Seriously. How could you work with people you hated? Or, maybe more correctly, who annoyed you?
I was wondering that as well
It does depend on connotation. For example, the sentence, "Jamie is mentally retarded", wouldn't be offensive. It's an older term, but it's descriptive, not a slur. But when you call all autistic people "retards", you're using a derivative of the original term which was always quite offensive... not to mention being quite ignorant, because autistic people aren't all "retarded". Usually not, actually.
yes there is that difference between the medical terminology and insult
I actually like the term "retarded", if you drop the connotation. Literally, it means "slowed"--which is exactly what it is; a child's development stretched out over a longer timetable, so that he learns to speak at four, learns to tie his shoes at ten, learns to read at twelve... "Developmentally delayed", the new term, doesn't have quite the right meaning to me. It's as though development is paused, rather than slowed. Even a kid in the severe range isn't paused--he's learning; he's just got his own schedule for it.
I don't know I still don't really like the word probably from all the misuse of it over the years.
Anyway, the way he meant it was pretty offensive, and I guess they thought they'd make the show more dramatic by leaving it in, not caring that there's probably an autism mom out there watching the show and crying because yet another idiot human just called her precious child a retard.
I have to agree it makes me sick and angry the way these people think that just because we have a diferent wiring of the brain we can be treated like garbage
I'm gonna go shop at Lowe's now.
Have fun!!! 