Hi everyone I'm back as my autie traits are bugging the hell out of me write now.
I met a guy I really liked last weekend, he was a but drunk but sobered up later so not totally wasted and I was not. All night he was hugging me, we got on real well, he kept hugging me and then apologysing for being drunk and huggy lots. We was later alone in my friend's living room on the sofa, his hugging was more like arms round me, leaning into me, stroking my hands (commenting on how small they were), made hints to his living situation (at his parents - ie being hard to take girls home), I swear he wanted to make a move but I think I gave off negative signels unintentionally, anyway I was brave enough to get his phone number, he asked me out later and also told my friend he liked me. He seems really busy genuinelly. Should we meet again, where do I go and how the hell do I turn up the flirting... my usual is text message but he does not seem very into text conversations.
Hi everyone I'm back as my autie traits are bugging the hell out of me write now.
I met a guy I really liked last weekend, he was a but drunk but sobered up later so not totally wasted and I was not. All night he was hugging me, we got on real well, he kept hugging me and then apologysing for being drunk and huggy lots. We was later alone in my friend's living room on the sofa, his hugging was more like arms round me, leaning into me, stroking my hands (commenting on how small they were), made hints to his living situation (at his parents - ie being hard to take girls home), I swear he wanted to make a move but I think I gave off negative signels unintentionally, anyway I was brave enough to get his phone number, he asked me out later and also told my friend he liked me. He seems really busy genuinelly. Should we meet again, where do I go and how the hell do I turn up the flirting... my usual is text message but he does not seem very into text conversations.
I've always found going out to see a movie together is a good idea. It gives you something to talk about afterwards. Don't worry about the flirting... just talk and enjoy time together and let things happen.
I could be wrong, but he may have been trying to have a good night,
Out walkin' the dinosaur?
I'M A GIRL AND STRAIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Lots of good thoughts there. I also like the idea of a movie, if only because I love films and miss having people to go with buts the pressure of me communicating all night.
We will see I am letting him get on with his work, I'll text him over the weekend.
Hmm. Should I ask a mod to remove my last post?? Sometimes I'm not sure where exactly the line is for what could be inappropriate for younger members. Sorry.
If I saw those youtubes, I might feel like throwing something at the monitor. It's a reaction to severe embarrassment.
Hmm. Should I ask a mod to remove my last post?? Sometimes I'm not sure where exactly the line is for what could be inappropriate for younger members. Sorry.
I can't watch YouTube at all on my old slow computer, but I have temporarily removed the post and asked the other mods to check out the videos. If they are OK the post can be restored. 
Hmm. Should I ask a mod to remove my last post?? Sometimes I'm not sure where exactly the line is for what could be inappropriate for younger members. Sorry.
I can't watch YouTube at all on my old slow computer, but I have temporarily removed the post and asked the other mods to check out the videos. If they are OK the post can be restored.
Seems fine to me - I've reapproved it...
Argh, EvilZakkie, your signature has foiled my plans again!!!! It's so goddamn entertaining, I waste whole minutes playing with it and totally forget what I was going to post!!!
Thank you Couldbecousin and EvilZackie. Sorry to be a pain (blush)
Argh, EvilZakkie, your signature has foiled my plans again!!!! It's so goddamn entertaining, I waste whole minutes playing with it and totally forget what I was going to post!!!
I play with Zakkie's sig thing too! It's rather addicting
Silky-you are never a pain. And all your different kinds of creatures are fascinating!
Argh, EvilZakkie, your signature has foiled my plans again!!!! It's so goddamn entertaining, I waste whole minutes playing with it and totally forget what I was going to post!!!
Aha! Then step one of my evil plan is complete... *grins*
Thank you Couldbecousin and EvilZackie. Sorry to be a pain (blush)
No trouble at all... *smiles*
I met a guy I really liked last weekend, he was a bit drunk but sobered up later so not totally wasted and I was not. All night he was hugging me, we got on real well, he kept hugging me and then apologising for being drunk and huggy lots. We was later alone in my friend's living room on the sofa, his hugging was more like arms round me, leaning into me, stroking my hands (commenting on how small they were), made hints to his living situation (at his parents - ie being hard to take girls home), I swear he wanted to make a move but I think I gave off negative signals unintentionally, anyway I was brave enough to get his phone number, he asked me out later and also told my friend he liked me.
How do you manage to meet men in circumstances where they get all physically affectionate with you straight away? The most affectionate smalltalk I ever get is "Nice day isn't it, how's the job" etc. Maybe it's because I'm English.