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Well, let me see:

On Friday night I had to drive a van load (6 kids) of screeching, giggling, pain-in-the-butt teenagers (13 and 14 years old) to go laser tagging, because  Susie, my youngest daughter, has her 13th birthday today. The drive was one hour each way, the place I took them was noisy, with weird lighting.

Originally I had no intentions of driving, but was going to stay home to have some peace and quiet. Janet, my 19-year-old came home from where she studies specifically to drive, and her friend was the other driver. But one dumb mother wouldn't let her daughter be driven by a 19-year-old. Explaining to her that Janet is a more careful driver than me, and that she had her licence for three years and never had an accident made no difference. She would have considered it, if Janet would have been 20 (right, nine months would have made a HUGE difference, I am sure). If I wouldn't trust Janet to take care of the kids (and hey, she is a non-stop-talker, and noise won't distract her, and the more people around her, the happier she is, while me................well, lets not get into that), I wouldn't have asked her. But Janet and her friend came and were the chaperones, and played the game with the kids while I wandered the streets, 'took in' a dollarstore (found some cool picture frames), had a sandwich in a doghnut shop (sitting in a corner where the strange guy couldn't see me), almost got run over by a car because I wasn't paying attention when crossing the street to the store where I wanted to buy some ice cream. And afterwards I realized it may not have been entirely safe roaming the streets of a strange city late at night.

So, Saturday I had a terrible migraine and stayed in bed til the afternoon, and walked around in my pajamas for the rest of the day. But because Janet was leaving again on Sunday morning, I managed to bake a chocolate chip cake, so she could take a big chunk with her on Sunday.
At some point I wrote a two page piece on why life sucks, to give to a friend (the pastor's wife), because I knew she'd ask how I am on Sunday, and I was tired of lying, saying 'fine, thank you'.

Sunday I went to church in the morning, took lots more painkillers and went to church again for a hymn sing on Sunday night. After the service in the morning my friend asked how I am, and I gave her the letter and told her she'd know once she read it.
In the evening she said that she read it, and that we need to get together and talk.

And here I am, and life still sucks.

Ursula
Why couldn't you? We just have as many rights to do things to have fun as any NT. Smile
Friday night: Went out to dinner & pool with brother & friends.  I go out a few evenings a year.

Saturday: Did laundry. Visited an old friend, as I do every 2 weeks, for a laid-back lunch & chat.  Posted on AFF.  Read other people's posts on AFF.  Waited for other people to answer my posts on AFF.  :grin:  Looked up other stuff on the computer. Ate. Watched TV.

Sunday: It's only Saturday night, but I expect I will:  Post on AFF.  Read other people's posts on AFF.  Wait for other people to answer my posts on AFF.  :grin:  Look up other stuff on the computer.  Eat. Watch TV.  Perfect!
Party animal, whooo!!!

I spent today sitting on my butt.  I was going to do laundry, but lunch distracted me, as I always eat in front of the computer.  Tomorrow, I expect to go driving with my sister.  She's teaching me to use a manual, because everybody else in the family has an automatic.  I know a lot of people with manuals, so it's a necessary skill.  It would have been today, but the damn rain... :evil:  :evil:  

After making this post, I'll probably harangue myself for not working on my senior paper, then go play Might and Magic VIII.  Gotta form that alliance!  On the othjer hand, I did manage to kill all the ogres.
Saturday night was spent at a small party, two friends of mine, and another who the three of us know, but kind of, well, shes an annoying ****, in every sense of the word, definately not NT, unlike my two friends, but not officialy diagnosed with anything, although I suspect possibly Rett syndrome.

Ended up with her pissing and moaning through the night, until she, like the rest of us, got too stoned to do anything but sit in our chairs and occasionally drag ourselves off our arses to fetch beer or skin another joint, although at the end, she just ended up staring into space, much like everyone else :lol:



Sunday? most of it was spent talking to a woman called Hannah, who I kind of have feelings for, sorting out a few business arrangements with somebody, and the night? meh, don't go there, feeling strung out, after not having slept in 5 days or so, and having to pull an all-nighter to stay awake, as I have to go see my doctor today, to get more meds, and sign on the dole again afte that, yay!

