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Logical paradox Wrote:
Why is it so necessary constantly say that famous people may have had AS? Do we have to prove ourselves to be supergeniuses to find acceptance? Isn't neurodiversity for it's own sake enough?


Agreed, but it's occasionally useful as a "slap in the face" to stereotypes. For example, I only really bring the Einstein one up when people say autistics all have low IQ, or similar things.

Also, celebrities are recognisable and familiar to people, which often immediately convinces people that it's nothing to worry about. This means that knowing about officially dx'd celebrities such as Dan Akroyd or Darryl Hannah often comes in handy.

All that aside though, the main reasons I often participate in these sorts of discussions are that it helps to clarify what is and isn't an autistic trait, and also because it's fun.

Marcia, for truth.

Sunflower Wrote:
I think people can feel sorry for us because they think we are suffering. If we can use a famous person as an example, we can show people that AS does not have to be a barrier to success. Yes, it would be better if people would accept us for who we are, but it is a quick and simple way to show people that we can achieve things.

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I often will mention famous people with AS when describing my daughter to friends or new acquaintances so they can put it into context. I usually wait til they start shaking their heads or looking soulful and too sympathetic to let them subtly know that Hope doesn't "suffer" from AS though it is a challenge.

When I mention Dan (Ackroyd) or Neil (Young) or Bill (Gates) or Einstein their faces light up as if to say "oh, ok, then- she will be alright".

I especially need to do this when trying to find her a job in the community. Right now she volunteers, but by doing the above I was able to get Hope a volunteer job at Habitat for Humanity doing DATA ENTRY. Just yesterday they told us that not only is Hope fast, but they checked her work and she is accurate!

I also told her recently that I fully expect her to do as well in life as her NT, college-educated brother because I felt she had the drive and determination. She is, after all, a lot like me: a bulldog in many ways. I learned to be a bulldog, to be tough, to get what I want in life, from my Dad who's parents suffered a lot during the Great Depression. It all trickles down into the various generations I guess.

That said, Hope does not now resemble these famous Aspies I think. She is not the "brilliant" type (academically, creatively) - at least not yet.  There will be a slow unfolding where she is concerned I think.

Zachrates Wrote:
Here's another thought:

Why does it bother you what other people think in the first place?  Do they really matter that much?  Why allow them to have a hold over you when there's nothing you can do to stop all their opinions?


With autism, the consequences of negative publicity are very wide-reaching. One of the main autistic rights issues is the prevention of eugenic genocide.

Basically:

Negative publicity = Increased donations to Autism Speaks, or similar organisations.

Increased donations to Autism Speaks = Increased funding to negative publicity campaigns & pre-natal testing research.

Negative publicity campaigns + pre-natal testing = eugenic genocide.


Increased understanding of autism, on the other hands, means greater understanding of autistic issues, which in turn means more donations to support-based charities (as opposed to cure research charities).


So yeah, it's not just a self-esteem issue - it's critically important.


Also, there are things we can do to change their opinions. Most people believe what they do about autism because they have never knowingly met an autistic adult - all they know about are the problems children go through, and the various "pity" campaign ads they occasionally see.

By increasing our public profile on the internet, through real life groups, and by drawing attention to well-known autistic people, we can slowly turn public opinion around.

I know people that have looked into autism for the first time after following Heather Kuzmich on Americas Next Top Model. I've seen pro-cure debates stopped in their tracks after a single mention of Dan Akroyd, Darryll Hannah, or David Byrne.

Celebrity is valuable currency in autistic rights circles, and when it's helpful, I have no problem with cashing it in.

Zachrates Wrote:
As for EvilZakkie...

This sounds like conspiracy theory to me.  Never in the history of the world has anyone been able to legally, and with support (Minus actual wars) kill or force rehabilitation on the unwilling.  Eugenic Genocide is a fairly extreme, and highly unlikely outcome.  There's a reason politics have never swayed one way or the other for good, there's a reason that even though homosexuality is different, it has never been forcibly "cured" etc.

In order for this genocide to occur, you would have to assume that suddenly any ND organizations would suddenly vanish, to not defend your rights, and in addition to any political sphere's that might disagree.


I can understand that it might sound like a conspiracy theory, but really it's all out in the open - Autism Speaks are actively pursuing pre-natal testing research, and are actively engaged in negative publicity campaigns. They aren't doing this covertly, they're saying it in public, and unfortunately they have a lot of support for it.

