07-10-2008, 05:53 AM
hi....i am new to this board. i am a member of another proautism board. while looking around over there i found this link
http://www.momlogic.com/2008/06/autism_d...nation.php
I am not sure if anyone has already posted about this, but i am sick sick sick about it!!! my children and i have endured discrimination, but nothing to this extent, and on top of that there are people-real, breathing, feeling people who thought this is all ok! those people should just sit down and shut up.
well, i am just not good at doing either of those things when it comes to my children and their civil rights!
if anyone knows how we can help these parents let me know and i will do what i can!
in the community i live in there is still alot of ignorance and people here seem to love aba, i abhore the entire concept of aba in all forms and fashions. i don't care if my kids look you in the eyes (that is for you not for them), i don't care if my son needs to stim to get into walmart, or if he sings everytime he goes into a bathroom. these are things that help them adapt to their surroundings. everyone should be able to adapt, to feel comfortable. aba does not help the person with autism it helps the parents feel like they have a normal kid.
i was the leader of an autism support and advocacy center in the town that we live in. one of the things we would do to promote acceptance is we would all get together and go to Golden corral (or any restraunt) wearing homemade autism awareness t-shirts ("My name is Eli and i have pddnos with sensory integration disorder. there is nothing wrong with me, i just think different." and then there were pictures of the kids all over the tshirt learning how to do life skill activities). There would be 20 families with children from each end of the spectrum, stimming, singing, and just being beautiful. when people would stare at us i would simply walk over to their table and give them a business card i made explaining the basics of autism.
this would usually end in a long conversation with questions being asked about some nephew or friend's kid.
my kids are older now, and alot of the extreme behaviors have subsided (at least out in public), still i know that if they get stressed then we may see the behaviors in public again.
i was just wondering if there are any other ideas for community awareness/acceptance that people are using. i would love to hear them!
thanks-grace
http://www.momlogic.com/2008/06/autism_d...nation.php
I am not sure if anyone has already posted about this, but i am sick sick sick about it!!! my children and i have endured discrimination, but nothing to this extent, and on top of that there are people-real, breathing, feeling people who thought this is all ok! those people should just sit down and shut up.
well, i am just not good at doing either of those things when it comes to my children and their civil rights!
if anyone knows how we can help these parents let me know and i will do what i can!
in the community i live in there is still alot of ignorance and people here seem to love aba, i abhore the entire concept of aba in all forms and fashions. i don't care if my kids look you in the eyes (that is for you not for them), i don't care if my son needs to stim to get into walmart, or if he sings everytime he goes into a bathroom. these are things that help them adapt to their surroundings. everyone should be able to adapt, to feel comfortable. aba does not help the person with autism it helps the parents feel like they have a normal kid.
i was the leader of an autism support and advocacy center in the town that we live in. one of the things we would do to promote acceptance is we would all get together and go to Golden corral (or any restraunt) wearing homemade autism awareness t-shirts ("My name is Eli and i have pddnos with sensory integration disorder. there is nothing wrong with me, i just think different." and then there were pictures of the kids all over the tshirt learning how to do life skill activities). There would be 20 families with children from each end of the spectrum, stimming, singing, and just being beautiful. when people would stare at us i would simply walk over to their table and give them a business card i made explaining the basics of autism.
this would usually end in a long conversation with questions being asked about some nephew or friend's kid.
my kids are older now, and alot of the extreme behaviors have subsided (at least out in public), still i know that if they get stressed then we may see the behaviors in public again.
i was just wondering if there are any other ideas for community awareness/acceptance that people are using. i would love to hear them!
thanks-grace