier detection and treatment of chromosomal
abnormalities, but often it can present parents with difficult moral
dilemmas.”
      “I think screening is a brilliant idea,” said Mary Gaw, a Dublin
mother of four who has given birth to two children with Autism.
      She was not tested before giving birth to her daughter Tara, 6, who
has the syndrome, and underwent an NT scan and amniocentesis before giving
birth to her son Harrison, 3, who also has the condition.
      “It is such a shock to give birth to a child with a disability. Your
head is all over the place,” said Gaw, whose children have both undergone
open heart surgery. “Being prepared makes all the difference. It is
impossible to be sad once they are born because you love them so much.”
      Some feel the risk of miscarriage, albeit minor, involved in the
second, more detailed test is one not worth taking.
      “Why create an additional risk?” asked May Gannon, a counsellor for
Autism Ireland. “People assess the risk of miscarriage associated with
invasive tests against the need to know. For many mothers, the risk of
miscarriage is still too much, especially if they are not planning to have
an abortion.”
      The morality of what are termed eugenic abortions, of unborn children
with disabilities, has been the subject of heated debate in Britain. It
became particularly controversial earlier this year after it emerged that up
to 12 foetuses had been aborted late in pregnancy because they had Asperger
Syndrome, a minor disability that can be corrected.
      “Why do we need national screening?” said Gannon. “People with
disabilities have the same right to life as everybody else. We cannot use
advances in screening techniques to get rid of children.”

COMMENTARY Continues

      Not everyone will be uncomfortable with this future “cure” for autism,
to be sure. But an estimated 70 to 90% of pregnancies that test positive for
Down Syndrome are terminated early.  
      Almost all government research money spent on autism is in genetic
research, as well most the funds raised by private parent-groups like the
National Alliance for Autism Research, and to a lesser extent, Cure Autism
Now.
      Nowhere on any government website, or on any parent fundraising
organization website will one find any reference to eugenic screening as an
application for the genetic research they fund.  
      However, recent history has shown that this was exactly how this type
of research was initially applied in the case of Down Syndrome.  As soon as
the genetic markers for Down Syndrome were identified, public funding for
Down Syndrome research dried up.  Right or wrong, abortion is the first, and
still the last “cure” for that disorder.
      A significant difference between Down Syndrome then and autism
research now, is that a small minority of parent-based autism research
funding groups believe there are environmental factors, in addition to
genetic factors, at the cause of autism and are struggling to raise public
awareness and funding in this area accordingly. The larger Cure Autism Now
organization has recently increased its attention in this direction, as
well.
      Only recently have a few scientists, in and outside of the government
have come around to admitting to there being environmental factors in
autism, in the face of an autism epidemic.  Epidemics cannot be caused by
any genetic factors.  This perhaps is the reason for most supporters of
genetic research denying an autism epidemic. It draws attention and
therefore funding away from genetic research and into research into
environmental triggers and sources, including possible iatrogenic toxins
found in vaccines.  
      And there may be toxic sources in other Food and Drug Agency approved
medications as well, or even as the result of Environmental Protection
Agency standards and regulations that conflict with agencies that are more
influenced politically by pharmaceutical and industrial manufacturing
interests respectively [see environmental articles above under PUBLIC
HEALTH].
      Environmental or clinical autism research also threatens public health
agencies in addition to their corporate counterparts, who may be at the
source of environmental assaults.
      In a related matter also making the news, the eugenic “cure” for
autism is the bone that is stuck in the craw* of the “Don’t—Cure-Our-Autism
advocates who have currently caught the attention of some media here and in
the UK. If this turns out to be the only “cure” for autism, then they have a
point.  But, to use a close-cutting cliché, let’s not toss the baby out with
the bathwater**.  Abortion needn’t be the sole cure for autism.  Some
families who already have children with autism, as well as those who have a
problem with abortion in general are counting on it and are raising money to
make it so.


*A metaphor expression for having an all-consuming problem.
**A metaphor expression meaning not to rid of the good when getting rid of
the bad.


