Aspies For Freedom

Attentions was mean to be intentions.
Will you stop with the mind powers, I'm trying to help.

Why is it Rossco that all the women seem attracted to you, something good about you that they like? I think that is a big enough indicator in itself.

Haven't you seen his picture?

No. Do I want to?

It would be hard for any woman to resist Rossco.

I too find it hard to understand how someone who has been married can have problems reading women, but I suppose it depends on the woman, and sometimes the pieces just seem to fall into place for people.

more attractive than he thinks he is, at least.

If you get into the "I don't get you" thing will it not lead to questions of why and what part of me do you not understand. you could be opening yourself up here.

I think instead of worrying just let things be, if she has a soft spot for you then well done.

When you are with someone you sometimes look back and miss things about being single and so that works both ways round.

What do you have to lose by a bit of involvemnt with this person?

I usually understand women reasonably well. In so far as I know when to leave you alone.

I think people should say what they mean.  Why should we play this elaborate courtship game where we dance around the truth in a zigzag to the bedoom.. How seductive would it be for a man to say "Hey I'm not good at reading your signals. "m new at this, vunerable and I really like you.  Do you want me to make a move?  Do you want this to go further?  Should I carry you to the bedroom now?  Just give me the script lady.  Tell me what you want?  Am I reading this wrong or do you want me too?"  You don't have to say all of these things but  just pick one line and try it.  Frankly anyone of those would blow me  away.  (Honestly woman don't know what the hell we want either so we are just a  confused about what we want as you are.)  And if she says Oh my God you Moron I was just talking to you like a girl friend your so easy to talk to.  Then you blew it.  Make a joke about it and change the subject.  But when a woman sits with a man talking in her house till late in the evening over wine in candid conversation about how long it has been and such.  Well I wasn't there but it sounds like she is opening a door to something more and is unable to read you as well.  Sexual rejection is the worse and no one want to risk the hurt.  Sounds like the lady was feeling you out and waiting for you to make the 1st move.  Maybe you didn't read the come hither look because she 's too scared to give you a signal that could mean rejection for her.  You sound like a catch to me, and the fact that your not cocky and brimming over with confidence makes you even hotter.

I think people should say what they mean.  Why should we play this elaborate courtship game where we dance around the truth in a zigzag to the bedoom.. How seductive would it be for a man to say "Hey I'm not good at reading your signals. "m new at this, vunerable and I really like you.  Do you want me to make a move?  Do you want this to go further?  Should I carry you to the bedroom now?  Just give me the script lady.  Tell me what you want?  Am I reading this wrong or do you want me too?"  You don't have to say all of these things but  just pick one line and try it.  Frankly anyone of those would blow me  away.  (Honestly woman don't know what the hell we want either so we are just a  confused about what we want as you are.)  And if she says Oh my God you Moron I was just talking to you like a girl friend your so easy to talk to.  Then you blew it.  Make a joke about it and change the subject.  But when a woman sits with a man talking in her house till late in the evening over wine in candid conversation about how long it has been and such.  Well I wasn't there but it sounds like she is opening a door to something more and is unable to read you as well.  Sexual rejection is the worse and no one want to risk the hurt.  Sounds like the lady was feeling you out and waiting for you to make the 1st move.  Maybe you didn't read the come hither look because she 's too scared to give you a signal that could mean rejection for her.  You sound like a catch to me, and the fact that your not cocky and brimming over with confidence makes you even hotter.  Don't worry there will be other women to misunderstand  soon.  We are everywhere.

You are a lucky lucky man - you should share some of your advice  

I can imagine it is annoying. A few years back i was involved with 2 people at the sam etime and it is such a difficult situation. That was before someone who i worked with really liked me and a couple of others tried it on as well. So it does sound like an ideal bloke thing to have lots of interested females but it can become too much.

I think that is really good advice.

Is it just me or is is telling someone that you have AS not the end of the world? It may just be me but when me and Gemma se things differently then that is why and she wants to understand how I see things, it's only when she asks "why?" that I can not offer a further explanation.