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Vice verse too.

As someone with two XX chromosomes. I manage to find a good match. He might be NT but he's strange one :3

And even though I approched him it was he who persued me. We became buddies and now were are lovers. He's wonderful, he loves me with all my stims, and social flaws and I feel happy
I dated the car owners only briefly.  I dated the car-less woman more (dependency factor)?

Debbie most (dozens times over 2 to 3 years and she calls me a lot even though I told her that we would not make it, maybe she just wants out of house), Mika next, Christy last.
Until 1999, public transit did not apply to myself.  It does not apply to Christy or to Westminster.  Westminster is too far from Baltimore to be covered by transit.  Westminster Maryland is in the middle of nowhere on I-70 between Frederick and Baltimore.

In a place like West Virginia, public transit is laughable, a shuttle that goes to the library, the courthouse, and a few other places once or twice a day.   There are large areas of the United States outside major cities that are rural or less densely settled that basically require a car to get around or you are screwed.  At least most people live relatively close to interstate highways (Christy I-70, Debbie I-95, myself I-395, Mika I-66, and so on).

Public transit in Woodbridge (Debbie) is not very much better, and it does not bring you to Washington's subway (the closest the subway gets to Woodbridge is Springfield, VA, Fairfax County, outside the Beltway).  At least it has a Virginia Railway Express station to take you to Washington and back, morning and night (28 miles out)

Falls Church is a lot better, I could have seen Mika and vice versia with Metro.  I did see Destiny in Bethesda using the subway.  

The morale of the story is people with disabilities had better move it to the cities, not just for the ability to get around at little cost, but for greater opportunities for acceptance.
I am also too close to the office to take a bus.  I really should walk, and I can in 15 minutes.  My research says it burns 100 calories (or 200 per diem round trip).  There is no excuse to drive just because I am in a freaking hurry, unless I have an errand such as a medical consultation or miscellaneous (dry cleaning drop off, or drop off hazardous waste two miles away at the city hazardous waste site open only on Monday)

Reusable Christmas wreaths frequently contain lead and therefore cannot be simply dumped in a dumpster, they should ban the sale of Christmas trees and wreaths made with lead

There really isn't much excuse to drive three miles to a dry cleaner charging only $1.95 for pants and 99 cents for laundered shirts- I just don't have the balls to use my large steam press ($100) to press my own clothes.  I used to use a small iron between August 1999 and August 2000 and then I said f*ck it and went to Dry Clean Depot.


At least I had the balls to cook, again.  I made spaghetti last night and salad this morning.  Don't let depression win, at least not today.

Aeolienne Wrote:
I've received three Valentine cards in my entire life, and one of them was when Margaret Thatcher was prime minister.


If I could send you a Valentine for 2008 I would.
Would you be my Valentine?

Aeolienne Wrote:

I'm 11 days from being 33, and I've had nowhere near as many relationships. Am I not anti-social enough?


If it wasn't for that damned Atlantic Ocean.  You are an attractive professional woman.

Operator, get me Transatlantic!

I for one would love to date you, say, if you were Baltimore instead of Exeter.  

Darn it all.  There is a great British employee here but not for co-workers, and you are British but over there. It makes me want to rant like Beavis on the tour bus!  :-)

When I saw Sicko (Michael Moore), I was ready to expatriate (renounce American citizenship and go British or Canadian) because America is an inferior concept of government and civilization.

But America is my home, where I was born and raised.  Sure, America has the wrong idea (to let individuals get rich not look after everybody) but America needs fixing, not escaping.

It is easier, though, my parents are dead, and my little brother is a jerk (insert British synonym here, twit), does not communicate.  I don't suppose he would communicate transatlantic either.

I told myself
1.  if America goes fascist (Al Qaeda can destroy America if it encourages us to destroy our system of freedom and law, but we have to destroy it ourselves), or
2.  the economy melts down because of a. subprime crisis b. massive foreign debt ($10 trillion USD+)

I would take my passport and be so out of here.
For real, Iceman?  For where?  Canada? Britain?
For economic, political, or social reasons?
Put foot in mouth.  Iceman, you have a gf abroad.
LOL.

For me, I'd like the girl next door.  I place a premium on being there in person.  It's better than my first gf 80 miles away back in 1997.

Callista Wrote:
I am spending Valentine's day comfortably alone. Ah, the joy of being asexual... Smile

Good luck to the rest of you, though; I hope you find the people you're looking for.


What evidence is there in the academic material that female (or male) Aspies are non-sexual?

I am sure Aeolienne is worth the trip too.  Smile, Aeolienne.
One day I want to travel abroad.  UK is kind of a extra deal cuz you get France thrown in too, Chunnel was a great idea.
Geez, how many thousands of USD does it take to go to Britain?  Three?

Get a grip, Chris.  I am sure the USA has its own lonely Aspie females.  Washington, Baltimore, Philadelphia, just like in London, Exeter....

Britain though could teach our political system some lessons about good government.  Bush should sit down and take some notes.
It probably takes a special kind of woman to accept a special kind of man.

I see no shortage of average women who fail to notice, but there are rare exceptions I do notice, one now seems to be an NT.
I try.  I have succeeded lately with dates. I had a girlfriend from 2004 to 2005, but she is very dependent and seems incapable of taking a "helpmeet" role.  Certainly not until she gets her license back (Mom had to take Dad to hospital once) and maybe gets a job.  I also wondered what the hell we enjoyed doing together.
Her health is not that bad, her mom's is pretty bad.  I probably could support two people, maybe more.  I am not wild about caring for an adult.  I know her mother manages her medication and her money and for the time being handles her transportation, and has called me weekly to see if I would drive south 20 miles to bring her to the movies.

Keisha is an above average woman aspiring to be a lawyer, no disabilities I know of.
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