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tenaciouscj Wrote:
I just had a look at the Hatingautism site and posted a comment on it. The most charitable explanation for this foresam's attitude is that he's in complete denial. A less pleasant one is that he's quite off the beam and not a nice person either.


I vote for all of the above.

I agree Timelord.. I noticed he is now following my posts and doing the same... I am jumping into this thread about colons...

Timelord Wrote:

rossco Wrote:

Timelord Wrote:
Wishing death on anyone is a heinous statement that is the lowest of low. Compared to that I'd consider being called a child abuser/neglector a compliment.


So saying that you wish someone was dead or wishing death on them is BETTER than making a personal attack ontheir credibility/morality/ethics or parenting?


As observed above, you got it backwards!

Replace "BETTER" with "WORSE" and then you've got it right.

I think your intense personal hatred of me is making you see things - maybe you should get away from me as I have already told you to do.

AI - what you have suggested has already been done by a number of people. All it does is give him more fodder. He does it to me for that reason because I have a lot of commentary on him on my Wiki. That's OK - one back scratches the other because whenever he responds to me I've always got an answer.

Anyway - if Google (AKA Blogger) were to act, they would not just delete the blog they would delete his account as well. Bang goes his archives.

Ignoring him doesn't work. I assume you haven't been personally attacked by him. Speaking as someone who has, he has a knack of dragging people into arguments and embarrassing the heck out of them. I've been caught a few times - although the last one will come back and haunt him and he knows it as well.

I've said enough.

Let me add my "GUT" story to this thread...

I had had constipation problems all my life.. my daughter does too

we learned what caused it

I had a hysterectomy and when most women have fibroids on the intereior.. I had htem both interior and exterior... the exterior ones adhered my colon and organs to my uterus.. it required emergency surgery after they opened me up ... becaues they started as a vaginal hysterectomy... I was 8 hrs in surgery with 7 doctors ..4 who were called in as an emergency.. I nearly died.. They had to sever my colon, bladder from my uterus.. they had grown together.. this is what was probably causing the slowing of the colon... and causing the constipation..

After the removal of the uterus, they had a specialist patch my colon... there were dozens of cuts all over like a gun shot wound.. Later my colon did not heal and caused a fistual between the colon to the vagina.. women's colons are attached to the vagina. A fistual is a tiny hole.. this caused body wastes to excrete from my vaginal area.. I had to wait 5 months to see if it would heal on its own and in the mean time I had to clean my vaginal area from the leaky stool..

I had to recover from my near death hysterectomy.  6months later they operated on my colon.. took out one foot where it was attached to my uterus... and re connected it.. It worked... but also my scare tissue adherred to my bladder and other organs butnot my kidneys.. they were able to cut part of the bladder. .it was large enough.. (Hey I went to Catholic School we learned to hold it in.. that gives us large bladders ) Smile       Now I do not have constipation.. but I do have stomach problems and take Nexium...

I am told that aspies have stomach problems .... so this just fits into the entire picture..

Hope you were not eating any meals Smile
This is just horrible.....about the boy..

Timelord Wrote:
Once, in January. And it wasn't his conduct that caused the report - it was his neglect. For SEVEN YEARS he did NOTHING to help his son (1997 to 2004) and for that entire period Sam was in physical pain (gut problems). And likely did damage in the process.

http://philsworld.wiki-site.com/index.ph...neral%29_9

Read it - and learn the truth about Best. In HIS words. Mine merely emphasises the point.

Time this thread was locked I think. As I recall, Amy wanted discussion about Best to stop. On this board we have other things to talk about. As far as I'm concerned - the matter is in hand. I have my Wiki, and I have my lawsuit (for the Kurai-Gaka incident) to work on. I don't need to talk about that here. And if everyone else wants the subject dropped who am I to argue? I tried to drop it some time ago - on this board. And I think it's about time Rossco dropped his petty feud with me while we're about it.

rossco Wrote:

Yetti Wrote:
Let me add my "GUT" story to this thread...

