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I think you are a great person,and a good and caring Mom,
yes micgrace beat my post by a nanosecond......I am guessing he is a good dad
I bumped this thread because of all the lists,They just looked fascinating,for some reason. Maybe just the way they were formatted.

I just had to flush my sinus with salt water I think some of it went in my brain
If you have a good and real friendship, you understand and know why and where your friend stands on a subject. It makes it easy to stand with them cause you know their background and where they are coming from.If you and your friend disagree about a certain subject at least you know why they are saying what they are saying. Thats what a true friend is all about,and thats what being a true friend is all about. Anyway be a true friend and find out what your friend is about.
Regarding the matter, I would.  But the NT population is short on everything...

Except for fools.  (Pardon the rant.  Slightly grumpy with the happenings of AS/NT interaction.)
I think you have several true friends and admirers here QD
What do other people think of me?  I can't tell what other people think of me unless they actually comment.  Some of the things that I've received from people are:

"I'm too sensitive"
"I'm weird"
"I'm intelligent"
"I'm wise"
"I can't take a joke"-so I guess that means I'm too serious?
"I read alot" or "I'm a book worm"-which get's me angry because I tell the person I'm not a worm...
"I'm arrogant'
"I'm an embarrasment"
"I'm loyal"
"I am a good listener"
"I'm a hard worker"
"I talk to much about history"
"I'm clumsy" and also "I don't walk in a straight line" but I don't think that's relevent.
"I'm quiet"
"My knowledge on history is outstanding"-I love my history teacher for saying that.

There are others too that I've had people comment about me but those are the main ones.
Bipolar and born about the same time.  Hey wait, don't start with the astrology....
I don't think she is ready for the responsibility.  Not being able to drive, for one thing.  I remember when my mom had to drive my dad to the hospital....

Not having a job.  Being on SSI which she would immediately lose if she was married.  If something happens to my job..... this is a tough economy

Don't think me too harsh.  Bipolar 1 was saying these things to me when she got me to propose to her when I was unemployed in 1997.
Now it was 2007 and I was employed with some assets.

Yes I am nicer than the last guy she was with- no details of course.  

I think part of wisdom in facing life is being able to deal with it.  And pick your spouse carefully....
As a commentary, guys don't really like being valued for their income ("meal ticket") and women don't like being valued for how they look....
So a man has to be ready to face life (drive and be able to earn money) and a woman doesn't?

What if he stumbles and falls?  She can't help him if she can't help herself!  Let alone any kids she wants to have!

She had better not become a widow.

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I felt Saturday like I was with someone I had known for quite some time.  It was comforting.
She is heavier than I am and people on the Washington Post blog suggest that you would need attractiveness in a relationship, but I think two could learn to live without it.

Nevertheless, the two must be able to take care of each other.
Relax.
More from me:
"You take things literally, why can't you just understand?"
"You're short."-I received this comment from a child where my Mum works, as soon as this embassy child said it they all said it.
"You're a good organizer."-Of course I am, I love organizing.
"You're too obsessive over things like the Lion King."
"Disney is for children."-Just because I like movies like the Lion King (one of the greatest disney movies of all time) does not make them childish. Or does it?
"You're too shy."
"You need to spend time outside" or "You need to get out of the house more."
"Relax Katie, I was only joking with you. No need to get so defensive."
"You are slow."-in movement that is.

I also have had some of these today.  I also got the "Your eighteen, grow up." today.
She has a car.  I was driving it last weekend* to take us to the theater after her birthday party (she volunteered it is her 40th birthday).  Too bad I couldn't figure out the anti-theft steering wheel lock system, I had to call AAA to get it unlocked.  What a shame she doesn't drive it.  Her mom drives it instead.

Maybe she can't work.  Maybe lithium carbonate cannot keep her in check, or she doesn't stay on her schedule.  


* I am trying to get the driver seat in my car replaced.  My car is ten years old and my driver seat is permanently stuck in the recline position.  My best friend switched the seats as a temporary measure but the driver's side seat belt is not really intended to click into the passenger side holder.  I am calling a junkyard to ask if they have any 98 Chevy Cavaliers.
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