Many people, especially a lot of older people (Baby Boomers or older) or people that are "up-by-your bootstraps" fiscal conservatives, have a tendency to assume any explanation you give for problems you have is just an excuse to be lazy or be irresponsible. This attitude probably stems from the US's libertarian-oriented culture, in which considers the notion that "you can do anything as long as you try and work hard" as holy gospel, claiming otherwise gets you labeled with a moral fault like laziness.
It seems pretty obvious he is one of the sad lonely little people in the world... who thinks that just because he's going bald and is the wrong side of 30 that he's automatically the authority on everything.
Just leave him to have his little complexes about the world; anyone that always resorts to being such an arsehole on a forum on that regular a basis really needs to get a life. Everyone can lose it on their regular forums but there's losing it and being an uppity ****.
its not a "disease", honestly why do people say this, asperger people hae as much rights as any other human being!
Disease, I don't think so. I am of the opinion a disease progresses if not cured. My aspies is still the same from year dot to now. Its just a bit easier to understand with a dx where I stand. No progress, no regression. Just adjustment to NT. Let me go in a room by myself, work and no longer have a problem. Can't be a disease.
Wut? Did I misunderstand something, or did the conversation go something like this:
"I've always felt I'm more mature than most people my age"
"That's actually a very immature statement; you're probably the same as everyone else."
"Actually I have a form of autism, I'm really not the same as other people."
"Your having autism is no excuse for trying to make me admit I was wrong! I don't have to apologize because I'm some kind of ****!"
Seriously, it doesn't look like the OP did anything wrong.