I had had constipation problems all my life.. my daughter does too

we learned what caused it

I had a hysterectomy and when most women have fibroids on the intereior.. I had htem both interior and exterior... the exterior ones adhered my colon and organs to my uterus.. it required emergency surgery after they opened me up ... becaues they started as a vaginal hysterectomy... I was 8 hrs in surgery with 7 doctors ..4 who were called in as an emergency.. I nearly died.. They had to sever my colon, bladder from my uterus.. they had grown together.. this is what was probably causing the slowing of the colon... and causing the constipation..

After the removal of the uterus, they had a specialist patch my colon... there were dozens of cuts all over like a gun shot wound.. Later my colon did not heal and caused a fistual between the colon to the vagina.. women's colons are attached to the vagina. A fistual is a tiny hole.. this caused body wastes to excrete from my vaginal area.. I had to wait 5 months to see if it would heal on its own and in the mean time I had to clean my vaginal area from the leaky stool..

I had to recover from my near death hysterectomy.  6months later they operated on my colon.. took out one foot where it was attached to my uterus... and re connected it.. It worked... but also my scare tissue adherred to my bladder and other organs butnot my kidneys.. they were able to cut part of the bladder. .it was large enough.. (Hey I went to Catholic School we learned to hold it in.. that gives us large bladders ) Smile       Now I do not have constipation.. but I do have stomach problems and take Nexium...

I am told that aspies have stomach problems .... so this just fits into the entire picture..

Hope you were not eating any meals Smile


*** Hell! I don't like you much Yetti, but I would not wish something like this on anyone. Are you recovered completely now?
You may be right about the stomach thing my grandfather on my Father's side died of bowel cancer and my soon to be dead Mother is dying because of bowel cancer. Both sides of the family tree.


My stomach scars look like a Railway yard.  yes I am... I prepared for the colon surgery like mad.. you don't even know the half of it. Being the aspie and hypmanic I am .. I did all the research to make me well again before and after surgery.  I nearly died the second one on the colon..they had an epidural to keep the pain down.. my heart rate went down to 30... they pulled it out immediately from my spine and I went into muscle contractions all over my body all night. They almost had to use heart recessitators on me.

I still go to this site every now and then, the same way a person might find it difficult to stop poking a sore tooth. It seems that cracks might be appearing in his self-delusion, in his recent post about his sons self-biting:

Fore Sam/ Hating Autism blog Wrote:
I've had about all I can take. No God damn doctor has been able to offer any opinion about why this occurs and none has been the slightest help in finding a way to stop this. No combination of drugs has been any help. Keeping him off all drugs has been useless. Chelation has had no effect one way or the other. During some long breaks in chelating, the biting never changed. The screaming never got better or worse.


As tempting as it might be to rub his race in the fact that chelating does not work, I think it might be a better idea if we try to offer some actual advice. After all, his tirades started out of frustration and only became insulting afterwards. He'll almost definitely never be a supporter of Autistic rights, but perhaps he's redeemable as a human being. And all that aside, there's his son to consider.

Does anyone have any suggestions on how to cease self-biting behaviour?

flardox Wrote:
I know this is going to sound weird but do dummies work? or would that make things more complicated?

p.s if he is still arrogant THEN RUB IT IN HIS FACE!!!!!!!


I just think all that stuff needs to be put aside when there's an actual child having problems.

John Best's a jerk, but he's a tragic jerk - the sort that can't get past his frustration with his life and his disappointment with his son in order to improve things. Unfortunately, he's dragging his son down with him.

It's sad and ironic that if he hadn't spent every waking moment trying to search for a cure, he may have been able to teach his son some basic skills.

He should be pitied, not hated.

And it looks like he's gone back to his hateful ways in this latest post. *sighs*

Can we please all stop bumping this thread back up? Yes, Fore Sam does these kinds of stupid stunts so Autistics will get up in arms and promote his blog all over the internet.

And it works, every time.

It's time to break the cycle.

EvilZakkie Wrote:
Can we please all stop bumping this thread back up? Yes, Fore Sam does these kinds of stupid stunts so Autistics will get up in arms and promote his blog all over the internet.

And it works, every time.

It's time to break the cycle.


Attempt number 3... or 4, I've lost track.

Alison Wrote:

autisticinsanity Wrote:

gibson man Wrote:
I AM FUCKIN SICKEN BY THE GUY WHO WROTE THE MURDERING BULLSHIT. Nurotypicals kill more people than autistics. Aytisum is not the answer to the case. Bullying is why the murder happened.


