02-28-2008, 01:31 AM
Why is it so necessary constantly say that famous people may have had AS? Do we have to prove ourselves to be supergeniuses to find acceptance? Isn't neurodiversity for it's own sake enough?
Well said Logical Paradox.
Knowing that "So and So" has AS does not make it any easier or harder to be me. Nor do I find it makes it easier to explain autism to anyone else. Their points of reference always seem to be mythical beliefs that all autistics (inc aspies) are savants with wonderful gifts. In reality I am sure that most of us are not so blessed. I know that I am not.
So what if I have an IQ of 155 (which incidentally I do) I will only be judged on my passage through this life not that someone else had a comparable condition.
Accept me, accept all of us, for who and what we are wonderfully unique individuals.
The publicity though is negative. Remember the trouble with Encyclopedia Dramatica? While they were of course exaggerating, the parody represents the NT view on autistic culture; a bunch of whinny brats out to prove how smart they are. NTs will think of us this way if we keep relaying on the "so and so had AS argument".
my thoughts
Zachrates - put his idea forward as "another thought"
There is a third option - the option put forward by Zachrates - you can decide you don't really care what another person thinks about you. This is choice I often take - people can think what they like - some people don't have the power to influence my life. I can be happy in my own right - regardless of other peoples opinion.
somehow - I think both of you would agree with these the appropriateness of these options.
Maybe you both like to debate - in which case fair enough.

Yes - in many situations going through harrassment isn't bearable - but in some situations deciding to accept there is nothing you can do to make someone like you - an option is to decide that the other persons opinion doesn't matter. Maybe not an easy option - but sometimes a beneficial one in that it can allow a feeling of peace.
In some situations there is nothing you can do to change someones mind - and caring too much what other people think of you - can allow their thoughts to have too much power over your state of mind.
Gays fought for justice and equality in society- as did women - their demand for equal civil rights drove their fight. I still come up against male chauvanists - I just think they are idiots. People with small minds. There are all sorts heirarchies in society - there will always be idiots.
Sometimes backing away from a fight and allowing other people to think whatever they want is the only way to gain peace of mind and live with a bit of peace and self respect.
Sometimes it is right to fight - other times it is best to ignore people with prejudice. Sometimes it is okay to do your best to conform to fit with the norm.
I think this whole thing is pretty simple, and it looks like you'd both probably actually agree if you both stopped butting heads.
People choose the degree to which they wish to fit in based on the things they want, and the things that are important to them.
Simen, you choose to do so more than Zachrates. Zachrates, you find personal expression to be more important than achieving goals.
Neither of these positions is incorrect, as they both apply to only one person - yourself. No-one gets to choose the criteria for another persons happiness.
This makes a lot of sense to me. It looks as if Zachrates' goal is personal expression and that is a perfectly acceptable aim to have in life.
I certainly don't believe in blind conformity ie. for the sake of it. I don't think that is what Simen is suggesting, but I doubt I could conform as much in life as he seems to be doing. It is not just a matter of not choosing to but being fundamentally unable to completely fit into the "norm".
While this may be true for most people, maybe I'm different then. A while ago, I decided that I will not let other's opinions sway me from my will. I refuse to change who I am simply because someone may or may not be acceptant of me. Whatever the consequences or outcome might be, at least I remain true to myself.
Basically the choice is always yours. My decision is fairly brash, I have lost 3 jobs so far because I refuse to lie or suck up to anyone. I will never lie for any reason, if it can be helped. But thats just how I feel, it may not be for everyone, but there will always be those who disagree with you, or hate you, even nonsensically. Letting it get to you will not solve anything, right? ^_^.
(Afterthought): Also, it's a fundamental human ability to change one's opinion and go against instinct. Thats why men don't go around impregnating a bazillion women or killing people they don't like (Well most of them, and they are capable of NOT doing those things). Or when I took San Soo, how I could get myself out of the instinct to back away from a punch, and change it instead to step in.
As for EvilZakkie...
This sounds like conspiracy theory to me. Never in the history of the world has anyone been able to legally, and with support (Minus actual wars) kill or force rehabilitation on the unwilling. Eugenic Genocide is a fairly extreme, and highly unlikely outcome. There's a reason politics have never swayed one way or the other for good, there's a reason that even though homosexuality is different, it has never been forcibly "cured" etc.
