Aspies For Freedom

Do you guys think its possible to have a girlfriend if you have asperger's syndrome.  Im 22, never had a gf, a virgin, and never kissed a girl.  I want a gf though.  What do you think?

Wait, wait...so women who act extra confident are really, just insecure, and they want guys to make them feel good?   maybe I'm on the right track in my pursuit of someone, then.  Wow...

Though I have to disagree to an extent, about the OC making it cool to have a nerdy boyfriend.  At least in my area, nerdy guys are usually where women turn to, After they've had really tough relationships with the pretty-boy, jockish types.  I also read an article somewhere that said that females think that when guys are nice, they're just being desperate.    Guess I'm just "desperate" XD

I swear i find tomboys very attractive.  Except i think Ocampo is a lesbian.

You know, I was physically and verbally abused by my mom's relationships.  It was hell and i really havent forgiven my mom for it.  But you know what scares me right now, is that what if i become him?  I don't want to be an **** to any woman.

Also, im a nerdy guy. NERDS FTW

Yeah I ended up learning this the hard way.  One of my friends was in a bad mood, and she pronounced something wrong, and I....corrected her.  If she wasn't one of my best friends, I probalby would've had more than her left shoe thrown at me, and some raised voices.    I learned my lesson.  They are right, and I am worng, moreso when they are upset.

Are you guys even reading my comments?

Plus u live in Europe.  I live in the US.  That would suck for a relationship due to the long distance.

You won't become any of your mother's exes if you're clued up enough not to be like it, which you obviously are. Ultimately if you respect women, you won't be like it. Its people who have no respect for women that become wife beaters etc. Small man syndrome or whatever - although I know cases of domestic abuse in gay relationships.

Generally, if you love yourself, never mind love your partner, you'd never raise your hand to them. I've done *** things to my ex but I'd never have dreamed of hitting her.

Yeah my friends who are girls deal with *** boyfriends all the.  Where is the **** maturity at.  And women are just as guilty.  Ive seen it with my eyes and i hate it so much.

Man i wish i was more crazy.  I was more wild when i was a kid but when i was a teenager, i was involded in religion.  They taught me never date unless she was the one.  I am an agnostic now and have become more relaxed in my views.  Plus i feel so much better about myself.

I don't know what my selling point is. Without sounding up myself, I could get a guy if I wanted one no bother - I can banter with guys, I understand how their minds work... and yeah, I'm just like them, only female.

With women? I don't know. I frequently get told its my sense of humour.

Hah I just learned the value of never honestly answering the question "What's on your mind?"  this girl I really like, and have for a while. She knows I like her, but he has a bf (It's a long distance thing).  Well, I  told her exactly what had been bothering me.  She loves to talk about her bf, but at the same time, she's told me that she likes it that I I like her.  Well, that's really frustrating for me, right?  well, it was a bad idea to say anything about it, because now she's incredibly upset with me, told me she didn't care if I liked her or not (Further confusing me), and now I can't get in tough with her, until tomorrow night, since she's going to a relatives house.  She also told me it might be best if I didn't talk to her for a while so that I could "clear my head".

Any ideas how to tackle the enigma of the female mind in this situation?

No, I was more thinking of my own situation...

Id say keep her as friend.  That way, you can get to know her more.