Sorry to point it out, but if everyone was watching and laughing and she was being really obvious, she was probably doing it as a joke to see how you would react.
Not all women are that nasty, so its definately worth trying to date one if you would like the company.
She could be "playing hard to get"?
Futurilla, she would play hard to get all the time and gently let him get closer, not be REALLY obvious in front of loads of people and then suddenly go cold.
Sorry, but making fun/ a joke, is the only sensible explanation I can think of.
Or maybe she was bullied out of the idea of seeing you by friends/family/ the people who were laughing. Less likely but also possible. How old is she?
That makes her a bit old to play a joke.
Sorry, can't help. I was expecting you to say around 13/14
she was either playing "hard to get"; she might be the type that doesn't like nice guys or guys being nice to her, she probably likes the chase. She probably doesn't like it when guys show a little eagerness. She must expect all guys to be rough and tough. Don't bother too much with her or when you see her don't act too interested and be somewhat unpleasant to her. That might entice her. See how she reacts to that. If she suddenly is interested in you because of this, she obviously would be a little narrow-minded.
We NT females really are a wierd bunch, believe me.
she still might be playing hard to get though M.
I think putting together a model would be a) impossible and I think it would be insulting to try, honestly. Women are individuals. You can't create a model for how 50% of the population is going to behave. It assumes they are all the same. How totally offensive.
It would be inaccurate to the point of useless, even taking into accout 'basic personality traits' people are just too complicated for that. There are an infinite number of variables.
I think putting together a model would be a) impossible and I think it would be insulting to try, honestly. Women are individuals. You can't create a model for how 50% of the population is going to behave. It assumes they are all the same. How totally offensive.
The objective, here, is not for males to humiliate women. But for AS male not get
totally humiliated by women. Humiliation that's a consequence of the inability by
AS males to understand when an attempt to push further an acquaintance is not
wanted by a woman.
The search of a golden rule is doomed to fail. There is no rule such as "if she says
this magical phrase go on, else go away". So I try to resort to a behavioural
model, because a rational approach is the only thing for my brain to cope with this.
I have no interest in a model to describe the whole woman behaviour, I just
would like to be able to understand when I have to keep distance, despite the
appearances.
As I have already told, such a model appears not to exist; so the only thing
that I can do is to take it easy as a rule.
You could ask a female friend.
Also superflirt by tracey cox is quite good (though there are a lot of things to think about at once)
Sounds like you are making some progress then.
Maybe her boyfriend was over there.................
Maybe her boyfriend was over there.................
Little devil... :wink:
There are no hard and fast rules about how long you talk to someone on msn. It doesn't categorically mean they are interested in you.