Its very hard to say "we want to be a minority group, and we are people who are like this - and describe a list of different attributes, it would be a vast list, and many could then say well I have one of those, am I autistic?
The current hodgepodge of diagnostic criteria isn't what I'd call precise either, and it's full of unnecessarily negative language.
To say that we have been diagnosed somewhere on the autism spectrum is a lot clearer, and we can go on to mention people who have trouble being diagnosed but still experience the same discrimination and difficulties from society.
Amy, we seem to be looking at this issue from diametrically opposed viewpoints. I haven't been diagnosed, nor have I had "trouble being diagnosed." I don't want to be diagnosed. I consider myself very fortunate that my parents never allowed anyone to officially diagnose me.
As I see it, the autism diagnosis is just another form of apartheid dressed up in scientific terminology; it causes autistic children to be placed in segregated classrooms or institutions and to be told that they are incapable of succeeding in life, it causes autistic parents to lose custody in divorce cases or to have their children taken away by social service agencies--and if we don't fight it now, in every way we can, it's going to cause autistic babies to be routinely aborted.
To put it another way, the diagnosis is the equivalent of sewing yellow stars on our clothing.
I am certain it is not the diagnosis that causes us to need protection, but our innate differences, as my son has been bullied by local kids who know nothing of his dx, they do it cos they can see hes different, or unusual. The same has happened to me frequently, especially in the workplace in the past, before I had my dx.
Yes, bullying is a problem that needs to be addressed, but bullies have existed throughout history, they can often be avoided by changing jobs or schools, and we're not their only targets. We need to separate these issues and get our priorities straight. Official discrimination, such as the cases we've discussed recently of autistic children being sterilized or given electric shocks with the approval of the court system, is far more dangerous.