Aspies For Freedom

Or don't believe them when they say you can only like Broccoli!

Tim

I still have some of 2007 left...I don't want to waste it!

Tim

Campo,
I just figured from his As is "Pro Male":

Tim=( .5 Aspie genes +2.0 Gay genes = bisexual male aspie )?

My math is a little rusty but....Weird science if you ask me...maybe we are Preaturnatural!

Tim's(Glad he didn't get stuck with 3 Alpha Male genes and no Aspie genes!...Yikes )

...Tattered edge of the Grid is back up for now...

Hey I'm 51 and don't need that sh!t...
I'm arounsed by everybody, equal or no!

All it takes is a gentle touch...sometimes a smile will do.

Dude...and I use that term loosely if you feel you have to be dominant to be aroused then you should work on that...

I like to take turns on who is leading and who is following.
It's a spectrum out there if you don't broaden your horizons you are not gettin' any from anyone...Some things in life are priceless...for you there is MasterCard.

Tim( don't need no stinking Viagra or a submissive partner...)

Campo,

He is talking about the self inflating type...I'm not much in to that automated pleasure.
Gettin' somthin' caught in the wringer is scary...

I prefer the flesh and blood type myself, so it takes some care...it is worth the effort tho'

Tim

So there you have it...
The handfull in that study meet one stereotype.
Some of us make good f@ckbuddies but not such great long term lovers.

I think this does a disservice to many on the spectrum who don't resemble this image.

For me...if someone wants to see me as a playmate and no more...Game on!
It's better than being lonely...so long as both parties know the rules.

So doc need a helping hand?
Tim( am-bi-dextress...)

It's still a riot to read...
So here we see the lonely male Aspie with no training...

I can't even write for laughing at the image...sorry!

I've seen some dogs that didn't have sex training!

Git' er done!...Woo hoo.
I love declarative statements!

Tim( glad he had both kinds of "training"...)

                           Aspie Sex Training Maual:

Chapter one: To light a fire rub two Aspies together.

Chapter two: To get mostly smoke rub an Aspie and an NT together.

Chapter three: To get hot air and no fire rub two physcologists together.

Chapter four: To put out the fire when done...get the hose!

Chapter five: To avoid unpleasant results do not mix untested combinations...

Tim( keeps the manual under the pillow )

You bet...and other than I don't have any fashion sense...the ones with guys didn't last as long...
Two marriages (to women) one was two years the other fifteen years and raised two kids.

I have long lasting friendships with both men and women...probably because I respect their gender preferences!

Also it is true the Elizibeth Choe said that women need to be trained by Dragqueens on how to give head...I take this as anecdotel but I doubt it less then what you posted.

Tim( doesn't push away half of the population because of gender...)

Trollin'...Trollin'...Trollin'.
Keep them Aspies rollin...in the isles that is.

He entertains me...I don't think I would date him but I might...um...uhh
Never mind!

Tim

Tigger,
Let me try him on...I'll let you know if he is worthy of an "in-depth" relationship!

I can report back with facts and figures...you know how ultra male detail oriented we all are.

Please say yes...

Tim(doesn't often beg...this is special...)

Campo,
It's too late...I feel all squishy inside.

My dream date a clinician that fish's both side of the pond!

Tim('s in heaven...)

Well as you just showed up and this was your first post it was a little provocative.

I'm not gay...and many of the people on this forum aren't.
I am however bi...I base this on attraction physicaly, spiritualy, and socialy.

So many of us weren't diagnosed untill long after the "training" period so we aren't biased as being Aspie by nature not by designation.

As for treatment...yes I was treated for ADD by a doctor who read what was on his coffee cup and thats how he prescribed.

So what was I before 1994...I'm now 51 y.o.

Where is this training manual for determining my sexual gender preference.

Don't asume I'm angry...I'm enjoying wandering through this with you.

Between this post and my last I spent real time with a real person...
A human male...we are friends...

So I see I am to desist...

Tim( thanks for the therapy...)

Well if I should have been what I was "supposed" to be I would have been a straight middleclass white alpha male.
Which I am not and never have been...I am beige with spots(moles).
I can asure you that being a combat flight crew member there was lots of pressure to perform all the tasks of a "Straight" male...including rent teenagers in the Phillipines.
Going to Portsmith prison and being charged as a Federal Sex Criminal is not taken lightly.
If you wish to pursue the pressure I was under to be "normal"...be ready!

Yes I tried to fit in...

The tolerance level of the people I met in the civilian world would rather I was a fashionable gay than an individual...

I have found the Aspie diagnosis usefull in finding out a little bit more about myself.
I feel alot better now that I have a forum of likeminded people to socialize with online.

I still socialize offline so it has added to my life.
It has made it easier as I know that those never ending awkward moments are not all there is to interaction...and on rare occasion I meet a person who I become friends with or much more...they are just rather rare...

BTW it seems you changed it to include Bi which you didn't mention till I did...does your data change with the person you are addressing...that is an NT way of lieing...I think they call it "Spin"...

Tim

Dr.
I am familiar with the terms...they were posted in the barrarks under the uniform code of military justice.
Gay is a slang term which you used.

The renting was considered normal.
Having a friend you cared about in the barracks was the what you could find yourself arrested for.

As for what was normal to them...well you could have any combination so long as a girl was present...it is the height of typical denial about who they really were.
I knew who I was...
You should be out convincing the aledged regular folk to take off the cartoon masks and then they could be real...
Aspies don't have difficulty once the duplicity is removed.

So have you tried both flavors to make sure you aren't deluding yourself?
The people on this forum have already posted about finding who they want to be with.
And don't aply pressure for others to reconsider.

It seems rather odd that you respond with anger...
When you enter a new community do you usually tell them how messed up they are?

You also have an odd time zone for Conn BTW...

Hope this clears it up for you.
Tim