Aspies For Freedom

Hi everyone, sorry I hadn’t talked lately as I was doing my exams. Anyway lately I have to accept that one of my friends doesn’t like me anymore, as it’s not worth  stressing about. We use to be good friends but know he became so hostile towards me that he even doesn’t want me hanging about with our friends. I got pissed off with that as I had loads of friends who ended up either shunning me or becoming such bullies, but I have to accept I can’t force him to treat me like equally. But from another viewpoint it’s not just my lost, it’s his as lately he became very selective of his friends lately. In addition towards my *** current social life, one of my close friends not returning to sixth form in September.

Basically I couldn’t care less  what’s happening right now.  Things looking bright for me since I finished my exams; I’m returning for year 13, I’m going to Belgium and France in July for the trenches and EuroDisney, I get to do the coursework of my choice in A2 History and I’m going to Washington DC for A2 Government and Politics. I couldn’t give a crap about my social life at the moment.

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good for you Joel -- always look on the bright side of life!!

Joel, those people weren't real "friends" they don't even know the meaning of the word, at some point in your life you will find people who value you for who you are and treat you with respect.  I'm really glad that you couldn't give a crap anymore and it sounds like you've got a lot going for you.  Leave those losers behind!

You know Joel, as I have gone through different stages in life, I have had a lot of friends to very few.  Now that I am in my 30's, I have started to allow myself a different view on friendships.  Those that are not fruitful to both parties, are not worth the bother.  I have better closer more honest friendships because of it.  I hope the same will be true for you, as soon as you are ready.