LETTERS

Cure for the Anti-Cure

      Thank you for publishing your note about the scourge of autism
dialogue these days -- the autism "imposters" who trivialize the
catastrophic nature of what is "real" autism by claiming that people with
fairly normal communication skills but nevertheless afflicted with moderate
sensory/social problems are also autistic.
      The language of autism is severely impoverished. "High functioning
autism" is indeed a contradiction. We need a better way to identify those
with mild impairments and differentiate them with the profound classic
disorder.  Our autism professionals have fallen down on the job.
      -Jill Escher, San Jose, CA, mother of nonverbal 5 year-old autistic
son


      I have an 8-year old with classic autism and due to all of the
attention given to people with Aspergers and those with special talents,
many have a dangerously skewed perception of just how disabling autism can
be.  We need to get the information out to the media that there are
countless hundreds of thousands of people dealing with the more serious
effects of autism and our story needs to be told also.
      - Amy Butler, Grass Valley,  CA


      I have been thinking about the push by "autistics" to not be called
disabled. I agree with the letter that says that for some "autistics" it
truly is just a different way of thinking (when they finally escape the
torture of grammar school). For those with behaviors that prevent them from
living with their families, or which make the lives of their families
hellacious, autism certainly must be called a disability, even by the most
insensitive person.  For some children, the autism becomes manageable as
they mature, and ceases to be significantly disabling (in terms of survival,
and since some don't want an active social life, it is a non-issue to them).
I also think that it is likely that some people "get" autism, while others
inherit it, and still others inherit a predisposition for autistic symptoms
which can be improved with treatment.  
      The problem with the idea of "curing" autism is that it isn't
realistic, and it feels insulting.  I think that, like diabetes, Autism is
TREATED via ABA and Relationship Development Intervention, and speech
therapy, and all the numerous therapies that we parents try in order to
improve the lives of our children, and consequently, our own lives.  Our
argument to those who object to the word "cure", is that we want to
ameliorate the devastating effects that having an autistic child has on the
family, and we want the security of knowing that our children will be safe
after we die. -- Just like parents of "neuro typical” children.
      - Debra Ditkowky


RESPONSE TO LETTERS
Somewhere over the Spectrum, Part 3.
Lenny Schafer

      The “Don’t-Cure-Our-Autism” advocates argue that if a child is having
"hellacious" behavior, it is only because parents and the rest of the world
have failed correctly to respond to the child's autism.  The child would not
have to resort to such extreme communication, which we incorrectly perceive
as aggression, if we were doing our jobs right to meet their needs.  I would
concede that this has much truth. Here is their argument, as I understand
it.
      If their parents had done a better job, their thinking goes, their
lives and their autism would not been so difficult and painful.  The
"rational" conclusion here is that parents failed because they could not
accept their child as autistic flawed, "damaged goods", and therefore cared
not sufficiently enough to make the required effort it would take to have
done it right. If parents properly cared and made the required effort, it
would have made their own lives so much less difficult and painful.  
      Also, they believe that parents who would call for a cure of something
that is so much a part of who they are, further reinforces this conclusion.
To want to eliminate autism, rather than correctly accommodate it, is to say
we want to take the expediency of eliminating them. And viola, problem
cured, problem solved.  
      Are they wrong, silly or paranoid to think such a horrible thing?  In
a large part no!  There is ample history and ample examples of people taking
such drastic short cuts [see above articles on the use of screen to
eliminate disabilities] to rid themselves of the disabled.  
      One very painful and pointed example in support of this thinking is
how we, parents and society, "cures" those with down syndrome.  To say it
bluntly, the current cure is to eliminate them while still in the womb.  If
done, pre-birth testing can identify those fetuses/unborn children with the
flaw because we know the genetic markers for that disorder.  
      But not all parents think in eugenic terms.
      The piece that the autistics don't "get” is that while parents could
have done a better job with the autism, virtually no parents have the
intense training needed to deal ideally with autism, and such training is
difficult to get or to afford, even if one were able to determine what that
training is. Indeed, the anti-cure advocates have no guidelines for what is
appropriate parenting and what is not. Also, they are unable to produce
actual examples of parents who are both doing it right and who are doing it
wrong.  Additionally, and most tellingly, they are unable to produce anyone
who is willing to publicly claim victimhood to such alleged oppressive
parenting and who can provide details of their suffering. There is no there
there.
      Besides, not every parent can become a Mother Teresa for their child’s
autism and it is silly, and counterproductive, to blame them for not being
so.  Parents do not need contrived moral burdens on top of the real problems
they already face.  It just makes it that much more difficult to provide the
care their children need.  This is why their efforts must be opposed. Their
partial understanding of autism and the resulting contorted advocacy puts
them in the way.
      One favorite slogan of the anti-cure crowd is that autism is not a
disease.  Let’s get clear on this.  Autism IS a disease, and not just some
annoying pimple on some malcontent’s butt.  Disease means want of ease, want
of health in body and mind.  It is caring parents who want this for any
child they have, diseased or not.  The kind of cure caring parents want is a
cure that frees their children from the real, suffering disabilities of
autism, so that their children can have what it takes to discover and obtain
their own happiness dictated by their own individuality. To claim that
parents only want to force their children into something they are not for
purely selfish reasons is little more than rank misanthropy. It is just not
true.
      Is it the anti-cure proponents who are the selfish evildoers for their
harmful advocacy?  I believe not.  I believe, as do others, that it is their
autistic-like deficits, the lack of the ability to empathize, that prevents
them from seeing what’s truly in the hearts of most cure and
treatment-loving parents.  With love in your heart, you can make mistakes,
but you can do little wrong.