In order for this genocide to occur, you would have to assume that suddenly any ND organizations would suddenly vanish, to not defend your rights, and in addition to any political sphere's that might disagree.
I'd also like to point out that sometimes positive movement causes negative reaction too. Look at gay pride parades. I respect anyone's sexual disposition, however, they commit crimes in these parades, indecent exposure being the biggest. However, no one brings them to court, because they're gay. They get special treatment because of that, which makes me fairly annoyed, and un-supportive of their cause. I have a gay friend who thinks the same actually lol.
Anyway, I sort of rambled on, long story short, what matters in this world is what is important to you. If other's opinions matter to you, it's because you want them too. You could get along just fine not caring about any of it, and in fact, if you could achieve this, you'd be a much happier person.
For one, yes, people tried to forcibly "cure" homosexuality. There were therapists for it, and drugs too, and if you were a kid your parents could put you in therapy, and adults faced similar pressures. There are still some people who've been convinced that being gay is sinful and a mental illness that needs curing/saving them from.
Other people's thoughts can and do have significant consequences on us. It was because of other peers' thoughts that I was attacked on a regular basis in junior high and to a lesser degree in elementary school. It is because of what other people think about autistics that I have faced consistent harassment from school staff the last few years despite the overwhelmingly accepting nature of my fellow high school students.
As for genocide, there are a few points.
First, you don't have to eradicate EVERY single member of a group for it to be genocide - just the intent and the actual eradication of a portion, usually large, of that group.
It also does not have to originate from overt hatred, or for the perpetrating individuals and organizations to be malicious in intent. The threat of genocide to autistics is the melding of generocity and evil.
Also, anyone who thinks that a pre-natal test would be used only to help prepare parents and inform them early on, either has not seen the figures that 80-90% of babies pre-natally diagnosed with Down Syndrom are aborted, or they are hopelessly optimistic. Like I said, you don't need to get rid of every single member of a group, or line them up and shoot them, for it to be a genocide.
And there is no doubting the loads of negative imagery and descriptions afforded to autistics by the media. The more enlightened ones may have seen Rain Man or read an article in Newsweek that still leaves them with the dichotomous impression of autism as being either one or both of two things: a hopeless, tragic condition worse than death, or an eccentricity possessed largely by computer programmers and physicists.
My primary concern about relating the diagnoses of confirmed or likely autistic people such as Einstein, Dan Aykrod, or Bill Gates, is that people will then glom onto the latter stereotype. My best defense against this is to preface such a remark with "Of course, we're not all Einstein - who is?" (ignore the obvious literal answer that only Einstein is Einstein).
Another good way to counter and to balance this is through the increasing fame of autistic individuals who do need services, people who are disabled and proud, such as Amanda Baggs and Daniel Tammet. I think she's the most famous autistic person today living - probably a lot more famous than Vernon Smith, and an activist to boot (especially since the activism was what made people take notice). That way people understand that we're not a group of eccentric, Nobel Prize winners going on online forums and blogging about our self-evident right to existence (which really should be self-evident regardless of intelligence or material success, but some people have a hard time grasping this).
There seems to be some value in it, but the one circumstance I find it abhorrent is when someone says something along the lines of, "Autistic people shouldn't be eliminated because X was/is autistic, and they're a genius/celebrity." That argument is so worthless, not only because it's bull****, but also because it's so easily shot down ("Well, my kid is no Einstein, Gates...we're not talking about getting rid of your kind of people, just those kind.")
Basically, as long as it doesn't degenerate into that kind of scenario I put above, and as long as it doesn't divert useful time/energy from actual important causes, then it's not especially harmful. I don't see any use for further speculation, though, since we already know Dan Akroyd and Vernon Smith are official, and Gates and Einstein are highly likely (I relate to almost every single thing about his development and what he wrote of his perspectives on stuff, except that I started talking at an earlier age than he did). Incidentally, I always have found it odd when people equate the age you learn to talk with intelligence or something.
Considering Einstein's concern for social justice, I Somethings wonder what it'd be like if he were alive today, and an activist. Maybe more people would be aptention.