Aspies For Freedom

I posted a few threads ago.. that Iw as having some girl troubles and she actually has now trended colder against me as she's meeting other guys which is cool but I prob was to pushy or awkward which is typical . Anyway I'm not to upset about it. But I still somewhat like her.. Very Happy So anyway which of these 4 ways would be a good way to ask her. It's to hard to ask in person at a part time job so I'll ask on aim.

1. Hey I've put in my notice at CFA, so I've done it a year. yay, anyway it was great getting to know you and we should hang out sometime.

2. Hey I put in my notice at CFA, and I was wondering would you go to a movie with me? As I've really enjoyed getting to know you, and I prob won't see you again as I'm moving within the month.

3. Hey, I've really been happy to get to know you. I may seem a bit awkward as I have Asperger's Syndrome, but I was wondering if you would give me a chance and go on a date with me.

4. PLEASE DATE ME!

5. other (please explain).

She wouldn't give me her phone number, lol. Of course I asked casually, and after 2 weeks of knowing her and she was being truthful. And I know I may get a better response but since I likely will get a no either way I'd rather it be on aim.

Good point Natalie, I was considering that too but considering it is true that I won't likely see her again, I want to be as direct as possible without seeming weird.

Yea, I hear you. Although I do doubt if it will hurt to simply ask her to a movie. I will be leaving anyway so then it's now or never. I won't have to run into her again if she refuses.

Yes, we've worked together for almost a month now.

btw, I would not describe myself as eccentric, just awkward and kinda witty.

errm, she never said no?

yea you guys are right, f it.

Never. I won't now, I aimed her a few times, no reply. Maybe she was busy so I sent a message on fb saying sorry if I immed you to much as I see you didn't reply to me. I prob made it worse as she could had been busy but whatever, she was nice before. She replied to my message with "ok." so I basically threw my hands in the air and said next. why ask? She's already told me no, twice now. I've gotten the hint the 2nd time, no need to look even more like a creep than I already do.

Well I didn't ask her out,,, I just said hi to her. oh well

I gave up. lol I'm scared to even work with her now.

Well she ignored me on aim... so I'm sure she'll ingore me. I didn't ask her out, I just said hi and got ingored for no reason and when I asked her why she replies with a short answer . "ok", so it's up to her whether she ignores me in person or not and at this point I really don't care......................

I should ask her out just for the hell of it.

Well I'm almost about to say that I'd be better off asking a girl out that I didn't get to know so well and that I've not been around all that much. it's an interesting theory. but anyway guesswho, what could it hurt to ask, besides more rejection. I dunno, I saw her at work today and I just ignored her for the most part.

Errm, I guess you have a point. I'll try with another girl or in college when I'll actually be able to meet girls.