I think the reason it sounds unrealistic is that genocide is often associated with wars - but negative publicity campaigns designed to reduce the number of autistic births still qualifies as genocide, as it's "Imposing measures intended to prevent births within the group" (from wikipedia).

To clarify, I don't think that anyone will "kill the unwilling". Forced rehabilitation, on the other hand, is going on even today.

The genocide I'm talking about is a campaign brought about by "nice" people - there's no group plotting to kill us all, just a group that would prefer that no more of us were born.

Logical paradox Wrote:

EvilZakkie Wrote:
Celebrity is valuable currency in autistic rights circles, and when it's helpful, I have no problem with cashing it in.


The publicity though is negative. Remember the trouble with Encyclopedia Dramatica? While they were of course exaggerating, the parody represents the NT view on autistic culture; a bunch of whinny brats out to prove how smart they are. NTs will think of us this way if we keep relaying on the "so and so had AS argument".


True - it's a tool that needs to be used carefully.

That being said, I think the people you're talking about are the ones that use these celebrities as a way of saying "autistics are superior" - which isn't really what I'm advocating.

Zachrates Wrote:
Zakkie...

But you think that just because one organization is speaking out about it, that it will make a difference?  Do you know how many people would be against it?  

Lets put this in perspective.  Here in America, the majority are Christian, and Republicans.

Why is it then, that abortion has not been outlawed, and gay marriage is being lawful in more and more states?  Not only is the entire liberal sphere going to be defending you, but so will the AACLU and other various organizations.  If one organization had any real hold over your lives, the KKK would be knocking at your door and asking where the black people are in your town.

I know it's scary, but you have to realize there's almost no possibility of any bill going through to make it compulsory to abort, kill, or correct autistic children.  In the long run, it will be up to the parents who have the kid in the first place.


I think we may have misinterpreted each other.

I don't believe that it will ever be compulsory to abort or kill autistic children - what I'm talking about is negative publicity campaigns, combined with pre-natal testing. This still fits the definition of genocide, as it is a measure designed to prevent births within the group.

Note that this doesn't say "prevent all births within the group". If the autistic figure is anything like the Downs Syndrome figure, though, 91-93% of autistic fetus's will be aborted, which will be enough to wipe us out in a couple of generations.

And unfortunately, very few people are against this.

Autism Speaks does not have the same stigma as the KKK - they are a major charity organisation, and are generally thought well of. People support them via misguided compassion, not via bigotry. Celebrities support them, major corporations (such as Toys 'R' Us & Starbucks) sponsor them. The things they do, they do because society supports them.

Simen Wrote:
I was assuming you'd want an end to the bad treatment. If you're a masochist, go ahead. If not, then choosing 1) will only prolong the bad treatment. Choosing 2) would either be a different wording of 1), or it would be trying to change their opinion of you, which entails caring about what other people think--depending on what you mean.


I think this whole thing is pretty simple, and it looks like you'd both probably actually agree if you both stopped butting heads.

People choose the degree to which they wish to fit in based on the things they want, and the things that are important to them.

Simen, you choose to do so more than Zachrates. Zachrates, you find personal expression to be more important than achieving goals.

Neither of these positions is incorrect, as they both apply to only one person - yourself. No-one gets to choose the criteria for another persons happiness.

Zachrates Wrote:
Ah I see.  When you said genocide I thought you meant instantaneous - my bad ^_^.  Like some men in black would come around to kill off the ones alive, and prevent their births.  So really, the problem is once again for people not thinking for themselves huh?

Thats the reason I don't really like people.  It really is just all up to the parents, however, downs syndrome doesn't seem like a good comparison.  Retardation is a far cry away from autism.  Downs syndrome really is a hindrance to everyone who has it, despite how self-efficient they are, it's never near what someone without it is.

I guess people feel they can be smart/talented without autism so they feel that it's an inconvenience more than a benefit.  I like the normal course of nature though >,<.


*grins* No probs.

I think Downs Syndrome has some of the same sorts of negative publicity as autism. I don't know a large number of Downs people, but the one I do know is quite socially adept (i.e. loud, funny, and well-liked), and is also quite an avid political activist.

I do know that there are accomplished Downs artists & actors. I've even heard that they have their own neurodiversity activists - though I've never actually met one.

Also, negative publicity campaigns on autism are far worse than those on Downs Syndrome.

Imagine if pre-natal testing for autism was available today, and a pregnant women was told her child may be autistic:

She might remember the NSW autism ads that I grew up with, with the slogan "What disorder can stop a child from loving their dog?".

