Another one to join the club ... although I may have found this site too late. I've got no experience of AS before but think my partner has it. We've been arguing a lot recently for all the reasons mentioned above. The thing is ... I didnt understand what was going on ... having an Aspie partner can be confusing for an NT!
Hello. I've posted over 200 times now so maybe I'm qualified to welcome you?
This is my point. I have AS and I don't really understand when to say something and how to say it and what I do say and do often comes accross wrong.
I can often appear cold and uncaring. I can also be good company and sociable and then suddenly lose interest and dissappear for a bit.
AS people generally seem to like their personal space both physically and emotionally. You can't generalise AS unfortunately it seems as everyone is different.
I'm probably like Mike but without the uncaring stuff