I was thinking about proving you wrong, but...

With that mentality, you might have more of a chance of proving yourself wrong =/


I hadn't realized that George W Bush, Osama bin Laden, Saddam Hussein, and all the other murdering psychopaths of the twentieth and twenty-first century were Aspies!  Silly me.  *Of course* we kill more people than the Neurotypicals do!
Alison (in sarcastic mode for those who can't pick it up easily)


Okay, I was trying to be as nice as I could be. But since you are coming off as a stuck up prick to me, I am certainly unable to keep my nerve down. And I am not sorry if I come off as rude.

First off, what the hell? You go off and assume that I was replying to him about his comment on "NT's kill more than autistics do". I know that's true (if aspie population was much higher though, I might have challenged that). I was replying to the comment he made about bullies causing the murder. I could have pointed that out earlier, but you still didn't have to assume what you did.

I'm warning you now, you aren't on my good side for your ignorant exaggerated lash out (which is the way I took it). I do easily forgive, and I am sure you may be much better than I perceive you now.

And before anyone calls out on me for saying I agree nt's kill more than autistics, when I originally said I didn't. That is because I was first looking at auties and NT's as individuals, not as a whole. Aspies, depending on what they have been through and how much self control they have, can be as murderous as an NT. As a whole, we currently have less of a chance (but I can see that changing, not necessarily anytime soon).

BardWolf Wrote:
If I may add my IMO..

In all honesty (which can be a bad thing) Both of you are acting like children. Obviously you both correct in assumtions. Aspies can be just as nasty as NTs why? Well duh we're both human. Jeezus that painfully obvious. But we are also reluctants to cause hell, and most of enjoy law and structure, since it's sets up a abstract routine. However, we see the world diffrently than NTs meaning our view of justice is can be different as well. If we don't find justice in the normal fashion. We have a habit of taking things in to our own hands. I know this from personal experice, some Aspies are viligilanties. And instead of turn things over to the attorites they rather do it themselves.

also note I am not in anybody's side...I just want to say you're both right. We are by nature rule biders, and we are relucutant to comit crimes without justification. However, if the law doesn't work with us, we like to solve issues ourselves some times in Machivelei fashion. "Ends justify the means"

Alison you are right
AutisticInsainty you're also right.

Ok? Bardy done now...no more fight Kay?


I thought that this argument would end balanced, by the time I realized that Alison was looking at aspies as a whole, and not as individuals with very common psychology ailments (as I was doing). Thanks for your mediation, Bardy.

No more fight now Smile

Zarathustra Wrote:
This man seems unaffected by social norms; obsessively pursues his victims and has an autistic son. Do I need to spell it out?


I must say I disagree on the point you are trying to make. As much as I analyzed this guy, the odds are not meeting with him having asperger's or autism.

Joker Wrote:
I can really understand the whole "take care of things yourself" mentality.

I wonder why there's more than a few Aspies and Auties who feel so strongly that he's Autistic? I mean, honestly, what's the big deal over whether or not he's Autistic? Doesn't seem very important, at least to me.


It isn't important. It doesn't relate much at all with what everyone is fuming over him about.

flardox Wrote:
I have just seen the most vile of post's on this pathetic excuse for a human's website.

he is saying that people who support the anti-cure movement should be given euthansia.

I swear If I ever find this guy I will murder him with my bare hands I hate his guts.


If anyone would like some more evidence fine.


Which part of "ignore him and he'll cease to exist" is hard to understand?

flardox Wrote:
I know sorry just got wound up I have calmed down since then. Smile

also "ignore him" I have heard that so many times and every time I have tried it it always has the same reaction IT DOESN'T WORK.

I'm not having a go at you but I think action should be taken against him because he is showing himself to be a facist.


I can understand that you feel a reaction to his words, but every time you post something about him, it's actually very helpful to him. If you feel that you need to vent about his blog, PM a friend about it.

I get quite angry at the things he says too - it's one of the reasons I'm so vocal about telling people not to mention him. I don't want to help him make the blog more popular.

I don't believe that there is any possible action that we can take against him, except to make sure that he remains a sad little man complaining about people that will never see what he has to say.

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