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I prefer people not smell too strongly of anything, but if they're going to be giving off an odor, I'll take sweat and sex over colognes, perfumes, or reodorants. The one exception to this is I do have a penchant for the combined smells of body odor, wood smoke, and patchouli. This could be due to my long association with woodland hippies....

Bianca_Castro Wrote:

Sometimes I go to the gym at night to work out ("look at the guys") hehehehe, and I notice that when a guy walks in smelling like deodorant and soap, I'm not turned on by anything besides his looks, if I find him attractive. But by the time a guy is usually into his workout I usually go workout by him and I smell the most lovely smell in the universe. I can;t explain it. He usually smells like sweat, armpits, penis, pubic sweat, with a mix of aftershave and cologne. I can't help it, it smells so good.

I don't know why this is? I often find cavemen attractive, or extremely hairy men. I also like primates. I find monkeys, gorillas, apes, chimps, and so on very attractive and sexy. Ever since I was a little boy I have been attracted to primates and their behavior. I don't know what's wrong with me, can anyone help me?

Hi Bianca, I don't think there is anything wrong with you and I don't think you need help. I've known people who are attracted to caveman/hairy type men and who go crazy for the smell of sweaty men. Raew posted that she's always been attracted to big men, me personally, I go crazy for very slender men and I'm turned off by hairy men. I've got a real thing for foreign men, it's the accent that turns me on, it's probably some kind of fetish I've got Shy

I also like hairiness in men and don't remove leg hair etc from myself. Stale B.O. from anybody doesn't smell good to me but some men have this naturally nice smell about them, a kind of skin smell and maybe it is from pheremones. Garlic breath doesn't bother me either but I don't like breath that smells like poop. Some men smell a bit like horse poop and that doesn't appeal to me very much.

Patrice Wrote:

I think that's why I don't care what the person looks like and that it's the personality that makes the difference between wanting or not to be with them. It's not that I'm a "saint" who ignores appearances but rather that I find all appearances attractive. Smile

You're a rare man Patrice Smile so many people are incredibly judgemental about the way a woman looks Sad I have my preferences for what I find physically attractive in a man, but you are right, personality is very important, I have found myself attracted to men that I didn't initally find physically attractive, because they had the ability to make me laugh (in a good way) or they were exceptionally kind towards me or just very quirky (I LOVE quirky men Smile )

There is a quote I like "uncommon beauty is commonly overlooked"

Pakrat Wrote:

some men have this naturally nice smell about them, a kind of skin smell and maybe it is from pheremones.

Yes, I agree, my husband has a nice skin scent.

I'm the opposite - hairless but for my head - my hair is now long past my shoulderblades Big Grin

I like beards and moustaches on men and don't understand why they are thought to be unattractive.

Some women remove all the peach fuzz hair off their faces but it is there for a reason - to soften the appearance of the face and reduce shininess. I've even got fine sideburns happening now (a little bit longer and darker than the rest of the peach fuzz but certainly nothing like as thick and obvious as mens' sideburns).

I don't have a much in the way of what is attractive to me.
It really annoys me when my sister and I talk about things and the topic of men come up. She's more attractive to the person's physical appearance rather than their personality.
Yet, I don't really care about the person's physcial appearance...I feel that the personality is the most important and if they hold a certain physcial appearance which is attractive to me then that (I suppose) is good?

Alas Rain Girl ,he found someone else to write to. Dont sweat it, there are others.

And we're told that women are the ones who have "moods".

everyone goes throgh their cycle of moods

I know, but why is it okay for men to be grumpy and changeable but when women are they same, they are accused of being premenstrual, dominated by hormones or just plain b!tchy?

It is rare when I find appearances attractive.
I am usually attracted to someone once I discover that he has an intellectual, quirky, and non conventional personality. I can't really say what my preferences are for the physical portion.
If we don't have enough in common, or he lacks his own ideas (conforming), then I become bored very quickly.
I also appreciate men when they can hold intelligent, meaningful conversation, cultured, and have morals. I guess I prefer professor (more intellectual, sophisticated and cultured types). I have to admit though, I think that an intellectual, or "nerdy" look is physically attractive to me.

mysterywalker Wrote:

Sexiness: so easy a caveman can do it.

Having many cavemen as my ancesters, I resent that remark............................................................. Smile

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