Aspies For Freedom

KalahariMeerkat Wrote:

When I contacted the people involved they said it was my fault that the site was made.

Just like it was Poland's fault the Nazis invaded.

erkolos Wrote:

Well if you are an idiot, then I should be an even greater one!

No one tops me in that regard.

The site that stuff was posted on appears to be a wiki, usually anyone can edit a wiki, so you might be able to change it yourself.

Also, at least your english, spelling, and grammar skills are readable, she must really have it worse than you if she has to resort to cellphone text to type her insults.

Also, so what if she has thousands of cyber friends, that doesn't mean that she has any friends in real life, case in point, I have 75 friends on Myspace, and only 5 in real life, and because of that, I can be a real prick sometimes, but what she did was uncalled for.

This is a phrase for you from the chan boards:

"Same Person."

What this means:
This is probably just one psycho that won't let something go.
They create multiple accounts or personas,so they can pretend they have a lot of people against you.
Just ignore it and it will go away.

Don't feed the trolls. It only makes them stronger.

how she twists and twirls Wrote:

KalahariMeerkat Wrote:

The comments they left on my Sheezy page are how I noticed it even exhisted. The comments in themselves are nasty and the Sheezy people pretend they aren't there no matter how often I tell them to do something about them. I'm just quoting what these people said on my Sheezy Art page:

1. "http://lilymud.pbwiki.com/Fandom%20Members

AHA . C ! ! . U R ON THER ! U SUX U GUT MINTIONEDED ALOTS ! BECUS U SUX ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! !

http://lilymud.pbwiki.com/Asperger's%20Syndrome

AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHALULZ ! ! GO FUK U"

2. "O M G . U gut soooo BANNNED from lilymud. u sux so bad . ! ! ! !
whut u gut 4 picking on Weaver , u f**** bullly. u r art sux . u rude priick ! ! ! go a way , no1 want s u on TLKFAA or lilymud . u assbugger

! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! "

You can't acess the site unless you are a member of Lillymud and then you have to ask for it. The people who run wiki were very upset that people were using their site for such terrible purposes and said they would delete it but couldn't because the site was made private. Wiki is somewhat simmaliar to My Space.

think of it like this

at least you are legible in your writing.
as Andrew said, change your e-mail addressed.
set up your old ones to forward e-mail,so you can keep receiving those vital ones.

you can do what i do,which is add them to ignore lists,ignore their posts,and report report report them.
of course,theres always the old trick of signing them up to....suspect or..embarassing mailing lists Wink

That's terrible! Sad But these comments were obviously written by immature, barely-literate dunces. There's no reason you should feel obligated to seek their forgiveness or approval. They get their entertainment from tormenting other people via the relative anonymity of the internet and they're only using your one rude comment as a flimsy justification for their behavior. This isn't your fault. Not at all. Don't let these idiots convince you that you've somehow brought this on yourself.

and i...put my message into quotes :whoops:

urgh. i'll try again

how she twists and twirls Wrote:

KalahariMeerkat Wrote:

The comments they left on my Sheezy page are how I noticed it even exhisted. The comments in themselves are nasty and the Sheezy people pretend they aren't there no matter how often I tell them to do something about them. I'm just quoting what these people said on my Sheezy Art page:

1. "http://lilymud.pbwiki.com/Fandom%20Members

AHA . C ! ! . U R ON THER ! U SUX U GUT MINTIONEDED ALOTS ! BECUS U SUX ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! !

http://lilymud.pbwiki.com/Asperger's%20Syndrome

AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHALULZ ! ! GO FUK U"

2. "O M G . U gut soooo BANNNED from lilymud. u sux so bad . ! ! ! !
whut u gut 4 picking on Weaver , u f**** bullly. u r art sux . u rude priick ! ! ! go a way , no1 want s u on TLKFAA or lilymud . u assbugger

! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! "

You can't acess the site unless you are a member of Lillymud and then you have to ask for it. The people who run wiki were very upset that people were using their site for such terrible purposes and said they would delete it but couldn't because the site was made private. Wiki is somewhat simmaliar to My Space.

That's terrible! Sad But these comments were obviously written by immature, barely-literate dunces. There's no reason you should feel obligated to seek their forgiveness or approval. They get their entertainment from tormenting other people via the relative anonymity of the internet and they're only using your one rude comment as a flimsy justification for their behavior. This isn't your fault. Not at all. Don't let these idiots convince you that you've somehow brought this on yourself.

think of it like this

at least you are legible in your writing.

as Andrew said, change your e-mail addressed.
set up your old ones to forward e-mail,so you can keep receiving those vital ones.

you can do what i do,which is add them to ignore lists,ignore their posts,and report report report them.
of course,theres always the old trick of signing them up to....suspect or..embarassing mailing lists Wink

I have had Internet stalkers, but no bullies.