She might go looking on the net, and find numerous blogs from parents moaning about how autism "stole their childs soul".

She might remember the numerous news articles about the autism "epidemic", or various autism "tragedies".

She might have seen Autism Speaks "Autism Everyday" video - featuring lots of kids having tantrums (no other footage of the kids was shown), parents complaining about their lives, and including the woman that stated she thought about "putting her autistic daughter in a car, and driving off a bridge". She also goes on to say the only reason she didn't so this is that she has another "normal" daughter at home. All said within earshot of her autistic daughter, of course.



Of course, I could be wrong, and the autistic abortion percentage could be, say, closer to the 70% mark - which would still be enough to do the job.

Simen Wrote:
Phew, these two last posts were long-winded, as usual. You know, you say a lot of wise things, EvilZakkie, and you're a fine debater. I admire that. But comments such as "it looks like you'd both probably actually agree if you both stopped butting heads" are a bit simplistic. Yes, there's some headbutting, and it's probably not strictly necessary. But there's also some substantial disagreement here. You need to see that behind the quarelling, there is sometimes substantial disagreement. It's not merely personal dislike.


It's simplistic, because I really think it's that simple.

I understand that there's a real debate, but I think the reason it's blown into a full-scale war is because both of you are attacking and polarising the others position, rather than discussing the issues. I believe that some statements made without thought have been drawn out to places they were never meant to go to. By "resetting the game", so to speak, I believe you can find a position you both agree on - you've both expressed similar sentiments on several things, after all.

My earlier statement was directed at both of you - I sought to present an opinion I believe you will both be able to agree on, and I'm hoping you can take things from there.

Simen Wrote:
I pride myself in being on-topic and not rely on personal attack or emotional appeal.


You've called him an idiot several times over. In fact, it's a common technique of yours to make blanket "this is stupid" or "this is idiotic" statements.

Perhaps you have an definition by which you do not consider these statements to be personal attacks. If so, it's irrelevant - these things are generally regarded as such.

I won't dignify that post with a reply. I'm not so insecure that I need to refute every ridiculous insult that comes my way.

Say, does anyone have anything more to say about the original topic?

Pakrat Wrote:

EvilZakkie Wrote:

Simen Wrote:
I was assuming you'd want an end to the bad treatment. If you're a masochist, go ahead. If not, then choosing 1) will only prolong the bad treatment. Choosing 2) would either be a different wording of 1), or it would be trying to change their opinion of you, which entails caring about what other people think--depending on what you mean.


I think this whole thing is pretty simple, and it looks like you'd both probably actually agree if you both stopped butting heads.

People choose the degree to which they wish to fit in based on the things they want, and the things that are important to them.

Simen, you choose to do so more than Zachrates. Zachrates, you find personal expression to be more important than achieving goals.

Neither of these positions is incorrect, as they both apply to only one person - yourself. No-one gets to choose the criteria for another persons happiness.

This makes a lot of sense to me. It looks as if Zachrates' goal is personal expression and that is a perfectly acceptable aim to have in life.

I certainly don't believe in blind conformity ie. for the sake of it. I don't think that is what Simen is suggesting, but I doubt I could conform as much in life as he seems to be doing. It is not just a matter of not choosing to but being fundamentally unable to completely fit into the "norm".


Well, not really. I'm far from being normative. I'm a bit weird.

I just take issue with the idea that most people could, or should never conform.

I see there's someone sensible here at last Smile

Earthmonkey, I mostly agree with you. The one thing I take issue with is your assertion that it's highly likely Einstein was an aspie--we've had at least one, possibly several long discussions on this (you can probably find them if you search), so I won't repeat myself too much, but suffice it to say that 1) I'm skeptical of diagnosis of people long dead, often people who died before the person making the diagnosis was even born, and 2) there's accounts of Einstein being pretty social.

And also, it's not clear from what you write about genocide whether you think there's an actual genocide towards autistics going on--if you think so, I'd take issue with that too.
Oh, and one more thing about Einstein: even if you have some example of eccentric behavior or weird social interaction, you must account for the fact that he's the archetypical genius. I wouldn't be so quick to chalk it up to AS when you're talking about a man widely regarded as one of the most intelligent people in the history of mankind. I'd be surprised if some strange behavior *didn't* result from that.
whoa...member number 95....

back on topic;

I feel that, in time, even if a cure where to be found, they would come to realise this.

we are currently on target for Technological Singularity (2020); start taking aspies out of the equation, however, and you are looking at prolonging that duration.
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