Now is it not the same for autistic/aspie parents that do have love in their hearts, make mistakes, we chose not to cure our children or ourselves, yet we are said to do wrong? This is pathetic nonsense. I am proud of who I am, proud of who my oldest son is as well as whatever my youngest son turns out to be NT or on the autism spectrum. I make mistakes everyone does NT or AS, or whatever but by no means am I wrong for it. Tired of being told I am harming my child if I don't do the diets, the interventions, the therapies, Dylan is doing fantastic with my love and teaching him how to use the skills that he has a hard time with and with speech therapy and a bit of advice on motor skills from occupational therapist. He has never received ABA or anything else and he's doing fantastic on his own. He is who he is meant to be as am I as is Brendon and we're all unique and different and that is what matters most.
Schafer says " Is it the anti-cure proponents who are the selfish evildoers for their harmful advocacy? I believe not. I believe, as do others, that it is their
autistic-like deficits, the lack of the ability to empathize, that prevents
them from seeing what’s truly in the hearts of most cure and
treatment-loving parents."

On the one hand he wants to say that we are not really autistic at all and very able, and on the other that our "autistic-like defecits" are stopping us from seeing reality.
Is that the best argument he has?
I just want to reach out and slap this guy...
What part of what we are trying to convey to Schafer is not getting through to him?
The piece that the autistics don't "get” is that while parents could have done a better job with the autism, virtually no parents have the intense training
(Intense training? Ahh, you mean patience and trying many different methods that don't include hitting, screaming and making the child feel like he/she is bad?) …needed to deal ideally with autism, and such training is difficult to get or to afford,
(training that's difficult to get or afford? His mind ALWAYS comes back to money doesn't it?  If he could quit thinking about money for a moment and try to see a child as something more than a piece of property to Control or mold into a society clone)  …even if one were able to determine what that training is. Indeed, the anti-cure advocates have no guidelines for what is appropriate parenting and what is not.
Schafer, where have you been hiding in the past few years?  There are articles ALL OVER the internet and in recent published books on how to raise wonderfully unique autistic children. Also, they are unable to produce actual examples of parents who are both doing it right and who are doing it wrong. Additionally, and most tellingly, they are unable to produce anyone who is willing to publicly claim victimhood
Please, spare us!  It's not our parents' fault that there are quacks out in the world preying on them trying to drain their bank accounts and telling them that their children are diseased and must be cured by pounding them into submission with a lot of trained monkey tricks….that once used, only gives the appearance to the world that the child is just like everyone else.   …to such alleged oppressive parenting and who can provide details of their suffering.
There is no there there.
I totally refuse to comment on what is wrong with this sentence.Besides, not every parent can become a Mother Teresa for their child’s autism and it is silly, and counterproductive,
(Yeah, we all know how silly and counterproductive Mother Teresa was….all that compassion and refusal to look at others as hopeless) …to blame them for not being so. Parents do not need contrived moral burdens on top of the real problems
they already face.
(All those bills piling up from the ABA treatments)  
It just makes it that much more difficult to provide the care their children need. This is why their efforts must be opposed. Their partial understanding of autism
