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King Richard, in many ways, is like any active teenager.

The bright-eyed 15-year-old sings in the church choir, watches his favorite TV shows, swims, listens to music and, of course, argues with his mom and dad.

But King is not your average teen, and for his parents, Ann and Dave Richard of Pensacola, his everyday achievements are nothing short of miraculous.

King was diagnosed with autism at age 3 — news that devastated his parents.

"For years, I couldn't deal with my son being autistic. I didn't know how to handle his disruptive behavior. I kept him isolated because I was afraid for him and worried what people would think," said Ann Richard, who wrote a 2001 book about her family's struggle with autism, "And When He Didn't Come Home."

But King would prove that he was more than a dire diagnosis -- surprising everyone, especially his mother, with his growing communication skills and varied interests, such as singing in his church choir and now, modeling.

"We discovered that he loves having his photo taken. It's amazing how professional he can be in front of a camera," said Richard of her son, who has appeared in several national and regional magazines. "When he sees himself in a magazine, he says, 'That's King's book.' In a lot of ways, he's become a poster child for autism."

King, who was the cover model for the July/August 2005 issue of Autism-Asperger's digest, is featured again in this month's issue, in an article written by his mother. He was chosen as one of the six "Faces of Autism" at a 2006 National Autism Society of America Conference in Rhode Island and is also featured in the August issue of Guideposts Magazine.

"He's a neat kid," said Pam Weiseman, an autism consultant at the Pensacola Center for Autism & Related Disabilities, who has worked with King for several years.

"Every child with autism is unique, and King is a good example of how these children can develop their own 'hidden talent.' Autism doesn't have to be a life sentence, and with early intervention and education, children such as King can lead a pretty normal life."

Accepting her son's autism -- and respecting him as an individual with his own desires -- has allowed Richard, now an autism advocate and speaker, to finally "let King be King."


"He is an inspiration and a blessing to everyone," said the proud mom. "King was supposed to be the least likely to achieve anything, but he's taught us that we were the ones walking around with limitations."

To see King Richard's photo -
http://www.pensacolanewsjournal.com/apps...50304/1004
You can't tell me there isn't something unusual about these supposedly normal parents of autistic kids who give their kids weird names. On the SBS TV show about autism last week they had an aspie man saying his parents chose names with 4 letters in them for him and his siblings. What kind of parent chooses their kids' names based on the number of letters in the names? An aspie parent who has a number obsession, I'd say.
I agree, lili, that is very bizarre.  Five is a much better number  :lol:

Lili Marlene Wrote:
You can't tell me there isn't something unusual about these supposedly normal parents of autistic kids who give their kids weird names.


I don't think King is actually all that weird as a name for an Black American young man.
Think MLK, and also "King Richard" has an historical ring to it.

(This from someone who was given such a weird name by my aspie hippy parents that I will never ever ever admit to it online...)

Sometimes I wish my name were more unusual or distinctive. But it's a very average name. Both first and last names are very common. :?
Wasn't there some king of England named Richard who was a mad hunchback murderer or something? (history has never been a special interest of mine).

Lili Marlene Wrote:
Wasn't there some king of England named Richard who was a mad hunchback murderer or something? (history has never been a special interest of mine).


Yeah he was in a Shakespear play but it has a # after it... Richard the III ?

EDIT:  there must have been other king richards....

Natalia Wrote:

Lili Marlene Wrote:
You can't tell me there isn't something unusual about these supposedly normal parents of autistic kids who give their kids weird names.


I don't think King is actually all that weird as a name for an Black American young man.
Think MLK, and also "King Richard" has an historical ring to it.

(This from someone who was given such a weird name by my aspie hippy parents that I will never ever ever admit to it online...)


Natalia isn't a weird name :wink:

Sophist Wrote:
Sometimes I wish my name were more unusual or distinctive. But it's a very average name. Both first and last names are very common. :?


My husband's full name is Kanesapillai Somasundaram Venugoban.  But it's a fairly common name in Sri Lanka :grin:
Alison

Amy Wrote:

Natalia Wrote:
(This from someone who was given such a weird name by my aspie hippy parents that I will never ever ever admit to it online...)


Natalia isn't a weird name :wink:


Jaja yeah why do you think i use my spanish name?!

Alison Wrote:
My husband's full name is Kanesapillai Somasundaram Venugoban.  But it's a fairly common name in Sri Lanka :grin:
Alison


wow i wish you could include a sound file with that.  it must sound nice when said correctly.

Lili Marlene Wrote:
You can't tell me there isn't something unusual about these supposedly normal parents of autistic kids who give their kids weird names. On the SBS TV show about autism last week they had an aspie man saying his parents chose names with 4 letters in them for him and his siblings. What kind of parent chooses their kids' names based on the number of letters in the names? An aspie parent who has a number obsession, I'd say.


Actually I think that has less to do with that, and more to do with that culturally African-Americans like to give their children creative names. Belive me King, is pretty normal compared to some of the ones they come up with.

Natalia Wrote:
[quote=Alison]wow i wish you could include a sound file with that.  it must sound nice when said correctly.


It took me nearly three months to learn to say it correctly!  And my mother-in-law's name is Maheshwaray.   :o   It's lovely, but difficult if you aren't brought up speaking Tamil!  I just call her Amah, which means mummy in Tamil.  However, she has trouble pronouncing Alison. :grin:
Alison

Alison Wrote:
It took me nearly three months to learn to say it correctly!  And my mother-in-law's name is Maheshwaray.   :o   It's lovely, but difficult if you aren't brought up speaking Tamil!  I just call her Amah, which means mummy in Tamil.  However, she has trouble pronouncing Alison. :grin:
Alison


Oh, Tamil, no wonder. :grin:  Pretty language... Has like 14 vowels... (?!?!?!)

I have a friend and 2 colleagues from the Tamil Nadu part of South India and just today at the faculty meeting one of the colleagues was telling me how many other places there are Tamils...

Natalia Wrote:
Oh, Tamil, no wonder. :grin:  Pretty language... Has like 14 vowels... (?!?!?!)


I tried to learn the language when got married - had more time on my hands back then!  

There's 248 letters in the alphabet.  That's due to the fact that they don't combine letters like the English alphabet does.  For example, the letters "t" and "r" are not combined to make the "tr" sound, you have a whole new letter for that.  

And interestingly enough, there's no "s" sound in Tamil.  The closest you get to that is a sort of soft "th".  They had to borrow from the Hindi alphabet for an "s".  It drove me crazy trying to learn it!  

Eventually I gave up and concentrated on learning the more common phrases, and can follow a conversation so long as it's slow and Vernu does most of the talking!  (Although I learnt to swear in Tamil really easily: it sounds so beautiful to swear a blue streak in!)

Alison

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