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My picture is in the works and hopefully posted within a few days.
Oh, do mean me?

ichtms Wrote:
Oh, do mean me?


It should have been: "Oh, do you mean me?

I had my picture taken today and got it sent to me by e-mail. Then I had a nice chat with the photographer about what kind of art she has done and what she's doing at the moment. Then I brought all of my plastic corks home again, they'd been at display in the art gallery and was now sitting in a back room. I can feel how the picture anticipates its posting, seems it just can't wait much longer...

RichardL Wrote:
What are you waiting for...   Godot?  


Someone to help me lifting it from the e-mail and putting it into the thread. Guy's been helping me with computer things and he's very apt at it and fast and I keep saying p l e a s e  s l o w  d o w n! I need to write this down so that I can do it on my own, but he just looks at me and ask me if I'm stupid or what because it's s-o-o-o easy, so I shrug and don't bother...

  Nooby Do.

.jaime. Wrote:
I wouldn't worry about your clothes too much, unless you want to attract a high-maintenance type of partner. I can't speak for other women, but I prefer men that dress like it's the day before laundry day.

I sometimes dress like a nut, but I figure that it lets people know up front that I'm a little eccentric. Truth in advertising, that way no one can be too shocked by what's inside the tin.


I only worry a little bit about clothes. For some odd reason, it seems as if the high-maintenance people are the ones who get the partners (I don't know how long they keep them though).

Comfort is paramount, so I never wear high heels or tight shoes or hot and tight clothes.

Bob Bobson Wrote:
I doubt anybody has ever had a crush on me then since I have never noticed that happening. To be honest if I did know that somebody had a crush on me I would definitly go out with them, as long as they were female of course...and maybe not massively too old or young.

Before coming to this site I thought that people never had a crush on me due to my horrific appearance, but since a few people have commented that it isn't so bad, then it must be my personality. I think I might be too nice, do girls like that?

Bob, I didn't think anything was wrong with your appearance. The only trouble is, I'm nearly old enough to be your mum.

rossco Wrote:
Ok. Crushes on girls on the AFF. You are all good-looking to my deserning eye. But if you cut out the girls who I am probably not far removed from their father's age who does that really leave? Out of those few women, who have I formed any kind of connection with. Only three beautiful ladies come instantly to mind. Carmel, Julia and Jaime. All of them are gorgeous in looks and personality. I wouldn't say I have a crush on any of them but really like them.

Oh, thank you Rosso. I think you are nice too and have a good personality.

tsw Wrote:
Some folks don't mind a big age difference. I myself learned (after the fact, when it was to late) that I DO mind an age difference if it is too great. Men are *supposed* to like younger women, or so I am told. I guess my reproductive system likes them, but my forebrain doesn't. The difference in life perspective seems to be to great once one approaches about 7 years or so in difference.

my dad was actually old enough to be my grand father. As a kid, I just accepted it. He married mum when he was 56 and they went on to have 7 kids.

rossco Wrote:
<Rossco blushes crimson.>

Awww!

I guess it'd seem a bit perverted to read through half the thread and not post - It's probably because I don't visit here and socialize much, but the answer is a resounding no.

(Answer subject to change over time, hint hint)

(I've also always thought I would be more attracted to aspie girls, too.)
I have a crush that is morfing into respect and admiration. My Smile is so wide that my jaws hurt. I just take paracetamol and keep on smiling...
Oh, are we having a ball? Tongue btw, Ian; is that short for Ianet? Tongue
My definition needs a whole new language just for you and me. Because the traditional "I love you" is too abstract in my mind. It has too many bad memories; or no memories at all.

Plain and simple. I, "ichtms" Need You, "Emmy"!
Every last grain of me is reaching out for you, Emmy!!! The whole of me is transforming. Your words are healing me.

Emmy Wrote:

ichtms Wrote:
Every last grain of me is reaching out for you, Emmy!!! The whole of me is transforming. Your words are healing me.


Should I take that as a yes?


YES!!! YES!!! YES!!! YES!!! YES!!! YES!!! YES!!! YES!!! YES!!! YES!!!

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