I know!
I understand the feeling of being under so much pressure! Luckily, I have been patient because it takes a while for people to find a job. However, it gets boring when you have nothing but the same old thing to do every day!
I don't know why you lost all your savings!
I hope things improve with you soon!
Oh!
I remember I was told that I would be losing a kit of benefits if I turned down the possible jobs I am offered!
Again, I hope things go very well for you!
Yes, there has to be something brighter in the future for you.
Night fill jobs might be a possible option (providing you don't have a bad back). I wonder if there is some discrimination going on if shops have signs up saying they are hiring and then they say they aren't.
There was trouble here with real estate agencies advertising places for rent and virtually telling people they could move in and then when they noticed they were black when they met them, suddenly saying there was no vacancy.
Shame there wasn't some way you could get into a local band and make some money out of musicianship. It would beat booger king hands down.
My advice for what it is worth is to see if you can go on welfare
My disability employment agency kept suggesting that I apply for labouring type positions.
She assured me very strongly that there were companies screaming out for labourers and not only would be happy to employ me but would pretty much make any concession for my disabilities if I roved to be a reliable and honest worker.
All I can say is, it's abundantly obvious you don't live in the U.S.
Good grief! this guy sounds horrible. Really. But it's good (sort of news) about the job.
Maybe his goals have changed? Perhaps his goals are different to the goals you would like for him? Maybe he doesn't need college for what he wants to do? Are you putting your expectations on him?
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I've never had any goals for him. It was the fact that he always brought up the false assumption that I had no ambition. When in fact I have so many goals for myself. And yet, if I brought up the question to him on any career goals for himself he has none. I expect nothing out of him. I'm just afraid he's trying to change my outlook on life and make it his. I don't believe in the "make as much money as you can, buy a house, and live happily ever after life". I wasn't happy working all those hours at BK, even though if I stayed there long enough working all those hours maybe we were on our way to saving to have a house someday....but I was far from happy. And if we bought a house and I was stuck working at some dead-end job, I fear I would never be happy. Just because he's comfortable how he is it seems it should also mean I am as well.
Yes, it seems as if he wants everything his own way and isn't thinking of your needs and preferences. I'm just concerned that he'll get even more set in his ways as he gets older and less tolerant of what you need out of life.
Oh, I meant to add - they can't be paying him very much if he's saying he can't afford the rent. It seems strange that he can be a manager and yet be paid so lowly.
