12-15-2006, 04:24 AM
Ha! good question...here are three I can think of right off.
I might give you a non-standard response to a question or statement--overly direct or blunt or missing the point. If this bothers you, tell me why. I'm not trying to hurt you on purpose.
Forgive me if I don't recognize you even if I know who you are--I'm bad at faces and a lot of people look alike to me. If you change your hair or beard or something, I might not know who you are. (Not true for all aspies...but this one gets me in trouble).
It's okay to try and cajole me into stepping outside my comfort zone--sometimes. But please stop if I ask you to stop. Some things I just really don't want to try or do.
I might give you a non-standard response to a question or statement--overly direct or blunt or missing the point. If this bothers you, tell me why. I'm not trying to hurt you on purpose.
Forgive me if I don't recognize you even if I know who you are--I'm bad at faces and a lot of people look alike to me. If you change your hair or beard or something, I might not know who you are. (Not true for all aspies...but this one gets me in trouble).
It's okay to try and cajole me into stepping outside my comfort zone--sometimes. But please stop if I ask you to stop. Some things I just really don't want to try or do.
on't say 'Hello' if you are only makeing yourself do it, or just passing by. It is used to introduce one's self, not say at the drop of a hat for no reason. Thus, please don't get angry, NTs, if we don't say "Hi' because we need a reason to do so.
I sure hate it when someone pities me as if I was pathetic and hopeless. I had that before.