(Partial understanding of what we live day in and day out?) and the resulting contorted advocacy puts them in the way. One favorite slogan of the anti-cure crowd is that autism is not a disease. Let’s get clear on this. Autism IS a disease, (dis ease only for those of you that have DisEase in thinking of us as someone that thinks very different from you - I know this is a hard concept for you to accept)
…and not just some annoying pimple on some malcontent’s butt.
(No problems for me, Schafer with that kind of acne - you might go see a doctor because it sounds like a personal problem, to me)  Disease means want of ease, want of health in body and mind. It is caring parents who want this for any
child they have, diseased or not. The kind of cure caring parents want is a cure that frees their children from the real, suffering disabilities of autism,
(….by chaining them to an idea that they are broken and need to Pretend to be who they are not) so that their children can have what it takes to discover and obtain their own happiness dictated by their own individuality.
(The individuality that has been dictated to them by the ones that say they were broken, before the "treatments") To claim that parents only want to force their children into something they are not for
purely selfish reasons is little more than rank misanthropy. It is just not true.  
(I'm sure giving your child drugs to keep them from flapping their hands in public is quite a selfless act!)
Here is Kathleen Seidel's brilliant reply to the Schafer Report:- http://www.neurodiversity.com/inquisition.html
Very good response from her.
Mr.Shafer makes 2 replies, the last being this -

"Mr. Schafer's Reply

19 January 2005

The grass is green,
The sky is blue,
And autism is a disability.
Don't blame me; I found them that way.

If one is not disabled, one is not autistic, and one should butt out.

Lenny"


He is basically inferring that autism has to be a disability, and if you dont class yourself as disabled,  then you arent autistic. :x

Amy Wrote:

Schafer Wrote:
If one is not disabled, one is not autistic, and one should butt out.


By that half-assed line of reasoning, as he is neither disabled nor autistic, it's past time for him to butt out...

Quote:
"Mr. Schafer's Reply

19 January 2005

The grass is green,
The sky is blue,
And autism is a disability.
Don't blame me; I found them that way.

If one is not disabled, one is not autistic, and one should butt out.

Lenny"


Unbelievable!  Simply unbelievable!  I cannot imagine why ANYONE would hold this man's opinion in high regard or even think what he has to say is important after this type of reply is made to Kathleen Seidel's intelligent questions regarding Lenny's opinions of Autism.

He didn't even have the common decency to answer her questions!  I am positively aghast at his total rudeness towards anyone that has an opinion different from his obviously warped view.

Thank Heavens his child was born so completely DIFFERENT from him as I cannot imagine another of his kind in the world!  May his child grow up and help us to change the confusion this man is causing with his lack of reasoning and all-consuming need to cure what he cannot understand.

Lenny Schafer does not have a child with autism. He takes care of his grandson, Isaac (Zak).  I often find Lenny to be not only wrong, but irritatingly so. I have met him in person enough times to suspect that he is a lot closer to ASD than he will ever admit!  Like too many Internazis on lists, Lenny is always right, every time Smile

       However, I admire anyone who, in his seventies, lives barely above the poverty level in order to help a teenaged, autistic grandson have what  his parents wimped out on providing. That much about Lenny, I have heard from several people who don't lie to me.

            Lenny, like the rest of us, is not a totally bad person after all.

