Aspies For Freedom

hello everyone greetings!   :grin:  i am so happy to have found this place, i have only read a couple of posts here and i am laughing! what a trip!

a bit about me :my name is iaso i have an nt brain. my husband/best friend keith has an as brain. we have been together for 7 years married 3. and have 3 kids. it has been both the most wonderful time and the most aweful time. we have understood each other and misunderstood each other.

(im typing with one hand because my baby is in the other...not lazy ok?)
im also not a troll in case anyone wonders.

I just the other day "descovered keith is an aspie"  i origanilly came here to this forum to look for ther equivalent "descovery criteria" for an nt from an aspie point of view to give to keith. i found it and it made him laugh (one of my goals...feels so good, it has been hard to figure out how and what does this)

basically i am here to find the value in our difference, im hoping people here from both (or more?) "sides" ...can answer my questions as they pop up and also feel free to ask me anything to and i will do my best to answer intelligently.

but i may need more time ...its sort of like going through a stargate and looking around with the realization im somewhere different and may need to learn a new language and being able to come back through the stargate and still recognize my own world enough to remember the language and explain what i saw.

cheers, and do let me know if there is a better place for my post,  iaso.

Hi, there are other nts here too, and nts with aspie partners, so you could share ideas and advice with them.

Welcome :smile:

Hi Iaso, i think i might have invited you here.  Is it true?

Anyway, if I didn't, I should have.  And welcome.  :grin:

hey, its 4 in the morning and i cant sleep. not a healthy sigh for me.
my first point is: ive realized i dont have time right now to explore the whole aspie nt thing. if i am to be true to what i value most right now, (my little family) spending time with my husband and kids. then i need to stop all trhis internet time. which i can do now.

i think i have learned enough in my short visit here to understand my husband and to understand that its not his aspergers that i love just like its not him that i hate now that i realize we are different but rather just realizing that we are both impacting each other and to be awear of that and strive towards positive impact is enough for now...ha ha sorry if that  only makes sense to me. equilibruim seams to be key.

anyhow there is alot more to my husband than being an aspie.  :smile:  maybe we are all more like snow flakes eh?... and its his particular snow flake i like. (i need to look at my self now and see what thats all about with the same intensity ive looked at him.

so im going now.
secondly because: i think i couldnt really have helped here anyway or contributed in a meaningful way for the above reasson first...i dont know myself or how i really work.

and thirdly ( for the same reason as my first point) because i simply do not have the time or energy nessary to give this my full attention...maybe when my kids are grown some. i do think its very interesting. simply incredible.

peace to all, cheers iaso.

ETA: i forgot to say THANKYOU! SO.... THANKYOU ALL VERY MUCH.