In fact, if I had to sum Asperger's up, I would describe it as a very strong ability to cognitize and intellectuallize concepts, with a decreased ability to relate to things and people emotionally. Understanding this about myself has helped me see that I have my own strengths and weaknesses just like any NT does. It also helps explain why Aspies may have social problems--if the frontal lobe of their brain (which is responsible for logic) is very dominant, then the other parts of the brain (which is responsible for rapport, etc.) may be less functional. For example, I was once having a discussion with a friend and we realized I had disfunctional "mirror neurons," which are responsible for feeling empathy.
And if you look at all the possible Aspies throughout history (Einstein, Newton, Jefferson, etc.), they all showed the same tendencies with logic. However, it may be different for female Aspies. By the way, Amy, have you ever taken the Myers-Briggs test? One of the things it measures is whether you are a Thinker or a Feeler (ie. whether someone makes decisions based on logic or emotion). The vast majority of Aspies are Thinkers, but it's possible that you have this opinion becuase you're an exception to this rule.
Thanks for confirming all the stereotypes of Asperger's that the general public keeps on reinforcing, that's gonna go a long way to help the atypical Aspies like myself find our voice...
I am very much against those stereotypes as well. I think people have a false interpretation of what AS is. AS is on a spectrum: there are those with AS that are very mathemathically inclined but are not socially savvy and lack empathy or understanding of other people's emotions, and then their are those who are more abstract thinkers that are very good socially and are too empathetic. I was misdiagnosed with AS when I was 17, and it was confirmed a misdiagnosis at 21. They had confirmed that although at the time I had some of the characteristics similar to AS, that I was just going through an awkward phase, and I grew out of it after adolescence. I really think that AS is an overdiagnosed condition. I really think that it should be classified as high-functioning autism, as I have researched people as a research psychiatrist who were misdiagnosed with AS because they had some characteristics similar to AS, but without the cognitive deviations characteristic of autism. They had characteristics similar to AS, but without the autism. These people, like myself, were misdiagnosed with something they didn't have. It's not like there's such a thing as "Asperger-affective disorder", you can't be diagnosed AS without the autism. Otherwise, you've been misdiagnosed with AS.
So AS should really be classified as HFA. But the people I've met with autism or HFA are honestly some of the sweetest, most genuine people I've ever met. And the majority of them are very social and very empathetic. It's just the one's that are more on the autistic spectrum that don't read other people's emotions well (empathy) and have trouble relating to people. But that doesn't mean that they can't change their behaviour, and that they aren't sweet people. In my experience, they're some of the kindest people I've met. Certainly more genuine than most neurotypicals I've met. I think that the world could benefit from those with HFA or AS. Everyone could learn decency and kindness to humanity from people with autism. And the world benefits from their gifts and their brilliance. You guys are a gift to society.
They tell us not to fear the results being used against us badly, like, Chris Marsh is not a candidate for management.
On the other hand, it has been established that I can handle very tedious data cleaning. We bought a Census database of contiguous county data and I got a list of errata off the Census Web site. We got free maps (and then we got proprietary high res maps when I was really stuck) and I fixed the database table we got off the database.
It was necessary to know which U.S. counties were contiguous for a government project.
When the data job would have NTs running, call me.
Nothing wrong with database cleaning job. If it suits do it. Well noone can easily take that from you. So long as they pay you properly. Always keep em guessing as to future work intentions if asked (in a subtle way if that is possible) to not let em take you for granted.
Forget the stereotypes everyone is different on the spectrum. Got to go & mow the lawn now YUK HATE IT. NOISY SWEATY and potential meltdown every time I do it but who is going to do it?
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Hopefully, someday soon, "aspie" will no longer be flagged by spell-check.
You are so right about that. I have noticed it although.
Yea, my case.
Some weeks ago I strongly argued with my boss about some music show, as I was aware that his position was strong, I believed that moment that my position was unbreakable. All ended that he said - it is impossible to argue with you, because you take no opinion into account. And it is true. All his arguments was week inside my logic.
This is my sense from my own internal reasonings, and from what I have observed in others. Others on the Autistic spectrum may have different experiences, since I can only speak from an individual standpoint.
From my earliest years, I saw colors in numbers. To me, that is the most logical thing.
It was a surprise when I found out that others could not do this.