Tim

I appreciate post #33, Wilky. It cleared up a lot of questions I had.

One of the things I struggle with online is being treated unjustly. I have been the victim of online bullying many times, and banned from forums because of it. It's horrible and I still find it difficult to let go, even years on. I would say, try and find something to focus on offline, real people are much more fun anyway. The only time I am online is when I am at work or my parents house now, and I try to generally stay away from message boards.

tenaciouscj Wrote:

Yes, and the skirmishes here have been light compared to some that have occurred in Wrongplanet. Sadly, a very good friend of mine was involved in some very nasty ones and I cannot explain why he would have said what he did as in real life he is a lovely person.

A lot of people are totally different online, for whatever reason. Nice people become arseholes, and arseholes become worse arseholes. I guess it's the anonymity, plus of course there is no tone or body language to interpret so people often take things the wrong way. Of course as Aspies we aren't good at that anyway so speaking online for us, is much like speaking in real life. I guess NT's love to try and read into things that simply aren't there, and get offended at the smallest comments.

I just can't understand why people can't just get along and be happy. What's the point in fighting with or insulting somebody you've never met, and are never likely to meet?

Thank you, M! Well said! Publishing of PM's (a la the immediate above post) are not on.

woman from mars Wrote:

Sometimes the only defence the bullied has against a bully is evidence.

Evidence is never pleasant to see be it visible or invisible bruising, but nevertheless the victim has a right to produce such and to make it public for their own protection.

Excelent point and I agree completely. A psycho who had been harrasssing me was recently banned. There was some resentment toward me because some people felt that what the poor banned psycho had said to me "wasn't that bad."

In fat, the psycho had been sending me some incredibly sick, threatening PM's and I think that was much of the reason he was banned. I really considered posting the PM's because people here hae no idea how truly sick and threatening this creep was.

It is ridiculous for a psycho to say, "I am going to use this forum to privately harrass and bully you, AND you are obligated to keep my abuse a secret so people won't know how horrible I am."

pikajedi4 Wrote:

timelord,you know that I usually stay neutral,but....

threats of legal action should be a last ditch resort,not first port of call.

It was, Pikajedi. I had no other choice.

woman from mars Wrote:

Evidence is never pleasant to see be it visible or invisible bruising, but nevertheless the victim has a right to produce such and to make it public for their own protection.

In this case, WfM, there was no need for it at all. The reason is that it involved a great deal of off board material and the whole situation. Rossco was trying to get sympathy and paint me as the bad guy - when the reality is it was (and is) the other way around.

I could throw a lot of material onto this board if I wanted to in order to prove my point - but I happen to wish to move on with this matter. It's why it infuriates me when the REAL villains re-open old wounds every chance they get.

Who does THAT make the bully I wonder?

(I've just about had enough of this by the way)

EvilZakkie Wrote:

And more specifically, Timelord - I honestly believe that you're trying to help people. When you find someone you believe is standing in the way of this, you attack them. Unfortunately, this includes people you misinterpret, people who disagree with you over minor issues, or people who even suggest they side with others on your list of enemies. Plus insignificant bloggers, but that's another debate.

Here's my advice: Make a list of autistic rights priorities, or human rights issues in general - With the worst issues at the top, and the least significant at the bottom. Divide this list in half, with the worst things on one side. The first list is a list of things that you can put effort into doing something about. The second list is a list of things you should keep from distracting you.

That second lot of advice has already been taken, Zakkie. I do that all the time - and have done for years. And the things at the top are (and this will change as the weeks progress);

Legal Action against a slanderer (not on this board)
A second action against another slanderer (also not on this board)
The Hating Autism blog
The effort with the Federal Election (this will move up when the election is called - I expect that in mid October)
Jenny McCarthy on Larry King (if there is a reaction to my blog's latest entry)

The issues on this forum are low priority - which is why I've been trying to ignore this nonsense. The same applies for related peripheral issues, such as the one with Joeker (which is as good as closed).

I just want to point out that I don't attack the instant someone gets in the way - unless the manner in which it is done is seen as rude. I try to readjust my direction and try to get my message through. Disagreement doesn't automatically mean "getting in the way". Refusal to listen however does. It's impossible to see that in just one post.

I'm not aware of any misinterpretations in this particular dispute.

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