On the plus side, I'l be coming home with enough benzos+opiates to make me not give half a *** about lack of sleep for the rest of today :grin:

Sjöjungfru Wrote:

Lestat Wrote:
Saturday night was spent at a small party, two friends of mine

:sigh: I never go to parties.


Eh, parties are usually better in theory than they are in practice anyway.  I have many times looked forward to a cookout or the Xmas party at work, only to find it disappointing & eventually uncomfortable (since I don't drive & must either wait for my ride to leave or wait for a cab)...the best part of a social event for me, most of the time, is returning home!  I just miss my sanctuary.  Which people think is unhealthy: they say things like, "You need to get out of your COMFORT ZONE," and "You need to get out and MEET PEOPLE."  Sure, sometimes it's fun to learn a new activity, such as pool, but I am always glad to get back to my solitude.

Well, yes, THAT kind of gathering is nice.  I was b@#$%ing more about the big impersonal obligatory ones.  Are there any people in your area with compatible interests whom you could meet up with?
Friday night: Stayed home browsing & posting on AFF.  Ate. Slept.  Watched TV.

    Saturday: Stayed home browsing & posting on AFF.  Ate.  Slept.  Watched TV.

      Sunday:  Did 3 loads of laundry, went to the mall to stock up on essentials (magazines, paper goods, food items), then returned home to browse & post on AFF.  Ate. Slept. Watched TV.

      Monday:  Monday is a holiday here, and I inexplicably have it off, so, once again, I will stay home browsing & posting on AFF!  Eating! Sleeping!  Watching TV!  Perfection. Cool
Showed a visitor a bunch of the tourist traps in Seattle on Saturday (in the rain).  Laundry, swimming, posting to a different forum, reading, avoiding housework, avoiding workwork, cooking, relaxing....and darn, it's just about over!!!!!!
Did laundry Saturday morning.  Dropped the 15yo and 12yo off at the town swimming pool in the afternoon.  8yo was crying because he couldn't go (poison ivy all over his chest/arm :cry: ), so my 20yo suggested mini-golf and ice cream, his treat.  Cool  (He's cool; when he's not being an obnoxious 20yo, he's really a cool kid.)  It was freakin' HOT AND HUMID on Saturday (about 90 F) and we were walking around an outdoor mini-golf course dripping sweat.  But the ice cream afterwards was niiiiiice!!!!

Sunday morning we went to Mass and up to my oldest daughter's apartment to care for her cat (our daughter was in London for 10 days).  More laundry Sunday afternoon.  What fun.

Monday was GREAT - Memorial Day here in the US!  Neighbors came over for a bbq under the canopy - steaks, burgers, chicken - macaroni & potato salads, pretzels and chips - brownies and cheesecake.  Yummy!  And 500 WATER BALLOONS!!!!!!!!!  I got SOAKED!  It was 100 F yesterday and my 20yo dumped an entire bucket of water over my head.  Ahhhhhh!!!!!!!!!  :grin:

Later in the evening we picked up our daughter at the airport on her return from London.  She brought me a container of Bird's custard powder for our Christmas Pudding this year, and a jar of mango-apricot chutney.  Marmite for hubby.  Good girl.  :wink:  And Bounty bars for her younger sibs - like Mounds bars here in the US, but milk instead of dark chocolate.
Friday night: Browsed & posted on AFF.

Saturday: Got called into work, so the browsing & posting had to wait till evening.  Computer is ailing, slow & clunky.  Made 2 fruitless calls to my service provider, wanting to tear my hair out when the customer service reps wasted my time with sales pitches for new services. :mad:   Just fix the services I have now!!! :evil: It may be my fault.  I've never owned a computer before & may be making mistakes that cause malfunctions.  :oops:  Nevertheless, my experiences with the pros were most discouraging.

Sunday:  Worked a bit, got hope from a young co-worker who is going to use software to "sweep" my computer to remove the "adware." :?  :?: After work, browsed & posted on AFF.  Hope to have the PC back in prime condition soon!
I played with my neice just before she left to go home to texas.
Saturday I competed in the NY state Taekwondo championship.
3rd place in my weight class. Sad
Friday:Read, programmed my Zire, played video games, posted on AFF.
Saturday:Went to a swim meet, read, played video games, programmed my Zire, posted on AFF
SundayBig Grinid homework.
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