                                    Jerry Newport

Quote:
Lenny, like the rest of us, is not a totally bad person after all.


That's good to know, Jerry.  I'd like to think that everyone has at least one good quality.  

I suppose I get so tired because of my own everyday struggles and those of my son and grandson that his inconsiderate comments is like a slap in the face to me.  It really hit a raw nerve, which is possibly what he is aiming to do although to what purpose, I haven't a clue.  We are not disabled and broken people that need to be cured.  If you take away our autistic traits, you take away who we are.

This is Kathleen, author of that long letter to Mr. Schafer. Thanks for the nice comments. There was so much misinformation in his editorials, and so much contempt for people I love dearly, that I just had to respond at length (as I am wont to do).

May I offer a couple of corrections and an opinion or two. Mr. Schafer is adoptive father to two children, a son and a daughter. This can be verified in the May 23, 2002 Schafer Autism Report (at http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/-Au...ssage/1876).  A hagiography of Schafer contained in that report indicates that, "He supports himself and his son mainly with adoption money the state gives to people who adopt children with disabilities." In my view, it is really unfair to assume that biological parents who determine that it is in a child's best interests to be raised in a family situation more supportive than that which they can provide, have "wimped out on providing" for the child. This is as unfair as assuming that anyone receiving disability payments is a freeloader.

It is unlikely that Mr. Schafer's son is his grandchild, given a 2002 Usenet post in which he states that he "adopted two children from girls... who placed their right to have fun with sex over the lives the resulting children they would abandon by adoption or destroy via abortion." One person who responded to that statement entitled her reply, "Lenny Schafer, Big-Hearted Adoptive Dad," and I concur with her sarcasm. Unless if it was an "open adoption," it is unlikely that he knew anything specific about the parents of any child he considered adopting. What is even worse than his unjust condemnation of women he probably does not know, is considering the possibility that any child would hear such things said about their mother.
I believe that it is just as unfair to make assumptions and generalizations about biological mothers of adoptive children, as it is to make assumptions and generalizations about those who are on the autistic spectrum. One can't be certain what another person's life is like until they reveal something of themselves to you; and one cannot assume that an adoptive parent knows anything about the personal life and circumstances of the mother of the child they're adopting. Certainly there are many who are irresponsible, but there are also many rape and incest victims who become pregnant. Often, giving a child up for adoption is the most responsible thing to do under the circumstances.

I certainly agree that it is far better for any child to be raised in a loving home than to be relegated to an institution.
I agree Kathleen, I think its highly unlikely that Lenny would have been told the exact circumstances that led to the babies being given up for adoption, so his criticism of the mother or mothers is contemptible.

Also sometimes babies are taken away from mothers that are deemed at risk to themselves or their children, as and we know autism is genetic, there is a possibilty that the mother was on the spectrum and couldnt cope or wasnt given the choice.

Either way, the fact that hes been so critical doesnt surprise me considering how he has spoken of the many people who work for autism rights, and that he has criticized so readily.
Actually this all reminded me of a very sad story. I used to have a pen friend a few years ago, she was autistic, was 18, and was very naive, she got taken advantage of and got pregnant, it was deemed by doctors that she couldnt look after it. She was sectioned under the mental health act, forcibly detained, and she "agreed" to have an abortion. It wasnt what she wanted, she was pushed into it, and was devastated for a long time afterwards. Still locked up in a mental health facility, she would cry down the phone to me, weeping about the baby, it was heartbreaking :cry:
That is an excellent point, one that had not occurred to me.

Just yesterday I went to the public library with my daughter, and ended up spending at least a half hour in conversation with a woman not much younger than me -- I believe she said she was 45 -- who lives in a residential community not far from here. She was rocking furiously in a rocking chair; I smiled at her, and she reached out her hand to me and said hello. It barely took five minutes before her memories of rape in an institution came out in a torrent, and she said to me that yes, those memories never left her. Although she referred to herself as "***," she seemed of average intelligence, more obviously disabled by post-traumatic stress than by anything else that I could ascertain.
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